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Aftershock68

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Hi Jen,
Holy cow! You sound just like me! I too was cheated on by my husband. I too felt like I din't deserve love and why should I expect anyone to want to deal with my CF when I don't even want to deal with it most of the time. That's when I came across this website and posted on it. Wouldn't you know it, I found tons of people who feel the same way I do. That's what so great about a support group website for us!! We realize we aren't alone! Girl, you absolutely deserve love!! We all do!! We are all incredibly strong individuals with a lot on our plates who still manage to get up every morning and go throughout the day with our heads held high! We deal with this disease with strength and perseverance where others would fall and wither away!! Your husband doesn't deserve you, and if I were you, I would cut him loose!! Don't wait for him to change, he isn't going to! Do not give up hope!! One day, you will find a guy who will treat you how you deserve to be treated and cherish you!! Your CF doesn't define you! I'm learning that too! If you need to talk or vent, get on here and do it! That's what we are here for!! You are strong, you will get through this!! God bless and I'm sorry you hurt right now. I promise it gets easier! ~CJ w/CF 42yrs. young
 
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Aftershock68

Guest
Hi Jen,
<br />Holy cow! You sound just like me! I too was cheated on by my husband. I too felt like I din't deserve love and why should I expect anyone to want to deal with my CF when I don't even want to deal with it most of the time. That's when I came across this website and posted on it. Wouldn't you know it, I found tons of people who feel the same way I do. That's what so great about a support group website for us!! We realize we aren't alone! Girl, you absolutely deserve love!! We all do!! We are all incredibly strong individuals with a lot on our plates who still manage to get up every morning and go throughout the day with our heads held high! We deal with this disease with strength and perseverance where others would fall and wither away!! Your husband doesn't deserve you, and if I were you, I would cut him loose!! Don't wait for him to change, he isn't going to! Do not give up hope!! One day, you will find a guy who will treat you how you deserve to be treated and cherish you!! Your CF doesn't define you! I'm learning that too! If you need to talk or vent, get on here and do it! That's what we are here for!! You are strong, you will get through this!! God bless and I'm sorry you hurt right now. I promise it gets easier! ~CJ w/CF 42yrs. young
 
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Aftershock68

Guest
Hey Poppalung!
How did I do? LoL I took the advice you gave me and handed it to Jen. Just wanted you to know that your knowledge is being spread!!!
Thanks again!
 
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Aftershock68

Guest
Hey Poppalung!
How did I do? LoL I took the advice you gave me and handed it to Jen. Just wanted you to know that your knowledge is being spread!!!
Thanks again!
 
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Aftershock68

Guest
Hey Poppalung!
<br />How did I do? LoL I took the advice you gave me and handed it to Jen. Just wanted you to know that your knowledge is being spread!!!
<br />Thanks again!
 
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PoppaLung

Guest
Flattered and amazed, Aftershock, flattered and amazed! Sorry I didn't see this sooner!

Sorry that dudes are so DUMB. I hope you'll update us, Jenhum.
 
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PoppaLung

Guest
Flattered and amazed, Aftershock, flattered and amazed! Sorry I didn't see this sooner!

Sorry that dudes are so DUMB. I hope you'll update us, Jenhum.
 
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PoppaLung

Guest
Flattered and amazed, Aftershock, flattered and amazed! Sorry I didn't see this sooner!
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<br />Sorry that dudes are so DUMB. I hope you'll update us, Jenhum.
 

angelrn00

New member
Hi Jenny! I just wanted to tell you that you should NEVER EVER feel guilty about wanting love!! EVER!! my husband has said that before too, we have been together 8 yrs. you say you worry about what may come in the next 10 yrs, but the next 10 yrs may stay stable. none of us know!! we have had our up and down moments with health and otherwise, and the past couple months has been pretty rough. i worry about him alot, but we can't let it consume us. i would not trade him for anyone in the world. sounds like that jerk you've been with does not truly love you the way you deserve anyway!! you are not your disease and any man would be lucky to have you two ladies in his life! any man who is worth it isn't going to let that get in his way either! so do what you know is right for you and your daughter! try not to worry about what may or may not happen (health, love,life in general) and you will probably be pleasantly suprised!
angel
 

angelrn00

New member
Hi Jenny! I just wanted to tell you that you should NEVER EVER feel guilty about wanting love!! EVER!! my husband has said that before too, we have been together 8 yrs. you say you worry about what may come in the next 10 yrs, but the next 10 yrs may stay stable. none of us know!! we have had our up and down moments with health and otherwise, and the past couple months has been pretty rough. i worry about him alot, but we can't let it consume us. i would not trade him for anyone in the world. sounds like that jerk you've been with does not truly love you the way you deserve anyway!! you are not your disease and any man would be lucky to have you two ladies in his life! any man who is worth it isn't going to let that get in his way either! so do what you know is right for you and your daughter! try not to worry about what may or may not happen (health, love,life in general) and you will probably be pleasantly suprised!
angel
 

angelrn00

New member
Hi Jenny! I just wanted to tell you that you should NEVER EVER feel guilty about wanting love!! EVER!! my husband has said that before too, we have been together 8 yrs. you say you worry about what may come in the next 10 yrs, but the next 10 yrs may stay stable. none of us know!! we have had our up and down moments with health and otherwise, and the past couple months has been pretty rough. i worry about him alot, but we can't let it consume us. i would not trade him for anyone in the world. sounds like that jerk you've been with does not truly love you the way you deserve anyway!! you are not your disease and any man would be lucky to have you two ladies in his life! any man who is worth it isn't going to let that get in his way either! so do what you know is right for you and your daughter! try not to worry about what may or may not happen (health, love,life in general) and you will probably be pleasantly suprised!
<br />angel
 
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