coltsfan715
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Leeza,
I am so sorry that you are having this issue at all. I unfortunately do know ohw you feel to some extent. I don't recall ever having the crash my car into a tree thought, but there were others.
I was diagnosed with CF at 1 yr old. I have dealt with being sick my entire life in and out of hospitals that became my norm. Though I only had 1 hospital stay a year for most of my life. When I hit about 17-18 yrs old I started to have more issues. I started to live my life really fast cause I wanted to fit everything in. I slwoed down at around 21 because I had done all the things that kids my age were supposed to do and I was over it. I started to get much worse at around that age. I was sick more often, going in the hospital more frequently and so on. Things just were not as stable as they had been in the past. I was able to maintain a good attitude until about 2005 (when I turned 23).
After my 23rd birthday, I had a partial lung collapse and lost about 10-15% of my lung function (which was already at 40-45% before the collapse). I struggled to get that back with no luck. I was hospitalized 4 times in 2006 and started to see the end speeding toward me. I didn't want to get to "that point" where my whole world was over and I was just barely getting by. I went through the process for transplant and had a lung transplant in May of this year. What I realize now is that even though I didn't want to get to that point I did and I did okay. My life in my mind was spinning out of control and there was no way for me to stop it or slow it down or anything. Everything I tried that helped other people just seemed to make me worse or do nothing at all.
I started counselling at the encouragement of my mom and my fiance and it helped me tremendously. Just the coping - it didn't make things more stable really - nothing but my mind anyway. I did find that it is normal to be overwhelmed, confused, upset and so on. It is important to keep yourself from being consumed with those feelings though. Just knowing how much therapy/counseling helped me I think it may be something you would find beneficial as well. Just make sure if you pursue it that you find someone you feel comfortable with - even if it means you go to several different people before deciding on one in particular. You will know when you find them - if you go looking at all.
I hope things start to settle in your life and you are able to find some joy and happiness within the craziness.
Take Care
Lindsey
I am so sorry that you are having this issue at all. I unfortunately do know ohw you feel to some extent. I don't recall ever having the crash my car into a tree thought, but there were others.
I was diagnosed with CF at 1 yr old. I have dealt with being sick my entire life in and out of hospitals that became my norm. Though I only had 1 hospital stay a year for most of my life. When I hit about 17-18 yrs old I started to have more issues. I started to live my life really fast cause I wanted to fit everything in. I slwoed down at around 21 because I had done all the things that kids my age were supposed to do and I was over it. I started to get much worse at around that age. I was sick more often, going in the hospital more frequently and so on. Things just were not as stable as they had been in the past. I was able to maintain a good attitude until about 2005 (when I turned 23).
After my 23rd birthday, I had a partial lung collapse and lost about 10-15% of my lung function (which was already at 40-45% before the collapse). I struggled to get that back with no luck. I was hospitalized 4 times in 2006 and started to see the end speeding toward me. I didn't want to get to "that point" where my whole world was over and I was just barely getting by. I went through the process for transplant and had a lung transplant in May of this year. What I realize now is that even though I didn't want to get to that point I did and I did okay. My life in my mind was spinning out of control and there was no way for me to stop it or slow it down or anything. Everything I tried that helped other people just seemed to make me worse or do nothing at all.
I started counselling at the encouragement of my mom and my fiance and it helped me tremendously. Just the coping - it didn't make things more stable really - nothing but my mind anyway. I did find that it is normal to be overwhelmed, confused, upset and so on. It is important to keep yourself from being consumed with those feelings though. Just knowing how much therapy/counseling helped me I think it may be something you would find beneficial as well. Just make sure if you pursue it that you find someone you feel comfortable with - even if it means you go to several different people before deciding on one in particular. You will know when you find them - if you go looking at all.
I hope things start to settle in your life and you are able to find some joy and happiness within the craziness.
Take Care
Lindsey