Time for an update. VERY up and down experience so far. Heather has been in and out of the hospital while doing rehab. She needed some albumin, and then turned out to be one in a million who is allergic to it. Her breathing ran into trouble, she lost her blood pressure, and had to go back on the ventilator for a few days. I saw her just after the breathing tube had come out, and she had gained over 50# in water weight as the doctors had to pump her up with fluids to save her blood pressure. She got all that peed off, then had to come in for a day or two again for possible infections. Back out to the rehab apartment, and the chance to do things with her daughter.
Somehow in there, she found time to get engaged to a nice guy she has been seeing. I don't know how she squeezed all that romance in, but it happened, and she has a ring on her finger and is with a nice guy she knew in high school. No moss growing on her shoes!
Sadly though, I must report that as of a day ago she is back on the ventilator in ICU with the possibility of rejection and ARDS, adult respiratory distress syndrome. This is not good, and as an RT, I am sick to my stomach to hear this. I still want to dance with her at her wedding, but ARDS complicates things a lot. There are a number of new meds out there that we can use, but the mortality rate is still daunting, and has not improved despite all the treatment options. Her transplant was three months ago, and she has had some setbacks and come through, so I am hoping that she will be tough enough to beat this one too. It is much more a problem to have the ARDS and rejection setting in.
And so, I am still waiting for a call, but am scared of what it might say...