pregnancy complications

austinchick

New member
Wow!! Sad to say, that doesn't surprise me in the least! I am so sorry that you had to go through all of that. When we go tomorrow to the doctor appt. I am going to bring this up to make sure he is clear on what we need. If he can't do the test then I will try to use those labs you mentioned. Thank you! I don't think these doctors know how important it is to us to check every possible mutation.
 

austinchick

New member
Wow!! Sad to say, that doesn't surprise me in the least! I am so sorry that you had to go through all of that. When we go tomorrow to the doctor appt. I am going to bring this up to make sure he is clear on what we need. If he can't do the test then I will try to use those labs you mentioned. Thank you! I don't think these doctors know how important it is to us to check every possible mutation.
 

austinchick

New member
Wow!! Sad to say, that doesn't surprise me in the least! I am so sorry that you had to go through all of that. When we go tomorrow to the doctor appt. I am going to bring this up to make sure he is clear on what we need. If he can't do the test then I will try to use those labs you mentioned. Thank you! I don't think these doctors know how important it is to us to check every possible mutation.
 

austinchick

New member
Wow!! Sad to say, that doesn't surprise me in the least! I am so sorry that you had to go through all of that. When we go tomorrow to the doctor appt. I am going to bring this up to make sure he is clear on what we need. If he can't do the test then I will try to use those labs you mentioned. Thank you! I don't think these doctors know how important it is to us to check every possible mutation.
 

austinchick

New member
Wow!! Sad to say, that doesn't surprise me in the least! I am so sorry that you had to go through all of that. When we go tomorrow to the doctor appt. I am going to bring this up to make sure he is clear on what we need. If he can't do the test then I will try to use those labs you mentioned. Thank you! I don't think these doctors know how important it is to us to check every possible mutation.
 

JazzysMom

New member
My pregnancy was fabulous. I did develop gestational diabetes, but that is not unheard of even without CF.

I worked full time, looked & felt the best I had in a long time. My pregnancy definitely agreed with me.

In my 8th month I did develop hemoptysis which was not a surprise given my LONG history of it. I was actually surprised it took so long to rear its head.

So I went in for a tune up to make sure things were ok & while in....it was decided for ME that it be best I deliver a bit early by c section due to my history of hemoptysis.

Things went fine. My daughter stayed a few extra days in NICU until she got the hang of sucking/swallowing & she hasnt looked back since LOL!

I returned to work full time when she was 5 months old. I ended up quitting altogether when she was almost 2.

I wasnt handling wife, mom & employees rolls well. I also was not very compliant with treatments & during a portion of this time my husband worked far from home so I was like a single Mom for a few months.

Many woman have had good pregnancies & many have had a tough time from the start.

Either way....the pregancy is the easy part. Its the caring of the child (hence adoption doesnt rule out problems with ones health) that takes its toll.
 

JazzysMom

New member
My pregnancy was fabulous. I did develop gestational diabetes, but that is not unheard of even without CF.

I worked full time, looked & felt the best I had in a long time. My pregnancy definitely agreed with me.

In my 8th month I did develop hemoptysis which was not a surprise given my LONG history of it. I was actually surprised it took so long to rear its head.

So I went in for a tune up to make sure things were ok & while in....it was decided for ME that it be best I deliver a bit early by c section due to my history of hemoptysis.

Things went fine. My daughter stayed a few extra days in NICU until she got the hang of sucking/swallowing & she hasnt looked back since LOL!

I returned to work full time when she was 5 months old. I ended up quitting altogether when she was almost 2.

I wasnt handling wife, mom & employees rolls well. I also was not very compliant with treatments & during a portion of this time my husband worked far from home so I was like a single Mom for a few months.

Many woman have had good pregnancies & many have had a tough time from the start.

Either way....the pregancy is the easy part. Its the caring of the child (hence adoption doesnt rule out problems with ones health) that takes its toll.
 

JazzysMom

New member
My pregnancy was fabulous. I did develop gestational diabetes, but that is not unheard of even without CF.

I worked full time, looked & felt the best I had in a long time. My pregnancy definitely agreed with me.

In my 8th month I did develop hemoptysis which was not a surprise given my LONG history of it. I was actually surprised it took so long to rear its head.

So I went in for a tune up to make sure things were ok & while in....it was decided for ME that it be best I deliver a bit early by c section due to my history of hemoptysis.

Things went fine. My daughter stayed a few extra days in NICU until she got the hang of sucking/swallowing & she hasnt looked back since LOL!

I returned to work full time when she was 5 months old. I ended up quitting altogether when she was almost 2.

I wasnt handling wife, mom & employees rolls well. I also was not very compliant with treatments & during a portion of this time my husband worked far from home so I was like a single Mom for a few months.

Many woman have had good pregnancies & many have had a tough time from the start.

Either way....the pregancy is the easy part. Its the caring of the child (hence adoption doesnt rule out problems with ones health) that takes its toll.
 

JazzysMom

New member
My pregnancy was fabulous. I did develop gestational diabetes, but that is not unheard of even without CF.

I worked full time, looked & felt the best I had in a long time. My pregnancy definitely agreed with me.

In my 8th month I did develop hemoptysis which was not a surprise given my LONG history of it. I was actually surprised it took so long to rear its head.

So I went in for a tune up to make sure things were ok & while in....it was decided for ME that it be best I deliver a bit early by c section due to my history of hemoptysis.

Things went fine. My daughter stayed a few extra days in NICU until she got the hang of sucking/swallowing & she hasnt looked back since LOL!

I returned to work full time when she was 5 months old. I ended up quitting altogether when she was almost 2.

I wasnt handling wife, mom & employees rolls well. I also was not very compliant with treatments & during a portion of this time my husband worked far from home so I was like a single Mom for a few months.

Many woman have had good pregnancies & many have had a tough time from the start.

Either way....the pregancy is the easy part. Its the caring of the child (hence adoption doesnt rule out problems with ones health) that takes its toll.
 

JazzysMom

New member
My pregnancy was fabulous. I did develop gestational diabetes, but that is not unheard of even without CF.
<br />
<br />I worked full time, looked & felt the best I had in a long time. My pregnancy definitely agreed with me.
<br />
<br />In my 8th month I did develop hemoptysis which was not a surprise given my LONG history of it. I was actually surprised it took so long to rear its head.
<br />
<br />So I went in for a tune up to make sure things were ok & while in....it was decided for ME that it be best I deliver a bit early by c section due to my history of hemoptysis.
<br />
<br />Things went fine. My daughter stayed a few extra days in NICU until she got the hang of sucking/swallowing & she hasnt looked back since LOL!
<br />
<br />I returned to work full time when she was 5 months old. I ended up quitting altogether when she was almost 2.
<br />
<br />I wasnt handling wife, mom & employees rolls well. I also was not very compliant with treatments & during a portion of this time my husband worked far from home so I was like a single Mom for a few months.
<br />
<br />Many woman have had good pregnancies & many have had a tough time from the start.
<br />
<br />Either way....the pregancy is the easy part. Its the caring of the child (hence adoption doesnt rule out problems with ones health) that takes its toll.
 

kerry92386

New member
Hello, all, first posting, I have some experience in this topic. First son, Cordell, was born 12 years ago, uneventful pregnancy except at the end when it was harder to breathe, a few courses of IV antibiotics. Cordell was healthy and me too. I was single mom for 6 years, got married, underwent gene testing for my husband to see if he was a carrier and he wasn't.

So, after 2 years of marriage, FEVs above 70, used natural family planning to conceive second child Aiden. I was very sick from the start of the second pregnancy, catching colds and coughing so much for the entire pregnancy, in the hospital starting at 24 weeks until my condition deteriorated and I had to be put on a ventilator when I was 29 weeks, 3 days pregnant. This meant the baby had to be born prematurely, nobody knew how it would turn out for him or me. Aiden was born 3 lbs 5 ounces and healthy, only on vent for 12 hours, amazing miracle, praise be to God! I did not fare so well, and was ventilated for more than 3 weeks, was not expected to live at all at some points and given a 50/50 chance that I would ever be without a ventilator to help me breathe. By God's grace, I also defied the odds and made it 3 and half years later, I'm off a ventilator and waiting (21 months so far) for a double lung transplant. I went home 2 months after Aiden was born and have had multiple complications but all pale in comparison to the great joy of having Aiden has a member of our family. By age 2, he caught up to all the benchmarks and standards of a normal 2 year old. He is thriving and my inspiration to the next step of becoming a lung transplant recipient.

I hope and pray when you read about my experience, you notice two things: <b>1. miracles still happen</b> and <b>2. Cystic Fibrosis</b> (although it has made me who I am today- I wouldn't be who I am without it) <b>is a disease that is unashamedly thoughtless and careless, not at all predictable or dependable even in pregnancy</b>. My doctor had no reason to think I would have all the problems I did when I got pregnant because I was doing pretty well. By the end of the pregnancy, my FEVs were 30 and they didn't go back up.

Now, take it for what its worth, but here's my advice..... One part of my second pregnancy that I wished would have been done differently is that I wish my OB/GYN and my pulmonary doctors would have communicated a lot more and been more team players than they were. They were comfortable talking to me but not each other and I suffered for it. Make sure you have a top-of-the-notch CF doctor that supports you being pregnant and is aggressive in treating you all the way through. Also, make sure you are aware of every detail of your health before you get pregnant, if possible. Get a bone scan, diabetes testing, MRI/catscan of chest, etc. This is important because pregnancy limits the drugs you can take and limits the treatability of those conditions. For example, some CF centers don't routinely check blood tests (called IgE testing) to diagnose Allergic BronchoPulmonary Aspergillus (ABPA is a condition which may effect up to 10% of adults with CF). To my knowledge, it is difficult to adequately treat this condition during pregnancy so you would want to plan accordingly. That is my two cents worth, based solely on experience.

Sorry so long.
 

kerry92386

New member
Hello, all, first posting, I have some experience in this topic. First son, Cordell, was born 12 years ago, uneventful pregnancy except at the end when it was harder to breathe, a few courses of IV antibiotics. Cordell was healthy and me too. I was single mom for 6 years, got married, underwent gene testing for my husband to see if he was a carrier and he wasn't.

So, after 2 years of marriage, FEVs above 70, used natural family planning to conceive second child Aiden. I was very sick from the start of the second pregnancy, catching colds and coughing so much for the entire pregnancy, in the hospital starting at 24 weeks until my condition deteriorated and I had to be put on a ventilator when I was 29 weeks, 3 days pregnant. This meant the baby had to be born prematurely, nobody knew how it would turn out for him or me. Aiden was born 3 lbs 5 ounces and healthy, only on vent for 12 hours, amazing miracle, praise be to God! I did not fare so well, and was ventilated for more than 3 weeks, was not expected to live at all at some points and given a 50/50 chance that I would ever be without a ventilator to help me breathe. By God's grace, I also defied the odds and made it 3 and half years later, I'm off a ventilator and waiting (21 months so far) for a double lung transplant. I went home 2 months after Aiden was born and have had multiple complications but all pale in comparison to the great joy of having Aiden has a member of our family. By age 2, he caught up to all the benchmarks and standards of a normal 2 year old. He is thriving and my inspiration to the next step of becoming a lung transplant recipient.

I hope and pray when you read about my experience, you notice two things: <b>1. miracles still happen</b> and <b>2. Cystic Fibrosis</b> (although it has made me who I am today- I wouldn't be who I am without it) <b>is a disease that is unashamedly thoughtless and careless, not at all predictable or dependable even in pregnancy</b>. My doctor had no reason to think I would have all the problems I did when I got pregnant because I was doing pretty well. By the end of the pregnancy, my FEVs were 30 and they didn't go back up.

Now, take it for what its worth, but here's my advice..... One part of my second pregnancy that I wished would have been done differently is that I wish my OB/GYN and my pulmonary doctors would have communicated a lot more and been more team players than they were. They were comfortable talking to me but not each other and I suffered for it. Make sure you have a top-of-the-notch CF doctor that supports you being pregnant and is aggressive in treating you all the way through. Also, make sure you are aware of every detail of your health before you get pregnant, if possible. Get a bone scan, diabetes testing, MRI/catscan of chest, etc. This is important because pregnancy limits the drugs you can take and limits the treatability of those conditions. For example, some CF centers don't routinely check blood tests (called IgE testing) to diagnose Allergic BronchoPulmonary Aspergillus (ABPA is a condition which may effect up to 10% of adults with CF). To my knowledge, it is difficult to adequately treat this condition during pregnancy so you would want to plan accordingly. That is my two cents worth, based solely on experience.

Sorry so long.
 

kerry92386

New member
Hello, all, first posting, I have some experience in this topic. First son, Cordell, was born 12 years ago, uneventful pregnancy except at the end when it was harder to breathe, a few courses of IV antibiotics. Cordell was healthy and me too. I was single mom for 6 years, got married, underwent gene testing for my husband to see if he was a carrier and he wasn't.

So, after 2 years of marriage, FEVs above 70, used natural family planning to conceive second child Aiden. I was very sick from the start of the second pregnancy, catching colds and coughing so much for the entire pregnancy, in the hospital starting at 24 weeks until my condition deteriorated and I had to be put on a ventilator when I was 29 weeks, 3 days pregnant. This meant the baby had to be born prematurely, nobody knew how it would turn out for him or me. Aiden was born 3 lbs 5 ounces and healthy, only on vent for 12 hours, amazing miracle, praise be to God! I did not fare so well, and was ventilated for more than 3 weeks, was not expected to live at all at some points and given a 50/50 chance that I would ever be without a ventilator to help me breathe. By God's grace, I also defied the odds and made it 3 and half years later, I'm off a ventilator and waiting (21 months so far) for a double lung transplant. I went home 2 months after Aiden was born and have had multiple complications but all pale in comparison to the great joy of having Aiden has a member of our family. By age 2, he caught up to all the benchmarks and standards of a normal 2 year old. He is thriving and my inspiration to the next step of becoming a lung transplant recipient.

I hope and pray when you read about my experience, you notice two things: <b>1. miracles still happen</b> and <b>2. Cystic Fibrosis</b> (although it has made me who I am today- I wouldn't be who I am without it) <b>is a disease that is unashamedly thoughtless and careless, not at all predictable or dependable even in pregnancy</b>. My doctor had no reason to think I would have all the problems I did when I got pregnant because I was doing pretty well. By the end of the pregnancy, my FEVs were 30 and they didn't go back up.

Now, take it for what its worth, but here's my advice..... One part of my second pregnancy that I wished would have been done differently is that I wish my OB/GYN and my pulmonary doctors would have communicated a lot more and been more team players than they were. They were comfortable talking to me but not each other and I suffered for it. Make sure you have a top-of-the-notch CF doctor that supports you being pregnant and is aggressive in treating you all the way through. Also, make sure you are aware of every detail of your health before you get pregnant, if possible. Get a bone scan, diabetes testing, MRI/catscan of chest, etc. This is important because pregnancy limits the drugs you can take and limits the treatability of those conditions. For example, some CF centers don't routinely check blood tests (called IgE testing) to diagnose Allergic BronchoPulmonary Aspergillus (ABPA is a condition which may effect up to 10% of adults with CF). To my knowledge, it is difficult to adequately treat this condition during pregnancy so you would want to plan accordingly. That is my two cents worth, based solely on experience.

Sorry so long.
 

kerry92386

New member
Hello, all, first posting, I have some experience in this topic. First son, Cordell, was born 12 years ago, uneventful pregnancy except at the end when it was harder to breathe, a few courses of IV antibiotics. Cordell was healthy and me too. I was single mom for 6 years, got married, underwent gene testing for my husband to see if he was a carrier and he wasn't.

So, after 2 years of marriage, FEVs above 70, used natural family planning to conceive second child Aiden. I was very sick from the start of the second pregnancy, catching colds and coughing so much for the entire pregnancy, in the hospital starting at 24 weeks until my condition deteriorated and I had to be put on a ventilator when I was 29 weeks, 3 days pregnant. This meant the baby had to be born prematurely, nobody knew how it would turn out for him or me. Aiden was born 3 lbs 5 ounces and healthy, only on vent for 12 hours, amazing miracle, praise be to God! I did not fare so well, and was ventilated for more than 3 weeks, was not expected to live at all at some points and given a 50/50 chance that I would ever be without a ventilator to help me breathe. By God's grace, I also defied the odds and made it 3 and half years later, I'm off a ventilator and waiting (21 months so far) for a double lung transplant. I went home 2 months after Aiden was born and have had multiple complications but all pale in comparison to the great joy of having Aiden has a member of our family. By age 2, he caught up to all the benchmarks and standards of a normal 2 year old. He is thriving and my inspiration to the next step of becoming a lung transplant recipient.

I hope and pray when you read about my experience, you notice two things: <b>1. miracles still happen</b> and <b>2. Cystic Fibrosis</b> (although it has made me who I am today- I wouldn't be who I am without it) <b>is a disease that is unashamedly thoughtless and careless, not at all predictable or dependable even in pregnancy</b>. My doctor had no reason to think I would have all the problems I did when I got pregnant because I was doing pretty well. By the end of the pregnancy, my FEVs were 30 and they didn't go back up.

Now, take it for what its worth, but here's my advice..... One part of my second pregnancy that I wished would have been done differently is that I wish my OB/GYN and my pulmonary doctors would have communicated a lot more and been more team players than they were. They were comfortable talking to me but not each other and I suffered for it. Make sure you have a top-of-the-notch CF doctor that supports you being pregnant and is aggressive in treating you all the way through. Also, make sure you are aware of every detail of your health before you get pregnant, if possible. Get a bone scan, diabetes testing, MRI/catscan of chest, etc. This is important because pregnancy limits the drugs you can take and limits the treatability of those conditions. For example, some CF centers don't routinely check blood tests (called IgE testing) to diagnose Allergic BronchoPulmonary Aspergillus (ABPA is a condition which may effect up to 10% of adults with CF). To my knowledge, it is difficult to adequately treat this condition during pregnancy so you would want to plan accordingly. That is my two cents worth, based solely on experience.

Sorry so long.
 

kerry92386

New member
Hello, all, first posting, I have some experience in this topic. First son, Cordell, was born 12 years ago, uneventful pregnancy except at the end when it was harder to breathe, a few courses of IV antibiotics. Cordell was healthy and me too. I was single mom for 6 years, got married, underwent gene testing for my husband to see if he was a carrier and he wasn't.
<br />
<br /> So, after 2 years of marriage, FEVs above 70, used natural family planning to conceive second child Aiden. I was very sick from the start of the second pregnancy, catching colds and coughing so much for the entire pregnancy, in the hospital starting at 24 weeks until my condition deteriorated and I had to be put on a ventilator when I was 29 weeks, 3 days pregnant. This meant the baby had to be born prematurely, nobody knew how it would turn out for him or me. Aiden was born 3 lbs 5 ounces and healthy, only on vent for 12 hours, amazing miracle, praise be to God! I did not fare so well, and was ventilated for more than 3 weeks, was not expected to live at all at some points and given a 50/50 chance that I would ever be without a ventilator to help me breathe. By God's grace, I also defied the odds and made it 3 and half years later, I'm off a ventilator and waiting (21 months so far) for a double lung transplant. I went home 2 months after Aiden was born and have had multiple complications but all pale in comparison to the great joy of having Aiden has a member of our family. By age 2, he caught up to all the benchmarks and standards of a normal 2 year old. He is thriving and my inspiration to the next step of becoming a lung transplant recipient.
<br />
<br />I hope and pray when you read about my experience, you notice two things: <b>1. miracles still happen</b> and <b>2. Cystic Fibrosis</b> (although it has made me who I am today- I wouldn't be who I am without it) <b>is a disease that is unashamedly thoughtless and careless, not at all predictable or dependable even in pregnancy</b>. My doctor had no reason to think I would have all the problems I did when I got pregnant because I was doing pretty well. By the end of the pregnancy, my FEVs were 30 and they didn't go back up.
<br />
<br />Now, take it for what its worth, but here's my advice..... One part of my second pregnancy that I wished would have been done differently is that I wish my OB/GYN and my pulmonary doctors would have communicated a lot more and been more team players than they were. They were comfortable talking to me but not each other and I suffered for it. Make sure you have a top-of-the-notch CF doctor that supports you being pregnant and is aggressive in treating you all the way through. Also, make sure you are aware of every detail of your health before you get pregnant, if possible. Get a bone scan, diabetes testing, MRI/catscan of chest, etc. This is important because pregnancy limits the drugs you can take and limits the treatability of those conditions. For example, some CF centers don't routinely check blood tests (called IgE testing) to diagnose Allergic BronchoPulmonary Aspergillus (ABPA is a condition which may effect up to 10% of adults with CF). To my knowledge, it is difficult to adequately treat this condition during pregnancy so you would want to plan accordingly. That is my two cents worth, based solely on experience.
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<br />Sorry so long.
 

Tammy15

New member
My daughter whom we were told could not get pregnant but was on pill anyway cause we thought lets be safe doctors are not always right, was 5 mos pregnant before we found out. Her CF doctor wanted her to deliver in the hospital he was at so they scheduled her with a OB GYN specialist there, about 2 hrs away. Pregnancy went quick, a little hard breathing towards end. The plans we made were she would stay with her aunt close to hospital about 3 weeks prior to due date, her child not liking those plans decided to come early and she delivered at a local hospital, delivery relatively easy and baby healthy with long two toned blond hair. They had her sedated and he came out on a cough. However taking care of a baby as we all know is hard work even with all the help from famiy. Her lung function dropped she is on oxygen . Her son starts pre k in sept. He is an active little rough and tough boy and does drain her energy. She and her son live with us so that we can monitor her eating and energy level plus when he is sick we kind of are hands on care givers to try and keep germs from spreading to her. One of the things you may want to also think about is will you have the stanima to take care of a child even with help.
 

Tammy15

New member
My daughter whom we were told could not get pregnant but was on pill anyway cause we thought lets be safe doctors are not always right, was 5 mos pregnant before we found out. Her CF doctor wanted her to deliver in the hospital he was at so they scheduled her with a OB GYN specialist there, about 2 hrs away. Pregnancy went quick, a little hard breathing towards end. The plans we made were she would stay with her aunt close to hospital about 3 weeks prior to due date, her child not liking those plans decided to come early and she delivered at a local hospital, delivery relatively easy and baby healthy with long two toned blond hair. They had her sedated and he came out on a cough. However taking care of a baby as we all know is hard work even with all the help from famiy. Her lung function dropped she is on oxygen . Her son starts pre k in sept. He is an active little rough and tough boy and does drain her energy. She and her son live with us so that we can monitor her eating and energy level plus when he is sick we kind of are hands on care givers to try and keep germs from spreading to her. One of the things you may want to also think about is will you have the stanima to take care of a child even with help.
 

Tammy15

New member
My daughter whom we were told could not get pregnant but was on pill anyway cause we thought lets be safe doctors are not always right, was 5 mos pregnant before we found out. Her CF doctor wanted her to deliver in the hospital he was at so they scheduled her with a OB GYN specialist there, about 2 hrs away. Pregnancy went quick, a little hard breathing towards end. The plans we made were she would stay with her aunt close to hospital about 3 weeks prior to due date, her child not liking those plans decided to come early and she delivered at a local hospital, delivery relatively easy and baby healthy with long two toned blond hair. They had her sedated and he came out on a cough. However taking care of a baby as we all know is hard work even with all the help from famiy. Her lung function dropped she is on oxygen . Her son starts pre k in sept. He is an active little rough and tough boy and does drain her energy. She and her son live with us so that we can monitor her eating and energy level plus when he is sick we kind of are hands on care givers to try and keep germs from spreading to her. One of the things you may want to also think about is will you have the stanima to take care of a child even with help.
 

Tammy15

New member
My daughter whom we were told could not get pregnant but was on pill anyway cause we thought lets be safe doctors are not always right, was 5 mos pregnant before we found out. Her CF doctor wanted her to deliver in the hospital he was at so they scheduled her with a OB GYN specialist there, about 2 hrs away. Pregnancy went quick, a little hard breathing towards end. The plans we made were she would stay with her aunt close to hospital about 3 weeks prior to due date, her child not liking those plans decided to come early and she delivered at a local hospital, delivery relatively easy and baby healthy with long two toned blond hair. They had her sedated and he came out on a cough. However taking care of a baby as we all know is hard work even with all the help from famiy. Her lung function dropped she is on oxygen . Her son starts pre k in sept. He is an active little rough and tough boy and does drain her energy. She and her son live with us so that we can monitor her eating and energy level plus when he is sick we kind of are hands on care givers to try and keep germs from spreading to her. One of the things you may want to also think about is will you have the stanima to take care of a child even with help.
 

Tammy15

New member
My daughter whom we were told could not get pregnant but was on pill anyway cause we thought lets be safe doctors are not always right, was 5 mos pregnant before we found out. Her CF doctor wanted her to deliver in the hospital he was at so they scheduled her with a OB GYN specialist there, about 2 hrs away. Pregnancy went quick, a little hard breathing towards end. The plans we made were she would stay with her aunt close to hospital about 3 weeks prior to due date, her child not liking those plans decided to come early and she delivered at a local hospital, delivery relatively easy and baby healthy with long two toned blond hair. They had her sedated and he came out on a cough. However taking care of a baby as we all know is hard work even with all the help from famiy. Her lung function dropped she is on oxygen . Her son starts pre k in sept. He is an active little rough and tough boy and does drain her energy. She and her son live with us so that we can monitor her eating and energy level plus when he is sick we kind of are hands on care givers to try and keep germs from spreading to her. One of the things you may want to also think about is will you have the stanima to take care of a child even with help.
 
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