Pure Sadness:(

[HyperactiveDreamer]

Hi everyone vanessa here sad as hell yeah um im at a friends house right now with cuts on my wrist thinking about what i thought i had, Im at a friends house away from Greg my husband he did something to me that is soo hurtfull spo i decided to leave and im so depressed i have no cluse what to do hel p someone!!!!

 

[Mockingbird]

Wow. I can't help in matters of love cause... well, i just can't, but since you're at your friends house I hope it's a good friend you can talk to. And hopefully you've gotten some care for those wrists. I know lots of people on this site care, so let us know how you are doing!

 

[luke]

Vanessa,

When I hear about people in bad situations and "their" outlooks on life looking gloom I always want to give a big motivational speach. You know, "win one for the gipper" kind of stuff. I just can't seem to relay the feeling through letters rather than words. So I will tell you this....In this life there is one certainity and that is you. What I mean is that when the world turns its back on you, you stilll have yourself. You may have family and friends to lean on and that is great but NOBODY is as important to you as you. Love yourself, don't let anyone hurt you and equally important do not hurt yourself. I have found that at one point and time we are alone in this world and if we don;t love ourselves no one else will when we need them too. So, be strong, turn your focus to what is good in this world and away from what is evil, things will get better with time. The world even with all of its problems is a good place to be.
Feel free to private message me if you want to talk or I can give you my number if you need it.



Luke

 

[rose4cale]

Hey Vanessa. I'm not a big advice giver on love either. I did marry at 19 and have been married for 12 years now. At one time my husband was doing things and saying things that hurt me. I was hours away from all of my family and friends. I didn't know how to deal so I went into self destruction for a good year. Long story short is basically what Luke said. I only had me to count on and I couldn't do it in the self destruction mode. I pulled myself together and decided at one point that I had to look out for myself and screw him and whoever else was in my way. I became much happier and we got through it. I hope you have friends and family close by that can help you with whatever you are dealing with. Please don't forget your value to them!

 

[HyperactiveDreamer]

Hello guys im really sorry about my post i was just really depressed and sad i know i shoudnt have put that about my wrist but when i posted this i was drinking at my friends house and decided to ask someone on here for advice .Anyways thankyou for all of your advice and support it makes me feel alot better <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> Ive had a somewhat hard life this is my 2nd marriage yep you heard right and i thought i had it made with this one but my heart is yet ripped out and torn apart again.Why do we have to fall in love? <img src="i/expressions/brokenheart.gif" border="0"> Im not allowed to have friends so it was diffucult looking for someone to talk to since i have only one friend and some online i know how pathetic! I called somone off this forum and he gave me great advice and im feeling a little better .Im sorry you guys had to see this side of me .. Anyways thanks again you guys are the best<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

 

[Mockingbird]

Just glad you're okay now. =-)

 

[lovingBenandCambree]

Vanessa.
I am so sorry that you are going through such a difficult time right now. I hope that things are looking up since your last post. Always remember there are people that care for you and like Luke said most importantly you need to care for yourself. I wish I could help you in some way and give some good advice about love. I know that real love is out there. I am sure that you have felt it at certain moments in your life. Keep your chin up. I wsh I had more words of advice and comfort. If you need to talk let me know.

Emilee