Questions to those with CF

[CaitlinJean]

My boyfriend of three years and I just decided to go on a break. It wasn't due to the disease, and he knows that. We both are just at a point in our lives where we need to be independent, although we still love each other and hope it works out someday. I am a little more weary, just because I am so young and not ready to think about marriage, but he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. I do think about the trials that go along with CF that I am not sure if I can handle. Becoming a widow at a young age is hard to think about, along with not having kids. I just want to know if any of you have been through this type of situation, and how you dealt with it with your partner.

 

[CaitlinJean]

My boyfriend of three years and I just decided to go on a break. It wasn't due to the disease, and he knows that. We both are just at a point in our lives where we need to be independent, although we still love each other and hope it works out someday. I am a little more weary, just because I am so young and not ready to think about marriage, but he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. I do think about the trials that go along with CF that I am not sure if I can handle. Becoming a widow at a young age is hard to think about, along with not having kids. I just want to know if any of you have been through this type of situation, and how you dealt with it with your partner.

 

[CaitlinJean]

My boyfriend of three years and I just decided to go on a break. It wasn't due to the disease, and he knows that. We both are just at a point in our lives where we need to be independent, although we still love each other and hope it works out someday. I am a little more weary, just because I am so young and not ready to think about marriage, but he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. I do think about the trials that go along with CF that I am not sure if I can handle. Becoming a widow at a young age is hard to think about, along with not having kids. I just want to know if any of you have been through this type of situation, and how you dealt with it with your partner.

 

[CaitlinJean]

My boyfriend of three years and I just decided to go on a break. It wasn't due to the disease, and he knows that. We both are just at a point in our lives where we need to be independent, although we still love each other and hope it works out someday. I am a little more weary, just because I am so young and not ready to think about marriage, but he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. I do think about the trials that go along with CF that I am not sure if I can handle. Becoming a widow at a young age is hard to think about, along with not having kids. I just want to know if any of you have been through this type of situation, and how you dealt with it with your partner.

 

[CaitlinJean]

My boyfriend of three years and I just decided to go on a break. It wasn't due to the disease, and he knows that. We both are just at a point in our lives where we need to be independent, although we still love each other and hope it works out someday. I am a little more weary, just because I am so young and not ready to think about marriage, but he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. I do think about the trials that go along with CF that I am not sure if I can handle. Becoming a widow at a young age is hard to think about, along with not having kids. I just want to know if any of you have been through this type of situation, and how you dealt with it with your partner.

 

[CaitlinJean]

My boyfriend of three years and I just decided to go on a break. It wasn't due to the disease, and he knows that. We both are just at a point in our lives where we need to be independent, although we still love each other and hope it works out someday. I am a little more weary, just because I am so young and not ready to think about marriage, but he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. I do think about the trials that go along with CF that I am not sure if I can handle. Becoming a widow at a young age is hard to think about, along with not having kids. I just want to know if any of you have been through this type of situation, and how you dealt with it with your partner.

 

[IminlovewithaCFgirl]

Hi, My girlfriend has CF (if you cant tell by the name). Im 15 and she is 13. Everyone tells me thats its wrong and I shouldnt be with her. Truly, I love her so much, I cant break up with her, I love her too much. We have decided to do the best we can to make this last forever. I dont like not being able to have kids with her because of the risks, but we have to decided to if we get to that point to adopt. I dont like not having my own kids, but I love her so much. I also dont like perhaps being alone in the future. I hate that idea, I cry because of it, and I work out.<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> We did have a break and to my belief, we both somewhat hated it. I got back together with her in less than a year.

Anyway, if you two really love each other that much, you will be together forever and you will have to make certain sacrifices to love the one you love. I believe I am ready to make those sacrifices to live happily with her as far as I can, then, we will be together afterwards.

 

[IminlovewithaCFgirl]

Hi, My girlfriend has CF (if you cant tell by the name). Im 15 and she is 13. Everyone tells me thats its wrong and I shouldnt be with her. Truly, I love her so much, I cant break up with her, I love her too much. We have decided to do the best we can to make this last forever. I dont like not being able to have kids with her because of the risks, but we have to decided to if we get to that point to adopt. I dont like not having my own kids, but I love her so much. I also dont like perhaps being alone in the future. I hate that idea, I cry because of it, and I work out.<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> We did have a break and to my belief, we both somewhat hated it. I got back together with her in less than a year.

Anyway, if you two really love each other that much, you will be together forever and you will have to make certain sacrifices to love the one you love. I believe I am ready to make those sacrifices to live happily with her as far as I can, then, we will be together afterwards.

 

[IminlovewithaCFgirl]

Hi, My girlfriend has CF (if you cant tell by the name). Im 15 and she is 13. Everyone tells me thats its wrong and I shouldnt be with her. Truly, I love her so much, I cant break up with her, I love her too much. We have decided to do the best we can to make this last forever. I dont like not being able to have kids with her because of the risks, but we have to decided to if we get to that point to adopt. I dont like not having my own kids, but I love her so much. I also dont like perhaps being alone in the future. I hate that idea, I cry because of it, and I work out.<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> We did have a break and to my belief, we both somewhat hated it. I got back together with her in less than a year.

Anyway, if you two really love each other that much, you will be together forever and you will have to make certain sacrifices to love the one you love. I believe I am ready to make those sacrifices to live happily with her as far as I can, then, we will be together afterwards.

 

[IminlovewithaCFgirl]

Hi, My girlfriend has CF (if you cant tell by the name). Im 15 and she is 13. Everyone tells me thats its wrong and I shouldnt be with her. Truly, I love her so much, I cant break up with her, I love her too much. We have decided to do the best we can to make this last forever. I dont like not being able to have kids with her because of the risks, but we have to decided to if we get to that point to adopt. I dont like not having my own kids, but I love her so much. I also dont like perhaps being alone in the future. I hate that idea, I cry because of it, and I work out.<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> We did have a break and to my belief, we both somewhat hated it. I got back together with her in less than a year.

Anyway, if you two really love each other that much, you will be together forever and you will have to make certain sacrifices to love the one you love. I believe I am ready to make those sacrifices to live happily with her as far as I can, then, we will be together afterwards.

 

[IminlovewithaCFgirl]

Hi, My girlfriend has CF (if you cant tell by the name). Im 15 and she is 13. Everyone tells me thats its wrong and I shouldnt be with her. Truly, I love her so much, I cant break up with her, I love her too much. We have decided to do the best we can to make this last forever. I dont like not being able to have kids with her because of the risks, but we have to decided to if we get to that point to adopt. I dont like not having my own kids, but I love her so much. I also dont like perhaps being alone in the future. I hate that idea, I cry because of it, and I work out.<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> We did have a break and to my belief, we both somewhat hated it. I got back together with her in less than a year.

Anyway, if you two really love each other that much, you will be together forever and you will have to make certain sacrifices to love the one you love. I believe I am ready to make those sacrifices to live happily with her as far as I can, then, we will be together afterwards.

 

[mellybean17]

<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>IminlovewithaCFgirl</b></i>

Hi, My girlfriend has CF (if you cant tell by the name). Im 15 and she is 13. Everyone tells me thats its wrong and I shouldnt be with her. Truly, I love her so much, I cant break up with her, I love her too much. We have decided to do the best we can to make this last forever. I dont like not being able to have kids with her because of the risks, but we have to decided to if we get to that point to adopt. I dont like not having my own kids, but I love her so much. I also dont like perhaps being alone in the future. I hate that idea, I cry because of it, and I work out.<img src=""> We did have a break and to my belief, we both somewhat hated it. I got back together with her in less than a year.



Anyway, if you two really love each other that much, you will be together forever and you will have to make certain sacrifices to love the one you love. I believe I am ready to make those sacrifices to live happily with her as far as I can, then, we will be together afterwards.</end quote></div>

I'd be the CF girl he is in love with...but Yeah, If you really love someone, you'll stick by them through thick and thin. I know it's hard. But think of it from your boyfriends point of view. I mean, if my bf left me for fear of me dying, I WOULD die, honestly. It's not our fault we have this gross disease. But, If you really love him, you should suck it up, and right now, make the time you do have together worth it.

Hope I helped out <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0">
good luck.
-melody.

 

[mellybean17]

<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>IminlovewithaCFgirl</b></i>

Hi, My girlfriend has CF (if you cant tell by the name). Im 15 and she is 13. Everyone tells me thats its wrong and I shouldnt be with her. Truly, I love her so much, I cant break up with her, I love her too much. We have decided to do the best we can to make this last forever. I dont like not being able to have kids with her because of the risks, but we have to decided to if we get to that point to adopt. I dont like not having my own kids, but I love her so much. I also dont like perhaps being alone in the future. I hate that idea, I cry because of it, and I work out.<img src=""> We did have a break and to my belief, we both somewhat hated it. I got back together with her in less than a year.



Anyway, if you two really love each other that much, you will be together forever and you will have to make certain sacrifices to love the one you love. I believe I am ready to make those sacrifices to live happily with her as far as I can, then, we will be together afterwards.</end quote></div>

I'd be the CF girl he is in love with...but Yeah, If you really love someone, you'll stick by them through thick and thin. I know it's hard. But think of it from your boyfriends point of view. I mean, if my bf left me for fear of me dying, I WOULD die, honestly. It's not our fault we have this gross disease. But, If you really love him, you should suck it up, and right now, make the time you do have together worth it.

Hope I helped out <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0">
good luck.
-melody.

 

[mellybean17]

<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>IminlovewithaCFgirl</b></i>

Hi, My girlfriend has CF (if you cant tell by the name). Im 15 and she is 13. Everyone tells me thats its wrong and I shouldnt be with her. Truly, I love her so much, I cant break up with her, I love her too much. We have decided to do the best we can to make this last forever. I dont like not being able to have kids with her because of the risks, but we have to decided to if we get to that point to adopt. I dont like not having my own kids, but I love her so much. I also dont like perhaps being alone in the future. I hate that idea, I cry because of it, and I work out.<img src=""> We did have a break and to my belief, we both somewhat hated it. I got back together with her in less than a year.



Anyway, if you two really love each other that much, you will be together forever and you will have to make certain sacrifices to love the one you love. I believe I am ready to make those sacrifices to live happily with her as far as I can, then, we will be together afterwards.</end quote></div>

I'd be the CF girl he is in love with...but Yeah, If you really love someone, you'll stick by them through thick and thin. I know it's hard. But think of it from your boyfriends point of view. I mean, if my bf left me for fear of me dying, I WOULD die, honestly. It's not our fault we have this gross disease. But, If you really love him, you should suck it up, and right now, make the time you do have together worth it.

Hope I helped out <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0">
good luck.
-melody.

 

[mellybean17]

<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>IminlovewithaCFgirl</b></i>

Hi, My girlfriend has CF (if you cant tell by the name). Im 15 and she is 13. Everyone tells me thats its wrong and I shouldnt be with her. Truly, I love her so much, I cant break up with her, I love her too much. We have decided to do the best we can to make this last forever. I dont like not being able to have kids with her because of the risks, but we have to decided to if we get to that point to adopt. I dont like not having my own kids, but I love her so much. I also dont like perhaps being alone in the future. I hate that idea, I cry because of it, and I work out.<img src=""> We did have a break and to my belief, we both somewhat hated it. I got back together with her in less than a year.



Anyway, if you two really love each other that much, you will be together forever and you will have to make certain sacrifices to love the one you love. I believe I am ready to make those sacrifices to live happily with her as far as I can, then, we will be together afterwards.</end quote>

I'd be the CF girl he is in love with...but Yeah, If you really love someone, you'll stick by them through thick and thin. I know it's hard. But think of it from your boyfriends point of view. I mean, if my bf left me for fear of me dying, I WOULD die, honestly. It's not our fault we have this gross disease. But, If you really love him, you should suck it up, and right now, make the time you do have together worth it.

Hope I helped out <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0">
good luck.
-melody.

 

[mellybean17]

<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>IminlovewithaCFgirl</b></i>

Hi, My girlfriend has CF (if you cant tell by the name). Im 15 and she is 13. Everyone tells me thats its wrong and I shouldnt be with her. Truly, I love her so much, I cant break up with her, I love her too much. We have decided to do the best we can to make this last forever. I dont like not being able to have kids with her because of the risks, but we have to decided to if we get to that point to adopt. I dont like not having my own kids, but I love her so much. I also dont like perhaps being alone in the future. I hate that idea, I cry because of it, and I work out.<img src=""> We did have a break and to my belief, we both somewhat hated it. I got back together with her in less than a year.



Anyway, if you two really love each other that much, you will be together forever and you will have to make certain sacrifices to love the one you love. I believe I am ready to make those sacrifices to live happily with her as far as I can, then, we will be together afterwards.</end quote>

I'd be the CF girl he is in love with...but Yeah, If you really love someone, you'll stick by them through thick and thin. I know it's hard. But think of it from your boyfriends point of view. I mean, if my bf left me for fear of me dying, I WOULD die, honestly. It's not our fault we have this gross disease. But, If you really love him, you should suck it up, and right now, make the time you do have together worth it.

Hope I helped out <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0">
good luck.
-melody.

 

[Lance2020x]

Okay first off. You should not be forced to think about marriage if you are not ready for it yet, CF or no CF.
Secondly, I know that the thought of losing the person you love to CF is a horrible thought. Believe me, that has been a great fear in my life, marrying someone who I know I'll probably make a widow someday. But the fact is, if you love someone, TRULY love someone, then the fact that they have CF just makes the time you DO have together more precious. Talk to any of the widows on the adult board, none of them would ever say they regret marrying their husbands, they cherished the memories they made in the short time they had.

The fact is, it takes a lot of growth, a lot of wisdom and a LOT of love to get to that point, that's a very deep subject, something that most teenagers just aren't ready to face. If you are too young to be ready for that kind of responsibility and those kinds of decisions, that's okay. You shouldn't put yourself in a situation you feel your not yet ready for. Be honest, with your self, and with him. If you really love this guy give him all the love and support you can, if you feel like your not ready, there's nothing wrong with that, it actually shows that you are mature enough to know yourself.
I hope all goes well

 

[Lance2020x]

Okay first off. You should not be forced to think about marriage if you are not ready for it yet, CF or no CF.
Secondly, I know that the thought of losing the person you love to CF is a horrible thought. Believe me, that has been a great fear in my life, marrying someone who I know I'll probably make a widow someday. But the fact is, if you love someone, TRULY love someone, then the fact that they have CF just makes the time you DO have together more precious. Talk to any of the widows on the adult board, none of them would ever say they regret marrying their husbands, they cherished the memories they made in the short time they had.

The fact is, it takes a lot of growth, a lot of wisdom and a LOT of love to get to that point, that's a very deep subject, something that most teenagers just aren't ready to face. If you are too young to be ready for that kind of responsibility and those kinds of decisions, that's okay. You shouldn't put yourself in a situation you feel your not yet ready for. Be honest, with your self, and with him. If you really love this guy give him all the love and support you can, if you feel like your not ready, there's nothing wrong with that, it actually shows that you are mature enough to know yourself.
I hope all goes well

 

[Lance2020x]

Okay first off. You should not be forced to think about marriage if you are not ready for it yet, CF or no CF.
Secondly, I know that the thought of losing the person you love to CF is a horrible thought. Believe me, that has been a great fear in my life, marrying someone who I know I'll probably make a widow someday. But the fact is, if you love someone, TRULY love someone, then the fact that they have CF just makes the time you DO have together more precious. Talk to any of the widows on the adult board, none of them would ever say they regret marrying their husbands, they cherished the memories they made in the short time they had.

The fact is, it takes a lot of growth, a lot of wisdom and a LOT of love to get to that point, that's a very deep subject, something that most teenagers just aren't ready to face. If you are too young to be ready for that kind of responsibility and those kinds of decisions, that's okay. You shouldn't put yourself in a situation you feel your not yet ready for. Be honest, with your self, and with him. If you really love this guy give him all the love and support you can, if you feel like your not ready, there's nothing wrong with that, it actually shows that you are mature enough to know yourself.
I hope all goes well

 

[Lance2020x]

Okay first off. You should not be forced to think about marriage if you are not ready for it yet, CF or no CF.
Secondly, I know that the thought of losing the person you love to CF is a horrible thought. Believe me, that has been a great fear in my life, marrying someone who I know I'll probably make a widow someday. But the fact is, if you love someone, TRULY love someone, then the fact that they have CF just makes the time you DO have together more precious. Talk to any of the widows on the adult board, none of them would ever say they regret marrying their husbands, they cherished the memories they made in the short time they had.

The fact is, it takes a lot of growth, a lot of wisdom and a LOT of love to get to that point, that's a very deep subject, something that most teenagers just aren't ready to face. If you are too young to be ready for that kind of responsibility and those kinds of decisions, that's okay. You shouldn't put yourself in a situation you feel your not yet ready for. Be honest, with your self, and with him. If you really love this guy give him all the love and support you can, if you feel like your not ready, there's nothing wrong with that, it actually shows that you are mature enough to know yourself.
I hope all goes well