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hvmontigny

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just looking for some advise..my 13 year old daughter will only do her treatments and feedings if she is told to..I would like her to take the initiative to do these things on her own but over the last few months she has become less interested in things that she likes to do and also is not interested in keeping herself as healthy as possible..could this be depression..or just plain old rebellion?? How do I get her to do the right thing for her health?
 
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hvmontigny

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just looking for some advise..my 13 year old daughter will only do her treatments and feedings if she is told to..I would like her to take the initiative to do these things on her own but over the last few months she has become less interested in things that she likes to do and also is not interested in keeping herself as healthy as possible..could this be depression..or just plain old rebellion?? How do I get her to do the right thing for her health?
 
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hvmontigny

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just looking for some advise..my 13 year old daughter will only do her treatments and feedings if she is told to..I would like her to take the initiative to do these things on her own but over the last few months she has become less interested in things that she likes to do and also is not interested in keeping herself as healthy as possible..could this be depression..or just plain old rebellion?? How do I get her to do the right thing for her health?
 
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hvmontigny

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just looking for some advise..my 13 year old daughter will only do her treatments and feedings if she is told to..I would like her to take the initiative to do these things on her own but over the last few months she has become less interested in things that she likes to do and also is not interested in keeping herself as healthy as possible..could this be depression..or just plain old rebellion?? How do I get her to do the right thing for her health?
 
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hvmontigny

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just looking for some advise..my 13 year old daughter will only do her treatments and feedings if she is told to..I would like her to take the initiative to do these things on her own but over the last few months she has become less interested in things that she likes to do and also is not interested in keeping herself as healthy as possible..could this be depression..or just plain old rebellion?? How do I get her to do the right thing for her health?
 
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Alyssa

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yes, I do think that a loss of interest in the things she used to enjoy could certainly be a sign of depression. 13 is a hard age for a lot of reasons, hormones, peer pressure, possibly dating/attraction-rejection issues etc.... also perhaps she is gaining more of an understanding of CF and what that might hold for her future.... it's all alot to shoulder for a kid
 
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Alyssa

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yes, I do think that a loss of interest in the things she used to enjoy could certainly be a sign of depression. 13 is a hard age for a lot of reasons, hormones, peer pressure, possibly dating/attraction-rejection issues etc.... also perhaps she is gaining more of an understanding of CF and what that might hold for her future.... it's all alot to shoulder for a kid
 
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Alyssa

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yes, I do think that a loss of interest in the things she used to enjoy could certainly be a sign of depression. 13 is a hard age for a lot of reasons, hormones, peer pressure, possibly dating/attraction-rejection issues etc.... also perhaps she is gaining more of an understanding of CF and what that might hold for her future.... it's all alot to shoulder for a kid
 
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Alyssa

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yes, I do think that a loss of interest in the things she used to enjoy could certainly be a sign of depression. 13 is a hard age for a lot of reasons, hormones, peer pressure, possibly dating/attraction-rejection issues etc.... also perhaps she is gaining more of an understanding of CF and what that might hold for her future.... it's all alot to shoulder for a kid
 
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Alyssa

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yes, I do think that a loss of interest in the things she used to enjoy could certainly be a sign of depression. 13 is a hard age for a lot of reasons, hormones, peer pressure, possibly dating/attraction-rejection issues etc.... also perhaps she is gaining more of an understanding of CF and what that might hold for her future.... it's all alot to shoulder for a kid
 
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luke

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Not real sure what the "issue" is but as long as she does it when she is told you are OK. CF is difficult to deal with and throughout our lives we all go through the highs and lows of dedication to treatment. Her doing her treatments when reminded is a good thing, she could be refusing all together. I think parents have a hard time understanding that this a lot to deal with(especially 4 a 13 yr/old) and many times CF patients feel like we are all alone in this fight. Afterall, like it or not we are the ones dying here. Maybe her having you to remind her to take her therapy is her way to make sure she is not in this alone in the fight?

Take care,

Luke, 32 male /CF
 
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luke

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Not real sure what the "issue" is but as long as she does it when she is told you are OK. CF is difficult to deal with and throughout our lives we all go through the highs and lows of dedication to treatment. Her doing her treatments when reminded is a good thing, she could be refusing all together. I think parents have a hard time understanding that this a lot to deal with(especially 4 a 13 yr/old) and many times CF patients feel like we are all alone in this fight. Afterall, like it or not we are the ones dying here. Maybe her having you to remind her to take her therapy is her way to make sure she is not in this alone in the fight?

Take care,

Luke, 32 male /CF
 
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luke

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Not real sure what the "issue" is but as long as she does it when she is told you are OK. CF is difficult to deal with and throughout our lives we all go through the highs and lows of dedication to treatment. Her doing her treatments when reminded is a good thing, she could be refusing all together. I think parents have a hard time understanding that this a lot to deal with(especially 4 a 13 yr/old) and many times CF patients feel like we are all alone in this fight. Afterall, like it or not we are the ones dying here. Maybe her having you to remind her to take her therapy is her way to make sure she is not in this alone in the fight?

Take care,

Luke, 32 male /CF
 
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luke

Guest
Not real sure what the "issue" is but as long as she does it when she is told you are OK. CF is difficult to deal with and throughout our lives we all go through the highs and lows of dedication to treatment. Her doing her treatments when reminded is a good thing, she could be refusing all together. I think parents have a hard time understanding that this a lot to deal with(especially 4 a 13 yr/old) and many times CF patients feel like we are all alone in this fight. Afterall, like it or not we are the ones dying here. Maybe her having you to remind her to take her therapy is her way to make sure she is not in this alone in the fight?

Take care,

Luke, 32 male /CF
 
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luke

Guest
Not real sure what the "issue" is but as long as she does it when she is told you are OK. CF is difficult to deal with and throughout our lives we all go through the highs and lows of dedication to treatment. Her doing her treatments when reminded is a good thing, she could be refusing all together. I think parents have a hard time understanding that this a lot to deal with(especially 4 a 13 yr/old) and many times CF patients feel like we are all alone in this fight. Afterall, like it or not we are the ones dying here. Maybe her having you to remind her to take her therapy is her way to make sure she is not in this alone in the fight?

Take care,

Luke, 32 male /CF
 
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JORDYSMOM

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Hi hvmontigny & welcome!

You know, 13 is such a tough age. It's when kids start to express their individuality. It's when they seem to act out the most. They have left their elementary years, and now they aren't quite highschoolers, but stuck in the middle. It's sort of like turning 20. You aren't a teenager anymore, but not quite an adult. I hope I'm making sense here.

What things is your daughter losing interest in? I ask because she may just be changing her interests. Don't get me wrong, you are right to be concerned about loss of interest. However, maybe she's just growing and changing? Just a thought.

I struggle with motivating my 17 yo son to do his treatments. Look up stubborn, and there will be his picture! LOL Teens just seem to feel that they are 10 foot tall and bullet proof. I know I was! LOL I know if I sit & watch a show with Jordan during a neb treatment, he seems to do it better. He doesn't feel secluded that way. I think luke may have hit on something when he mentioned that your daughter might feel alone in this fight. As much as teens want to feel independent, they still want and need us.

Definitely encourage your daughter to continue her treatments. Don't be too harsh though. It may make her even more determined not to do them. Try to stay positive about it. I know that isn't easy. Good luck, and hang in there.

Stacey
 
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JORDYSMOM

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Hi hvmontigny & welcome!

You know, 13 is such a tough age. It's when kids start to express their individuality. It's when they seem to act out the most. They have left their elementary years, and now they aren't quite highschoolers, but stuck in the middle. It's sort of like turning 20. You aren't a teenager anymore, but not quite an adult. I hope I'm making sense here.

What things is your daughter losing interest in? I ask because she may just be changing her interests. Don't get me wrong, you are right to be concerned about loss of interest. However, maybe she's just growing and changing? Just a thought.

I struggle with motivating my 17 yo son to do his treatments. Look up stubborn, and there will be his picture! LOL Teens just seem to feel that they are 10 foot tall and bullet proof. I know I was! LOL I know if I sit & watch a show with Jordan during a neb treatment, he seems to do it better. He doesn't feel secluded that way. I think luke may have hit on something when he mentioned that your daughter might feel alone in this fight. As much as teens want to feel independent, they still want and need us.

Definitely encourage your daughter to continue her treatments. Don't be too harsh though. It may make her even more determined not to do them. Try to stay positive about it. I know that isn't easy. Good luck, and hang in there.

Stacey
 
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JORDYSMOM

New member
Hi hvmontigny & welcome!

You know, 13 is such a tough age. It's when kids start to express their individuality. It's when they seem to act out the most. They have left their elementary years, and now they aren't quite highschoolers, but stuck in the middle. It's sort of like turning 20. You aren't a teenager anymore, but not quite an adult. I hope I'm making sense here.

What things is your daughter losing interest in? I ask because she may just be changing her interests. Don't get me wrong, you are right to be concerned about loss of interest. However, maybe she's just growing and changing? Just a thought.

I struggle with motivating my 17 yo son to do his treatments. Look up stubborn, and there will be his picture! LOL Teens just seem to feel that they are 10 foot tall and bullet proof. I know I was! LOL I know if I sit & watch a show with Jordan during a neb treatment, he seems to do it better. He doesn't feel secluded that way. I think luke may have hit on something when he mentioned that your daughter might feel alone in this fight. As much as teens want to feel independent, they still want and need us.

Definitely encourage your daughter to continue her treatments. Don't be too harsh though. It may make her even more determined not to do them. Try to stay positive about it. I know that isn't easy. Good luck, and hang in there.

Stacey
 
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JORDYSMOM

New member
Hi hvmontigny & welcome!

You know, 13 is such a tough age. It's when kids start to express their individuality. It's when they seem to act out the most. They have left their elementary years, and now they aren't quite highschoolers, but stuck in the middle. It's sort of like turning 20. You aren't a teenager anymore, but not quite an adult. I hope I'm making sense here.

What things is your daughter losing interest in? I ask because she may just be changing her interests. Don't get me wrong, you are right to be concerned about loss of interest. However, maybe she's just growing and changing? Just a thought.

I struggle with motivating my 17 yo son to do his treatments. Look up stubborn, and there will be his picture! LOL Teens just seem to feel that they are 10 foot tall and bullet proof. I know I was! LOL I know if I sit & watch a show with Jordan during a neb treatment, he seems to do it better. He doesn't feel secluded that way. I think luke may have hit on something when he mentioned that your daughter might feel alone in this fight. As much as teens want to feel independent, they still want and need us.

Definitely encourage your daughter to continue her treatments. Don't be too harsh though. It may make her even more determined not to do them. Try to stay positive about it. I know that isn't easy. Good luck, and hang in there.

Stacey
 
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JORDYSMOM

New member
Hi hvmontigny & welcome!

You know, 13 is such a tough age. It's when kids start to express their individuality. It's when they seem to act out the most. They have left their elementary years, and now they aren't quite highschoolers, but stuck in the middle. It's sort of like turning 20. You aren't a teenager anymore, but not quite an adult. I hope I'm making sense here.

What things is your daughter losing interest in? I ask because she may just be changing her interests. Don't get me wrong, you are right to be concerned about loss of interest. However, maybe she's just growing and changing? Just a thought.

I struggle with motivating my 17 yo son to do his treatments. Look up stubborn, and there will be his picture! LOL Teens just seem to feel that they are 10 foot tall and bullet proof. I know I was! LOL I know if I sit & watch a show with Jordan during a neb treatment, he seems to do it better. He doesn't feel secluded that way. I think luke may have hit on something when he mentioned that your daughter might feel alone in this fight. As much as teens want to feel independent, they still want and need us.

Definitely encourage your daughter to continue her treatments. Don't be too harsh though. It may make her even more determined not to do them. Try to stay positive about it. I know that isn't easy. Good luck, and hang in there.

Stacey
 
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