<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>spacemom</b></i>
Another thing that bugs me, and I don't want to tell this to my DS is, even having a "mild" mutation will he have a "normal" life? How's he going to have a girlfriend/wife if he's coughing all the time and who will want to have his kids knowing the disease he has? </end quote>
Yes he can have a "normal" life. Many of us have graduated high school, gone to or are currently attending college, got married and have children. Just like anyone else in life.....we have obstacles & we have to weed out the ones that cant handle CF, but for the most part (there are always exceptions since some of us have been divorced) we find great partners in life.
For the record my husband has some "gross" habits similar to that of a CFer so the coughing, spitting out sputum etc isnt just a CF thing. IF you get it in YOUR mind that he cant have these things then indirectly you will influence him & he might not strive for it.
I feel its a greater shame that he not strive for things then to strive & not reach them all because he will never know unless he tries. That goes for ANYONE in life.
BTW I hadnt heard of rectal biopsy at a form of dx for CF & I also dont have any KNOWN CF in my family.
Another thing that bugs me, and I don't want to tell this to my DS is, even having a "mild" mutation will he have a "normal" life? How's he going to have a girlfriend/wife if he's coughing all the time and who will want to have his kids knowing the disease he has? </end quote>
Yes he can have a "normal" life. Many of us have graduated high school, gone to or are currently attending college, got married and have children. Just like anyone else in life.....we have obstacles & we have to weed out the ones that cant handle CF, but for the most part (there are always exceptions since some of us have been divorced) we find great partners in life.
For the record my husband has some "gross" habits similar to that of a CFer so the coughing, spitting out sputum etc isnt just a CF thing. IF you get it in YOUR mind that he cant have these things then indirectly you will influence him & he might not strive for it.
I feel its a greater shame that he not strive for things then to strive & not reach them all because he will never know unless he tries. That goes for ANYONE in life.
BTW I hadnt heard of rectal biopsy at a form of dx for CF & I also dont have any KNOWN CF in my family.