Jeanie,
I've had my insides ripped out several times and have heard in some way that CF was somehow a part of a reason to lie, break-up, get un-engaged, and get divorced. I am sure that CF was difficult on each of these women. I don't fault one of them for voicing their grievances regarding CF. We all need to vent about the things that are most challenging in our lives. But, at the end of the day they did not leave because of CF, they left because they didn't love enough, and or they did not have enough faith that one way or another things will be fine. In either case, for any relationship to workout love and faith are critical components, with or without CF.
Myself I did not mention CF until the second or third date when I knew there was chemistry. When I did inform my date, it was casual. I didn't mention it as though it were this thunderous cloud of rain that follows me everywhere ~ cause it is not.
It is important for you to be confident enough in yourself to cut bait the moment you sense a distinct negative hesitation in your suitor.
And I agree after several months (of making sure he is into you) take him to a clinic visit.
CF is your priority. All else will fall into place.
Good luck.
Gremdel
I've had my insides ripped out several times and have heard in some way that CF was somehow a part of a reason to lie, break-up, get un-engaged, and get divorced. I am sure that CF was difficult on each of these women. I don't fault one of them for voicing their grievances regarding CF. We all need to vent about the things that are most challenging in our lives. But, at the end of the day they did not leave because of CF, they left because they didn't love enough, and or they did not have enough faith that one way or another things will be fine. In either case, for any relationship to workout love and faith are critical components, with or without CF.
Myself I did not mention CF until the second or third date when I knew there was chemistry. When I did inform my date, it was casual. I didn't mention it as though it were this thunderous cloud of rain that follows me everywhere ~ cause it is not.
It is important for you to be confident enough in yourself to cut bait the moment you sense a distinct negative hesitation in your suitor.
And I agree after several months (of making sure he is into you) take him to a clinic visit.
CF is your priority. All else will fall into place.
Good luck.
Gremdel