Boy can we ever relate. With the vest, pulmozyme, and TOBI its about an hour and a half every day. I'm not complaining - its just HARD sometimes! Its our poor kids that have to go through this and more, probably, every day, for the rest of their lives. They need our help. Where's the time going to come from? For us, housework and cooking have gone out the window. Yet here I am online - (I've got today off work) - but I rationalize that I'm only human and I need my escapes, too.
Luckily, big sis pitches in and reads to her when she does her vest. We kill two birds this way, as big sis is supposed to read out loud as part of her homework. Me or DH help Katy with her breathing treatments. I have been known to prop the nebulizer against a pillow when she does her morning breathing treatments, because she is asleep for those. But I don't do this very often because it just doesn't seem fair. To me, we're all in this together, as a family.
All I can say is I hear you. It's definitely not easy.