First, great post. I've been struggling with this life balance for quite some time now (my entire life), and have not found an adequate solution. I seem to be healthy enough about 90% of the time, so I just push forward. I know there will be a day when I cannot. I find all of your points well thought out and the potential solution adequate. If there was a way to have resources of jobs, or an easy way to find employers who want to hire CF people indiscriminately - and more selectively, I think it would be beneficial to all. The workforce is such a tough job to attempt to fix though. Its the mentality of companies who use "lesser" employees like pawns till they are all used up and then hire some more that will kill this plan. Companies aren't looking for that person to work there till retirement. They are basically just looking for someone to come in, work till they can't anymore, and then leave and find something else. It's a daily struggle for me to find something to build upon with my current knowledge in an attempt to make my life easier later. I've been kicking around a lot of business ideas just in an attempt to find something flexible and sustainable. I have not gotten far, but have had a ton of conversations. If you have any concrete ideas of how to fix this problem of providing flexible employment, please let me know and I will attempt to provide expertise and help in anyway I can. I'm here with you in this struggle.
I have been considering moving out of this country for quite some time now. I have concerns about moving out of country but have thought long and hard about the healthcare and how I may be in a better or worse situation. It's a shame you can't just try it out first
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I want to live in a place where I can learn, grow, and thrive in every way. I do not feel like the several places I have lived in America provide me with that. Mainly because of the mindset behind corporate America and the workforce. You are meant to work 5 days a week. You have to work 8 hours a day. This does not really have flexibility to account for the sickness that will overcome my life for weeks at a time. Or the flexibility to be able to attempt to workout or do treatments during the day.
The issue at hand is very relevant to me. I ignore my health more than anything because at the end of the day, regardless of what I do, I need to pay bills. I need to goto work. I need to make clients happy. It doesn't matter that I have a fever, or if I'm struggling with my lungs or desperately need that extra few hours of sleep today. It matters that I'm in a place where I can work to support myself. I don't know if it'll get better either.