TestifyToLove
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We are very cautious about hospitalizations for M. In the past, it was nosicomal infections that nearly killed him. At one point, someone accessed his port without proper techniques and gave him a systemic infection of Staph, one that put him in DIC, started multi organ failure and spent over a week in the PICU fighting for his life.
M's CF doctor prefers to do IV antibiotics in-patient. We prefer to keep him home. The compromise is that we'll take him in for PICC insertion and to get things started, but then he's coming home. He does culture PA and as of 3 weeks ago its medication resistent to all oral antibiotic options.
If he continues to culture this strain, in the future we will likely have another port placed (the last was removed when it was infected) and do as much of his IV antibiotics at home as possible. We can increase his respiratory measures at home. We can manage IV antibiotics. We can transport him for tests if he's stable. All of that is better for him emotionally, developmentally and to reduce the risk of increased exposure to nasty bacteria that do not lurk in my house.
We just see first hand what happened when not so great doctors were given carte blanche with a CF child and had no accountability for their choices concerning him. Now that he's ours, its our responsiblity to assure that he is protect to the best of our abilities and keeping him home as much as possible is one of those responsibilities for us.
That doesn't mean we're unreasonable in this. M's actually done 2 hospializations this year. But, this last one was about getting him stabilized for surgery. We thought that was an easy task, and it turned out it was a very difficult task instead. But, once the goal was met, he was sprung home and we did the rest of his antibiotics at home, where he belonged.
But, we do have one very distinctive difference in our approach. There is a very strong probability that M is not a canidate for a new liver and is already in advanced liver disease. Longevity is very likely impossible to give him. Consequently, for us quality of life is paramount. Every decision we make for M involves weighing the cost to his quality of life. To not breath is horrible quality. But, to spend months in the hospial for nothing but IV antibiotics is also horrible quality for him. We look for the balance, because its truly all we can give him.
M's CF doctor prefers to do IV antibiotics in-patient. We prefer to keep him home. The compromise is that we'll take him in for PICC insertion and to get things started, but then he's coming home. He does culture PA and as of 3 weeks ago its medication resistent to all oral antibiotic options.
If he continues to culture this strain, in the future we will likely have another port placed (the last was removed when it was infected) and do as much of his IV antibiotics at home as possible. We can increase his respiratory measures at home. We can manage IV antibiotics. We can transport him for tests if he's stable. All of that is better for him emotionally, developmentally and to reduce the risk of increased exposure to nasty bacteria that do not lurk in my house.
We just see first hand what happened when not so great doctors were given carte blanche with a CF child and had no accountability for their choices concerning him. Now that he's ours, its our responsiblity to assure that he is protect to the best of our abilities and keeping him home as much as possible is one of those responsibilities for us.
That doesn't mean we're unreasonable in this. M's actually done 2 hospializations this year. But, this last one was about getting him stabilized for surgery. We thought that was an easy task, and it turned out it was a very difficult task instead. But, once the goal was met, he was sprung home and we did the rest of his antibiotics at home, where he belonged.
But, we do have one very distinctive difference in our approach. There is a very strong probability that M is not a canidate for a new liver and is already in advanced liver disease. Longevity is very likely impossible to give him. Consequently, for us quality of life is paramount. Every decision we make for M involves weighing the cost to his quality of life. To not breath is horrible quality. But, to spend months in the hospial for nothing but IV antibiotics is also horrible quality for him. We look for the balance, because its truly all we can give him.