Unmedicated IUI vs. Medicated IUI

[Scarlett81]

you know i don't have much experience in this particular field, but i want to say congrats bc thought there is still a way to go-you are really getting there now.
if i can say anything-and though i am unexperienced, i just say this as a mom, woman, and cfer.....i agree with shannon's suggestion of having a plan of sorts. even when i was ttc, we had a plan of how long we'd try, ect.. maybe a plan will help you to sort out all these thoughts in your head. it doesn't mean you can't alter it as you go along, but it may help you to relax and organize your thoughts.
as far as multiples....i realize the concern, obviously. but let me just tell you that once you have a child, you do it. no matter what, no matter how difficult, no matter how tired. and you get your treatments done too bc thats caring for your baby too. it would be fine.
i think its so easy to get caught up in-what if this, what if that....i did the same thing all the time. but in the end, we plan, we are careful, we try to be wise and make good decisions, absolutely. but we can only control so much.
you know what you are getting into. you know the risks, and the possiblities. you also know the rewards...and I'd go based on that.

and you are also wise for puttin your foot down w hubby! sure, he's in no rush...he doesn't have the ticking clock to contend with like we do! men......<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

 

[Scarlett81]

you know i don't have much experience in this particular field, but i want to say congrats bc thought there is still a way to go-you are really getting there now.
if i can say anything-and though i am unexperienced, i just say this as a mom, woman, and cfer.....i agree with shannon's suggestion of having a plan of sorts. even when i was ttc, we had a plan of how long we'd try, ect.. maybe a plan will help you to sort out all these thoughts in your head. it doesn't mean you can't alter it as you go along, but it may help you to relax and organize your thoughts.
as far as multiples....i realize the concern, obviously. but let me just tell you that once you have a child, you do it. no matter what, no matter how difficult, no matter how tired. and you get your treatments done too bc thats caring for your baby too. it would be fine.
i think its so easy to get caught up in-what if this, what if that....i did the same thing all the time. but in the end, we plan, we are careful, we try to be wise and make good decisions, absolutely. but we can only control so much.
you know what you are getting into. you know the risks, and the possiblities. you also know the rewards...and I'd go based on that.

and you are also wise for puttin your foot down w hubby! sure, he's in no rush...he doesn't have the ticking clock to contend with like we do! men......<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

 

[Scarlett81]

you know i don't have much experience in this particular field, but i want to say congrats bc thought there is still a way to go-you are really getting there now.
if i can say anything-and though i am unexperienced, i just say this as a mom, woman, and cfer.....i agree with shannon's suggestion of having a plan of sorts. even when i was ttc, we had a plan of how long we'd try, ect.. maybe a plan will help you to sort out all these thoughts in your head. it doesn't mean you can't alter it as you go along, but it may help you to relax and organize your thoughts.
as far as multiples....i realize the concern, obviously. but let me just tell you that once you have a child, you do it. no matter what, no matter how difficult, no matter how tired. and you get your treatments done too bc thats caring for your baby too. it would be fine.
i think its so easy to get caught up in-what if this, what if that....i did the same thing all the time. but in the end, we plan, we are careful, we try to be wise and make good decisions, absolutely. but we can only control so much.
you know what you are getting into. you know the risks, and the possiblities. you also know the rewards...and I'd go based on that.

and you are also wise for puttin your foot down w hubby! sure, he's in no rush...he doesn't have the ticking clock to contend with like we do! men......<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

 

[Scarlett81]

you know i don't have much experience in this particular field, but i want to say congrats bc thought there is still a way to go-you are really getting there now.
if i can say anything-and though i am unexperienced, i just say this as a mom, woman, and cfer.....i agree with shannon's suggestion of having a plan of sorts. even when i was ttc, we had a plan of how long we'd try, ect.. maybe a plan will help you to sort out all these thoughts in your head. it doesn't mean you can't alter it as you go along, but it may help you to relax and organize your thoughts.
as far as multiples....i realize the concern, obviously. but let me just tell you that once you have a child, you do it. no matter what, no matter how difficult, no matter how tired. and you get your treatments done too bc thats caring for your baby too. it would be fine.
i think its so easy to get caught up in-what if this, what if that....i did the same thing all the time. but in the end, we plan, we are careful, we try to be wise and make good decisions, absolutely. but we can only control so much.
you know what you are getting into. you know the risks, and the possiblities. you also know the rewards...and I'd go based on that.

and you are also wise for puttin your foot down w hubby! sure, he's in no rush...he doesn't have the ticking clock to contend with like we do! men......<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

 

[Scarlett81]

you know i don't have much experience in this particular field, but i want to say congrats bc thought there is still a way to go-you are really getting there now.
if i can say anything-and though i am unexperienced, i just say this as a mom, woman, and cfer.....i agree with shannon's suggestion of having a plan of sorts. even when i was ttc, we had a plan of how long we'd try, ect.. maybe a plan will help you to sort out all these thoughts in your head. it doesn't mean you can't alter it as you go along, but it may help you to relax and organize your thoughts.
as far as multiples....i realize the concern, obviously. but let me just tell you that once you have a child, you do it. no matter what, no matter how difficult, no matter how tired. and you get your treatments done too bc thats caring for your baby too. it would be fine.
i think its so easy to get caught up in-what if this, what if that....i did the same thing all the time. but in the end, we plan, we are careful, we try to be wise and make good decisions, absolutely. but we can only control so much.
you know what you are getting into. you know the risks, and the possiblities. you also know the rewards...and I'd go based on that.

and you are also wise for puttin your foot down w hubby! sure, he's in no rush...he doesn't have the ticking clock to contend with like we do! men......<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

 

[fondreflections]

Jake is hesitant to "push", but really I think it is due to his lifestyle and background.

He is from Uruguay, South America. There were times his family was only fortunate enough to buy sugar and bread for their (1) meal of the day. If you were sterile, you were sterile. His Mom tried 7 years to get pregnant with him and another 10 years for his brother!!! So I'm sure it's more of a cultural thing for him.

He loves children. Everytime we are with people who have kids he is always playing with them. Rolling on the floor with them. And so on...He'll even change diapers!!!

I think the other factor for his hesitance would be that I am the only person he has here in the United States. He protects me with his life. Eventually, we want to bring his parents to live here, but that can't happen until he is a U.S. citizen. He should be able to apply late this year after 4.5 years of marriage...

I think those are his issues...

I SURELY would like this to happen sooner rather than later. Two years has been LONG ENOUGHHHHH and then some.

We were thinking of 3 or 4 cycles with IUI, total. If nothing, adoption. If something, great. We have no interest or financial backing for IVF.

<b>So what would you think?</b> One - unmedicated? Two - with Clomid? And One - with Clomid + trigger? What combo do you think would be good?

As far as cost, an unmedicated cycle will cost $500. All the tests are paid for by insurance just not the actual IUI and semen stuff.

A medicated cycle with Clomid only will cost about $600.

A medicated cycle with Clomid + trigger will cost about $1,000, which is pricey to us.

<b>Shannon</b> - I have NO INTENTION in trying Clomid and BD on our own. I really think the issue is cervical mucus. I would feel like I was again wasting time but thank you anyway for the input.

MY OTHER CONCERN ABOUT CLOMID...I ALREADY HAVE An OCC. LEFT OVARIAN CYST. I'M AFRAID CLOMID MIGHT MAKE MATTERS WORSE...

His parents are coming to visit around October for the first time. They have never seen the United States. We would be trilled for them to have an extra bonus! Plus, they could see an ultrasound and maybe be part of the baby shower. There are so many experiences in the baby department that they don't even know exist!<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">

 

[fondreflections]

Jake is hesitant to "push", but really I think it is due to his lifestyle and background.

He is from Uruguay, South America. There were times his family was only fortunate enough to buy sugar and bread for their (1) meal of the day. If you were sterile, you were sterile. His Mom tried 7 years to get pregnant with him and another 10 years for his brother!!! So I'm sure it's more of a cultural thing for him.

He loves children. Everytime we are with people who have kids he is always playing with them. Rolling on the floor with them. And so on...He'll even change diapers!!!

I think the other factor for his hesitance would be that I am the only person he has here in the United States. He protects me with his life. Eventually, we want to bring his parents to live here, but that can't happen until he is a U.S. citizen. He should be able to apply late this year after 4.5 years of marriage...

I think those are his issues...

I SURELY would like this to happen sooner rather than later. Two years has been LONG ENOUGHHHHH and then some.

We were thinking of 3 or 4 cycles with IUI, total. If nothing, adoption. If something, great. We have no interest or financial backing for IVF.

<b>So what would you think?</b> One - unmedicated? Two - with Clomid? And One - with Clomid + trigger? What combo do you think would be good?

As far as cost, an unmedicated cycle will cost $500. All the tests are paid for by insurance just not the actual IUI and semen stuff.

A medicated cycle with Clomid only will cost about $600.

A medicated cycle with Clomid + trigger will cost about $1,000, which is pricey to us.

<b>Shannon</b> - I have NO INTENTION in trying Clomid and BD on our own. I really think the issue is cervical mucus. I would feel like I was again wasting time but thank you anyway for the input.

MY OTHER CONCERN ABOUT CLOMID...I ALREADY HAVE An OCC. LEFT OVARIAN CYST. I'M AFRAID CLOMID MIGHT MAKE MATTERS WORSE...

His parents are coming to visit around October for the first time. They have never seen the United States. We would be trilled for them to have an extra bonus! Plus, they could see an ultrasound and maybe be part of the baby shower. There are so many experiences in the baby department that they don't even know exist!<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">

 

[fondreflections]

Jake is hesitant to "push", but really I think it is due to his lifestyle and background.

He is from Uruguay, South America. There were times his family was only fortunate enough to buy sugar and bread for their (1) meal of the day. If you were sterile, you were sterile. His Mom tried 7 years to get pregnant with him and another 10 years for his brother!!! So I'm sure it's more of a cultural thing for him.

He loves children. Everytime we are with people who have kids he is always playing with them. Rolling on the floor with them. And so on...He'll even change diapers!!!

I think the other factor for his hesitance would be that I am the only person he has here in the United States. He protects me with his life. Eventually, we want to bring his parents to live here, but that can't happen until he is a U.S. citizen. He should be able to apply late this year after 4.5 years of marriage...

I think those are his issues...

I SURELY would like this to happen sooner rather than later. Two years has been LONG ENOUGHHHHH and then some.

We were thinking of 3 or 4 cycles with IUI, total. If nothing, adoption. If something, great. We have no interest or financial backing for IVF.

<b>So what would you think?</b> One - unmedicated? Two - with Clomid? And One - with Clomid + trigger? What combo do you think would be good?

As far as cost, an unmedicated cycle will cost $500. All the tests are paid for by insurance just not the actual IUI and semen stuff.

A medicated cycle with Clomid only will cost about $600.

A medicated cycle with Clomid + trigger will cost about $1,000, which is pricey to us.

<b>Shannon</b> - I have NO INTENTION in trying Clomid and BD on our own. I really think the issue is cervical mucus. I would feel like I was again wasting time but thank you anyway for the input.

MY OTHER CONCERN ABOUT CLOMID...I ALREADY HAVE An OCC. LEFT OVARIAN CYST. I'M AFRAID CLOMID MIGHT MAKE MATTERS WORSE...

His parents are coming to visit around October for the first time. They have never seen the United States. We would be trilled for them to have an extra bonus! Plus, they could see an ultrasound and maybe be part of the baby shower. There are so many experiences in the baby department that they don't even know exist!<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">

 

[fondreflections]

Jake is hesitant to "push", but really I think it is due to his lifestyle and background.

He is from Uruguay, South America. There were times his family was only fortunate enough to buy sugar and bread for their (1) meal of the day. If you were sterile, you were sterile. His Mom tried 7 years to get pregnant with him and another 10 years for his brother!!! So I'm sure it's more of a cultural thing for him.

He loves children. Everytime we are with people who have kids he is always playing with them. Rolling on the floor with them. And so on...He'll even change diapers!!!

I think the other factor for his hesitance would be that I am the only person he has here in the United States. He protects me with his life. Eventually, we want to bring his parents to live here, but that can't happen until he is a U.S. citizen. He should be able to apply late this year after 4.5 years of marriage...

I think those are his issues...

I SURELY would like this to happen sooner rather than later. Two years has been LONG ENOUGHHHHH and then some.

We were thinking of 3 or 4 cycles with IUI, total. If nothing, adoption. If something, great. We have no interest or financial backing for IVF.

<b>So what would you think?</b> One - unmedicated? Two - with Clomid? And One - with Clomid + trigger? What combo do you think would be good?

As far as cost, an unmedicated cycle will cost $500. All the tests are paid for by insurance just not the actual IUI and semen stuff.

A medicated cycle with Clomid only will cost about $600.

A medicated cycle with Clomid + trigger will cost about $1,000, which is pricey to us.

<b>Shannon</b> - I have NO INTENTION in trying Clomid and BD on our own. I really think the issue is cervical mucus. I would feel like I was again wasting time but thank you anyway for the input.

MY OTHER CONCERN ABOUT CLOMID...I ALREADY HAVE An OCC. LEFT OVARIAN CYST. I'M AFRAID CLOMID MIGHT MAKE MATTERS WORSE...

His parents are coming to visit around October for the first time. They have never seen the United States. We would be trilled for them to have an extra bonus! Plus, they could see an ultrasound and maybe be part of the baby shower. There are so many experiences in the baby department that they don't even know exist!<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">

 

[fondreflections]

Jake is hesitant to "push", but really I think it is due to his lifestyle and background.

He is from Uruguay, South America. There were times his family was only fortunate enough to buy sugar and bread for their (1) meal of the day. If you were sterile, you were sterile. His Mom tried 7 years to get pregnant with him and another 10 years for his brother!!! So I'm sure it's more of a cultural thing for him.

He loves children. Everytime we are with people who have kids he is always playing with them. Rolling on the floor with them. And so on...He'll even change diapers!!!

I think the other factor for his hesitance would be that I am the only person he has here in the United States. He protects me with his life. Eventually, we want to bring his parents to live here, but that can't happen until he is a U.S. citizen. He should be able to apply late this year after 4.5 years of marriage...

I think those are his issues...

I SURELY would like this to happen sooner rather than later. Two years has been LONG ENOUGHHHHH and then some.

We were thinking of 3 or 4 cycles with IUI, total. If nothing, adoption. If something, great. We have no interest or financial backing for IVF.

<b>So what would you think?</b> One - unmedicated? Two - with Clomid? And One - with Clomid + trigger? What combo do you think would be good?

As far as cost, an unmedicated cycle will cost $500. All the tests are paid for by insurance just not the actual IUI and semen stuff.

A medicated cycle with Clomid only will cost about $600.

A medicated cycle with Clomid + trigger will cost about $1,000, which is pricey to us.

<b>Shannon</b> - I have NO INTENTION in trying Clomid and BD on our own. I really think the issue is cervical mucus. I would feel like I was again wasting time but thank you anyway for the input.

MY OTHER CONCERN ABOUT CLOMID...I ALREADY HAVE An OCC. LEFT OVARIAN CYST. I'M AFRAID CLOMID MIGHT MAKE MATTERS WORSE...

His parents are coming to visit around October for the first time. They have never seen the United States. We would be trilled for them to have an extra bonus! Plus, they could see an ultrasound and maybe be part of the baby shower. There are so many experiences in the baby department that they don't even know exist!<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">

 

[MamatoAlexa]

We did unmedicated IUI to get pg with #2. We felt confident with that decision, we knew pregnancy was possible since we already had Alexa. With that said, we would have done unmedicated IUI while TTC the first time had we not gotten pg the cycle that we did (after the HSG).
The RE we saw did not want to risk multiples at all. I am sure if I had pushed for it he would have done medicated cycles but since ovulation was not my problem none of us saw the need to try medication, at least not right away. When we met with the RE for #2, the rec. was 3-4 unmedicated IUI cycles and move to IVF if the IUI's did not work. The Dr. felt more comfortable with the IVF since there is control over how many embryos are put back in. Had it come to that, I am not sure what we would have done. I would like to say we would not have moved to IVF - for various reasons. I have a few friends that have done IVF and I think it is a wonderful thing but just not for DH and I especially since we already had one baby. BUT....I never say never because until in that situation you just never know what you will do.
I love the new picture! You and DH are so cute!
~*~BABY DUST!

 

[MamatoAlexa]

We did unmedicated IUI to get pg with #2. We felt confident with that decision, we knew pregnancy was possible since we already had Alexa. With that said, we would have done unmedicated IUI while TTC the first time had we not gotten pg the cycle that we did (after the HSG).
The RE we saw did not want to risk multiples at all. I am sure if I had pushed for it he would have done medicated cycles but since ovulation was not my problem none of us saw the need to try medication, at least not right away. When we met with the RE for #2, the rec. was 3-4 unmedicated IUI cycles and move to IVF if the IUI's did not work. The Dr. felt more comfortable with the IVF since there is control over how many embryos are put back in. Had it come to that, I am not sure what we would have done. I would like to say we would not have moved to IVF - for various reasons. I have a few friends that have done IVF and I think it is a wonderful thing but just not for DH and I especially since we already had one baby. BUT....I never say never because until in that situation you just never know what you will do.
I love the new picture! You and DH are so cute!
~*~BABY DUST!

 

[MamatoAlexa]

We did unmedicated IUI to get pg with #2. We felt confident with that decision, we knew pregnancy was possible since we already had Alexa. With that said, we would have done unmedicated IUI while TTC the first time had we not gotten pg the cycle that we did (after the HSG).
The RE we saw did not want to risk multiples at all. I am sure if I had pushed for it he would have done medicated cycles but since ovulation was not my problem none of us saw the need to try medication, at least not right away. When we met with the RE for #2, the rec. was 3-4 unmedicated IUI cycles and move to IVF if the IUI's did not work. The Dr. felt more comfortable with the IVF since there is control over how many embryos are put back in. Had it come to that, I am not sure what we would have done. I would like to say we would not have moved to IVF - for various reasons. I have a few friends that have done IVF and I think it is a wonderful thing but just not for DH and I especially since we already had one baby. BUT....I never say never because until in that situation you just never know what you will do.
I love the new picture! You and DH are so cute!
~*~BABY DUST!

 

[MamatoAlexa]

We did unmedicated IUI to get pg with #2. We felt confident with that decision, we knew pregnancy was possible since we already had Alexa. With that said, we would have done unmedicated IUI while TTC the first time had we not gotten pg the cycle that we did (after the HSG).
The RE we saw did not want to risk multiples at all. I am sure if I had pushed for it he would have done medicated cycles but since ovulation was not my problem none of us saw the need to try medication, at least not right away. When we met with the RE for #2, the rec. was 3-4 unmedicated IUI cycles and move to IVF if the IUI's did not work. The Dr. felt more comfortable with the IVF since there is control over how many embryos are put back in. Had it come to that, I am not sure what we would have done. I would like to say we would not have moved to IVF - for various reasons. I have a few friends that have done IVF and I think it is a wonderful thing but just not for DH and I especially since we already had one baby. BUT....I never say never because until in that situation you just never know what you will do.
I love the new picture! You and DH are so cute!
~*~BABY DUST!

 

[MamatoAlexa]

We did unmedicated IUI to get pg with #2. We felt confident with that decision, we knew pregnancy was possible since we already had Alexa. With that said, we would have done unmedicated IUI while TTC the first time had we not gotten pg the cycle that we did (after the HSG).
The RE we saw did not want to risk multiples at all. I am sure if I had pushed for it he would have done medicated cycles but since ovulation was not my problem none of us saw the need to try medication, at least not right away. When we met with the RE for #2, the rec. was 3-4 unmedicated IUI cycles and move to IVF if the IUI's did not work. The Dr. felt more comfortable with the IVF since there is control over how many embryos are put back in. Had it come to that, I am not sure what we would have done. I would like to say we would not have moved to IVF - for various reasons. I have a few friends that have done IVF and I think it is a wonderful thing but just not for DH and I especially since we already had one baby. BUT....I never say never because until in that situation you just never know what you will do.
I love the new picture! You and DH are so cute!
~*~BABY DUST!

 

[LouLou]

Jenny, I'd definitely start with unmedicated for as long as you can afford.

What did you mean by, "There are so many experiences in the baby department that they don't even know exist!" ?

Along with the planning, I'd come up with a multiple plan even if you are doing regular IUI.

If you were still in Philly, your doctor (mine) would have recommended a reduction as well as the MFM doctors. I can say this pretty assuredly because they recommended should I show two babies (we got pregnant with no help as you know) to reduce to one. And they looked for a second pretty thoroughly at those early u/s. Our lung function and general well being/capabilities are comparable. Just 2 more opinions to add to your list.

 

[LouLou]

Jenny, I'd definitely start with unmedicated for as long as you can afford.

What did you mean by, "There are so many experiences in the baby department that they don't even know exist!" ?

Along with the planning, I'd come up with a multiple plan even if you are doing regular IUI.

If you were still in Philly, your doctor (mine) would have recommended a reduction as well as the MFM doctors. I can say this pretty assuredly because they recommended should I show two babies (we got pregnant with no help as you know) to reduce to one. And they looked for a second pretty thoroughly at those early u/s. Our lung function and general well being/capabilities are comparable. Just 2 more opinions to add to your list.

 

[LouLou]

Jenny, I'd definitely start with unmedicated for as long as you can afford.

What did you mean by, "There are so many experiences in the baby department that they don't even know exist!" ?

Along with the planning, I'd come up with a multiple plan even if you are doing regular IUI.

If you were still in Philly, your doctor (mine) would have recommended a reduction as well as the MFM doctors. I can say this pretty assuredly because they recommended should I show two babies (we got pregnant with no help as you know) to reduce to one. And they looked for a second pretty thoroughly at those early u/s. Our lung function and general well being/capabilities are comparable. Just 2 more opinions to add to your list.

 

[LouLou]

Jenny, I'd definitely start with unmedicated for as long as you can afford.

What did you mean by, "There are so many experiences in the baby department that they don't even know exist!" ?

Along with the planning, I'd come up with a multiple plan even if you are doing regular IUI.

If you were still in Philly, your doctor (mine) would have recommended a reduction as well as the MFM doctors. I can say this pretty assuredly because they recommended should I show two babies (we got pregnant with no help as you know) to reduce to one. And they looked for a second pretty thoroughly at those early u/s. Our lung function and general well being/capabilities are comparable. Just 2 more opinions to add to your list.

 

[LouLou]

Jenny, I'd definitely start with unmedicated for as long as you can afford.

What did you mean by, "There are so many experiences in the baby department that they don't even know exist!" ?

Along with the planning, I'd come up with a multiple plan even if you are doing regular IUI.

If you were still in Philly, your doctor (mine) would have recommended a reduction as well as the MFM doctors. I can say this pretty assuredly because they recommended should I show two babies (we got pregnant with no help as you know) to reduce to one. And they looked for a second pretty thoroughly at those early u/s. Our lung function and general well being/capabilities are comparable. Just 2 more opinions to add to your list.