Life is tough, bottom line. Life is also great many times, bottom line. If someone is frustrated and wants to vent, and I'm having a great day, I surely don't let it affect my day-but I do offer support. Every person deals with issues differently, to each his own. There comes a point when enough is enough though, and that's what the issue was here. He tripped once and we told him he offended us. He tripped again and started insulting us and making it all about us, then he kept tripping. I am sorry my friend but I can't look past that. Once, accidental. Twice, maybe accidental still-nobody is perfect. Keep doing it-there's something wrong here.
I am usually a positive person, I think I bring a lot to this board, as do countless others, some who frequent and some who only come occasionally. But, I have bad days, I DO come on here and bitch and moan and I appreciate the support that I get. Some people tell me to snap out of it, some let me simmer in it for a while, some point out the good, some agree with me, some don't. Everyone has days like this, why not come to this forum where people can at least understand what you are struggling with. Theres no need to be fake, there is enough of that already in the world!