coltsfan715
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The real transplant story - um .... al I can say is that to me transplant is alot like cf in the respect that EVERY case is different.
I personally am coming up on 2 years post transplant and am doing fantastic. I have had one of those - "to good to be true" transplant experiences. I have not had any issues with rejection or infection and really haven't had any issues related to my transplant at all. My pfts are around 90% and have been that way since about 3 months post transplant.
Then take in comparison one of my friends that had her transplant and spent about 2 months in the hospital recovering. Dealt with several bouts of rejection. She was discharged only to be admitted at her next appointment because during a regular test she suffered a collapsed lung. The she had to be admitted again a few weeks later because she had fluid build up on her lungs. Then a few weeks after that she was back because she just got sick from something. Now she is over a year post transplant and she was just in the hospital with a bout of pnuemonia - BUT she is doing great. If you talk to her she is enjoying life and happy she went with transplant. She is 21 and has CF.
Then I have another friend who for the love of everything holy has been through so much with his transplant but again he is still happy he chose to do it. It has just been much more challenging than he ever thought possible. He is currently wheelchair bound because he somehow got a Psuedomonas infection in his hip and it killed the ball joint. They had to remove a portion of the bone and he is in a wheelchair until they are confident that the Psuedo is completely gone and they can do a hip replacement - he is also non CFer and in his late 40s.
All I can say is that transplant is the hardest thing I have had to go through in my life and I have had an easy recovery in comparison to many - meaning relatively problem free. To think that transplant is easy is a grave mistake - the life that people have afterwards may seem great and wonderful but the steps it took to get there are NOT easy. It is just something that you have to go through or had to go through and it just isn't really talked about for the most part unless people straight up ask about it. What is more important is the life after all the recovery crap. After the hospital stay and the surgery and the limitations and all - the bad or unpleasant stuff (meaning the pain, stitches/staples, soreness, med side effects, sleeplessness, constant lab work, frequent testing, and so on) to me just doesn't seem worth mentioning all the time.
I go through everyday and honestly I rarely think about that stuff unless someone brings it up - or I have nothing to do and am just sitting .. thinking.
Either way I say make the decision based on you. Not other people's stories because most likely your story will be completely different than anyone elses. You have to go into this decision (if it is what you choose) commited to yourself and committed to taking care of yourself above anything else. Make the decision for YOU. You are the one taking the meds everyday, you are the one that is going to be in pain afterwards, you are the one that has to go through rehab and therapy, YOU are the one that has to do this for the rest of your life - not your mom, borther, boyfriend/girlfriend, husband/wife, friend, sister, dad, coworker or just random joe on the street.
This is one decision that regardless of what others think you have to make it for you. I only say that because like I said - it is by far the most difficult thing I have ever gone through in my life. I am glad I did it and I would do it again if needed but it is something that if you do not go into it fully committed you can have some setbacks and just loose your drive. Even if you go in fully committed you can have setbacks but at least you are committed to doing what needs to be done to get you to a point that you are happy and healthy.
Love Linds
Best of Luck and take as much time as you need in making your decision.
I personally am coming up on 2 years post transplant and am doing fantastic. I have had one of those - "to good to be true" transplant experiences. I have not had any issues with rejection or infection and really haven't had any issues related to my transplant at all. My pfts are around 90% and have been that way since about 3 months post transplant.
Then take in comparison one of my friends that had her transplant and spent about 2 months in the hospital recovering. Dealt with several bouts of rejection. She was discharged only to be admitted at her next appointment because during a regular test she suffered a collapsed lung. The she had to be admitted again a few weeks later because she had fluid build up on her lungs. Then a few weeks after that she was back because she just got sick from something. Now she is over a year post transplant and she was just in the hospital with a bout of pnuemonia - BUT she is doing great. If you talk to her she is enjoying life and happy she went with transplant. She is 21 and has CF.
Then I have another friend who for the love of everything holy has been through so much with his transplant but again he is still happy he chose to do it. It has just been much more challenging than he ever thought possible. He is currently wheelchair bound because he somehow got a Psuedomonas infection in his hip and it killed the ball joint. They had to remove a portion of the bone and he is in a wheelchair until they are confident that the Psuedo is completely gone and they can do a hip replacement - he is also non CFer and in his late 40s.
All I can say is that transplant is the hardest thing I have had to go through in my life and I have had an easy recovery in comparison to many - meaning relatively problem free. To think that transplant is easy is a grave mistake - the life that people have afterwards may seem great and wonderful but the steps it took to get there are NOT easy. It is just something that you have to go through or had to go through and it just isn't really talked about for the most part unless people straight up ask about it. What is more important is the life after all the recovery crap. After the hospital stay and the surgery and the limitations and all - the bad or unpleasant stuff (meaning the pain, stitches/staples, soreness, med side effects, sleeplessness, constant lab work, frequent testing, and so on) to me just doesn't seem worth mentioning all the time.
I go through everyday and honestly I rarely think about that stuff unless someone brings it up - or I have nothing to do and am just sitting .. thinking.
Either way I say make the decision based on you. Not other people's stories because most likely your story will be completely different than anyone elses. You have to go into this decision (if it is what you choose) commited to yourself and committed to taking care of yourself above anything else. Make the decision for YOU. You are the one taking the meds everyday, you are the one that is going to be in pain afterwards, you are the one that has to go through rehab and therapy, YOU are the one that has to do this for the rest of your life - not your mom, borther, boyfriend/girlfriend, husband/wife, friend, sister, dad, coworker or just random joe on the street.
This is one decision that regardless of what others think you have to make it for you. I only say that because like I said - it is by far the most difficult thing I have ever gone through in my life. I am glad I did it and I would do it again if needed but it is something that if you do not go into it fully committed you can have some setbacks and just loose your drive. Even if you go in fully committed you can have setbacks but at least you are committed to doing what needs to be done to get you to a point that you are happy and healthy.
Love Linds
Best of Luck and take as much time as you need in making your decision.