oops..... I got cut off. It was a concert with kids playing classical instruments. Before the concert they announced that coughing, sneezing, talking, cellphones, etc... were not acceptable because the performance was being taped for the radio. I freaked out a little and cringed anytime I thought he might cough. Surprisingly he didn't make a sound and I was relieved.
It feels very isolating when other people look at my child with disgust if he coughs. It breaks my heart.
My new baby is pretty tiny and is has been below the 5th percentile for weight. I can't begin to tell you how many little old ladies come up to me and tell me too feed him more! He was crying the other day at the mall because he was sleepy and this lady said under her breath "he needs to eat more, that's probably why he's crying". Aaaaaggghh! I walked away and felt like I got slapped in the face, I was too pissed to respond. On a happy note, we took him to the clinic today and he has grown 2 pounds in one month! I have to mention this because it blows me away...my nephew is 7 months and already weighs 29lbs...holy crap!