Yes, After the third time anything happened I moved closer to my parents and brothers...and you are right, just as friends, family and co workers, nurses etc..have told me..he's an ass..no need to move out or anything, he's already moved out..His friends who have a band Seven Mary Three (7M3) are on tour..and that is usually what gives him that inch..then they are done partying and what have you and he wants to come home...Am done...my son is not doing well at all and to have this blow, was almost the end of me..but I looked @ my boys and said you know what, "I would rather be alone with them, and have a great life and FREAKING fun one then. worry about JOHN CRABTREE
I'm shocked that you need to get advice from strangers about your situation. What you're describing is unhealthy in a lot of ways. I'm sorry you made a bad choice in a man. I hardly doubt he just magically changed into scum once you two got married.
Now it's time to do the right thing.
I hope for the kids' sake that you'll do what you need to in order to keep their lives as chaos free as possible. Do your parents live near by? Can you move in with them so that you can provide a stable and positive home environment? You're going to need a lot of support as a parent of a CFer.</end quote></div>