Abortions

anonymous

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Amy would have had a comment no matter what you posted. You cannot make her happy. If you had said which child she would have bashed you for that. If you had posted anonymously she would have bashed you for that. She likes to a) bring people down to her level and b) hear herself talk. To this she will reply, "If you don't like my posts, block them". We shouldn't have to block members who are repeatedly offensive. I hope she is happy in real life and this site is just her vent.
 

anonymous

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Amy would have had a comment no matter what you posted. You cannot make her happy. If you had said which child she would have bashed you for that. If you had posted anonymously she would have bashed you for that. She likes to a) bring people down to her level and b) hear herself talk. To this she will reply, "If you don't like my posts, block them". We shouldn't have to block members who are repeatedly offensive. I hope she is happy in real life and this site is just her vent.
 

Scarlett81

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I just wanted to add-though I hate myself for continuing to consider this silly debate-but as I went about my day this continued to bother me.

I can't stand anymore to hear people say, well this is a public forum....I can say whatever I want....you can't be honest without hurting others.....Yes. We all know what the constitution says. People can say whatever they want. But that doesn't make it morally right. The bottom line here is-some people like to hear themselves talk, or this case type. To them, <i>their opinion </i>is more important than hurting others feelings. Well, do what you want bc you will anyway-but I don't see how you can have relationships that way.

Is the world backwards? It's now seen as a sign of weakness if you have manners and hold back from saying things even if they cross your mind. I guess that's considered a modern way of thinking-funny, I thought it was just called bad manners.
 

Scarlett81

New member
I just wanted to add-though I hate myself for continuing to consider this silly debate-but as I went about my day this continued to bother me.

I can't stand anymore to hear people say, well this is a public forum....I can say whatever I want....you can't be honest without hurting others.....Yes. We all know what the constitution says. People can say whatever they want. But that doesn't make it morally right. The bottom line here is-some people like to hear themselves talk, or this case type. To them, <i>their opinion </i>is more important than hurting others feelings. Well, do what you want bc you will anyway-but I don't see how you can have relationships that way.

Is the world backwards? It's now seen as a sign of weakness if you have manners and hold back from saying things even if they cross your mind. I guess that's considered a modern way of thinking-funny, I thought it was just called bad manners.
 

Scarlett81

New member
I just wanted to add-though I hate myself for continuing to consider this silly debate-but as I went about my day this continued to bother me.

I can't stand anymore to hear people say, well this is a public forum....I can say whatever I want....you can't be honest without hurting others.....Yes. We all know what the constitution says. People can say whatever they want. But that doesn't make it morally right. The bottom line here is-some people like to hear themselves talk, or this case type. To them, <i>their opinion </i>is more important than hurting others feelings. Well, do what you want bc you will anyway-but I don't see how you can have relationships that way.

Is the world backwards? It's now seen as a sign of weakness if you have manners and hold back from saying things even if they cross your mind. I guess that's considered a modern way of thinking-funny, I thought it was just called bad manners.
 

jasonterriallen

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I am pro choice for other people but Pro life for myself. 6 years ago I had my tubes tied after I had my 3rd child. A year and a 1/2 later to my surprise I got pregnant! I was having cramping and went to the emergency room, where they sent me to have an abortion because it was etopic. I was depressed for such a long time because I didnt get a choice.

Prevention is key but as we all know condoms break, and not all BC is 100%. It is a personal choice and a hard one at that, my sister has had an abortion because of personal choices, it doesnt make you a bad selfish person, just someone who isn't ready healthwise or for whatever reason. And you dont have to justify it to anyone but yourself.
 

jasonterriallen

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I am pro choice for other people but Pro life for myself. 6 years ago I had my tubes tied after I had my 3rd child. A year and a 1/2 later to my surprise I got pregnant! I was having cramping and went to the emergency room, where they sent me to have an abortion because it was etopic. I was depressed for such a long time because I didnt get a choice.

Prevention is key but as we all know condoms break, and not all BC is 100%. It is a personal choice and a hard one at that, my sister has had an abortion because of personal choices, it doesnt make you a bad selfish person, just someone who isn't ready healthwise or for whatever reason. And you dont have to justify it to anyone but yourself.
 

jasonterriallen

New member
I am pro choice for other people but Pro life for myself. 6 years ago I had my tubes tied after I had my 3rd child. A year and a 1/2 later to my surprise I got pregnant! I was having cramping and went to the emergency room, where they sent me to have an abortion because it was etopic. I was depressed for such a long time because I didnt get a choice.

Prevention is key but as we all know condoms break, and not all BC is 100%. It is a personal choice and a hard one at that, my sister has had an abortion because of personal choices, it doesnt make you a bad selfish person, just someone who isn't ready healthwise or for whatever reason. And you dont have to justify it to anyone but yourself.
 

NoExcuses

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Diane, really, how many times are you going to say this? Over and over and over and over...

Did it occure to you that maybe I think before I type? Just because what I say doesn't agree with you or others, doesn't mean I don't think before I type. Think about it....

And really, my goal isn't to have friends. Even though I have made many and I enjoy conversing with them.

My goal here in knowledge.

And Christian, just for knowledge's sake, the 1st amendment protects free speech from regulations of Congress. Other bodies, can regulate speech as they see fit.

And finally, what is the block feature for on this site if not to block someone's postings that you don't want to see? You people who don't like what I type are all talk. Why don't you put your words to actions and block me so you don't have to see what I type?
 

NoExcuses

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Diane, really, how many times are you going to say this? Over and over and over and over...

Did it occure to you that maybe I think before I type? Just because what I say doesn't agree with you or others, doesn't mean I don't think before I type. Think about it....

And really, my goal isn't to have friends. Even though I have made many and I enjoy conversing with them.

My goal here in knowledge.

And Christian, just for knowledge's sake, the 1st amendment protects free speech from regulations of Congress. Other bodies, can regulate speech as they see fit.

And finally, what is the block feature for on this site if not to block someone's postings that you don't want to see? You people who don't like what I type are all talk. Why don't you put your words to actions and block me so you don't have to see what I type?
 

NoExcuses

New member
Diane, really, how many times are you going to say this? Over and over and over and over...

Did it occure to you that maybe I think before I type? Just because what I say doesn't agree with you or others, doesn't mean I don't think before I type. Think about it....

And really, my goal isn't to have friends. Even though I have made many and I enjoy conversing with them.

My goal here in knowledge.

And Christian, just for knowledge's sake, the 1st amendment protects free speech from regulations of Congress. Other bodies, can regulate speech as they see fit.

And finally, what is the block feature for on this site if not to block someone's postings that you don't want to see? You people who don't like what I type are all talk. Why don't you put your words to actions and block me so you don't have to see what I type?
 

Scarlett81

New member
My point wasn't to discuss our nation's laws-

It was to say that just b/c someone has the <i>right</i> to do/say something-doesn't mean they always <i>should</i>.


Moving on.
 

Scarlett81

New member
My point wasn't to discuss our nation's laws-

It was to say that just b/c someone has the <i>right</i> to do/say something-doesn't mean they always <i>should</i>.


Moving on.
 

Scarlett81

New member
My point wasn't to discuss our nation's laws-

It was to say that just b/c someone has the <i>right</i> to do/say something-doesn't mean they always <i>should</i>.


Moving on.
 

littledebbie

New member
This is such a sensitive subject and it's turning in to a debate on
forum etiquette?  Could we please get back to the topic?<br>
<br>
ORIGINAL Anon POSTER, if I knew who you were I would love to talk
to you about my health and my decisions about pregnancy/children,
but I'm sure you'll understand why I chose not to do so here.
 Feel free to PM me anytime.  <br>
<br>
Also, although I have not seen Emilee of lovingBenandCambree on in
awhile (anyone know where Emilee is?) I believe her PFT's were
not... how to say....100% when she became pregnant with Cambree.
 She might be another one you could PM.  <br>
<br>
Since I don't know who you are I'm going to give give the
explanation PM is private message which you have to be logged in to
do.<br>
<br>
Good luck <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"><br>
<br>
 

littledebbie

New member
This is such a sensitive subject and it's turning in to a debate on
forum etiquette?  Could we please get back to the topic?<br>
<br>
ORIGINAL Anon POSTER, if I knew who you were I would love to talk
to you about my health and my decisions about pregnancy/children,
but I'm sure you'll understand why I chose not to do so here.
 Feel free to PM me anytime.  <br>
<br>
Also, although I have not seen Emilee of lovingBenandCambree on in
awhile (anyone know where Emilee is?) I believe her PFT's were
not... how to say....100% when she became pregnant with Cambree.
 She might be another one you could PM.  <br>
<br>
Since I don't know who you are I'm going to give give the
explanation PM is private message which you have to be logged in to
do.<br>
<br>
Good luck <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"><br>
<br>
 

littledebbie

New member
This is such a sensitive subject and it's turning in to a debate on
forum etiquette?  Could we please get back to the topic?<br>
<br>
ORIGINAL Anon POSTER, if I knew who you were I would love to talk
to you about my health and my decisions about pregnancy/children,
but I'm sure you'll understand why I chose not to do so here.
 Feel free to PM me anytime.  <br>
<br>
Also, although I have not seen Emilee of lovingBenandCambree on in
awhile (anyone know where Emilee is?) I believe her PFT's were
not... how to say....100% when she became pregnant with Cambree.
 She might be another one you could PM.  <br>
<br>
Since I don't know who you are I'm going to give give the
explanation PM is private message which you have to be logged in to
do.<br>
<br>
Good luck <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"><br>
<br>
 

sarabeth87

New member
To the orignal poster:
I kinda have mixed feelings about abortion. I think that if a person chooses to terminate a pregnancy for a legitimate reason such as health, being a young age, or even financial stability, then maybe an abortion really is the best option for them.
However, if someone chooses to end a pregnancy just because they are having a good time and don't really want to give that up, well, then they should have thought about that before they had sex. That's just my opinion though. In the end, it's just really what the woman thinks is best for her and what emotions she will be able to handle.
 

sarabeth87

New member
To the orignal poster:
I kinda have mixed feelings about abortion. I think that if a person chooses to terminate a pregnancy for a legitimate reason such as health, being a young age, or even financial stability, then maybe an abortion really is the best option for them.
However, if someone chooses to end a pregnancy just because they are having a good time and don't really want to give that up, well, then they should have thought about that before they had sex. That's just my opinion though. In the end, it's just really what the woman thinks is best for her and what emotions she will be able to handle.
 

sarabeth87

New member
To the orignal poster:
I kinda have mixed feelings about abortion. I think that if a person chooses to terminate a pregnancy for a legitimate reason such as health, being a young age, or even financial stability, then maybe an abortion really is the best option for them.
However, if someone chooses to end a pregnancy just because they are having a good time and don't really want to give that up, well, then they should have thought about that before they had sex. That's just my opinion though. In the end, it's just really what the woman thinks is best for her and what emotions she will be able to handle.
 
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