Abortions

[NoExcuses]

just to clarify.... i will not be intimidated to change my opinion or silence my opinions or questions by others. so the fact that seana or others don't like my question isn't going to change my question asking in the future nor will it change my opinion making in the future.

there tends to still be a mentality on this site that you can't have an opinion that doesn't make others happy. or you can't ask a question that hurts someone else's feelings. every post must agree with the original poster and no question may be asked unless it makes someone feel good.

and finally, the question wasn't to rile seana up.... i would have asked it of anyone. it just so happens that seana was open enough to state that she considered abortion for one of her children. i would have asked it of anyone who posted.

 

[anonymous]

original anony poster here....(waving my hands in the air)''''''

From my perspective, this is a very sensitive question, and what better a place to ask then here? Abortions have always been such a shameful, unwanted thing, and for me they still are. With all the cf complications involving pregnancy, there isn't a better place to discuss this topic than here.

That said, disrespecting someone's situation like this is pathetic. Why turn this thread into an amy and seana fued, when no one really cares. It's useless entertainment if anything.

My pfts are in the low 50s, but they've been lower. First off I need to take a test and see if I am or not. I'm scared because of pple on here who've mentioned stories of someone being in the 40s or 50s when they got pregnant and within months after giving birth, they declined to needing a tx. Carrying out a pregnancy with me, just seems too risky for everyone involved. I have thought about adoption or maybe a surrogate. I wasn't intending for this to happen, if it has indeed happened.

 

[anonymous]

original anony poster here....(waving my hands in the air)''''''

From my perspective, this is a very sensitive question, and what better a place to ask then here? Abortions have always been such a shameful, unwanted thing, and for me they still are. With all the cf complications involving pregnancy, there isn't a better place to discuss this topic than here.

That said, disrespecting someone's situation like this is pathetic. Why turn this thread into an amy and seana fued, when no one really cares. It's useless entertainment if anything.

My pfts are in the low 50s, but they've been lower. First off I need to take a test and see if I am or not. I'm scared because of pple on here who've mentioned stories of someone being in the 40s or 50s when they got pregnant and within months after giving birth, they declined to needing a tx. Carrying out a pregnancy with me, just seems too risky for everyone involved. I have thought about adoption or maybe a surrogate. I wasn't intending for this to happen, if it has indeed happened.

 

[anonymous]

original anony poster here....(waving my hands in the air)''''''

From my perspective, this is a very sensitive question, and what better a place to ask then here? Abortions have always been such a shameful, unwanted thing, and for me they still are. With all the cf complications involving pregnancy, there isn't a better place to discuss this topic than here.

That said, disrespecting someone's situation like this is pathetic. Why turn this thread into an amy and seana fued, when no one really cares. It's useless entertainment if anything.

My pfts are in the low 50s, but they've been lower. First off I need to take a test and see if I am or not. I'm scared because of pple on here who've mentioned stories of someone being in the 40s or 50s when they got pregnant and within months after giving birth, they declined to needing a tx. Carrying out a pregnancy with me, just seems too risky for everyone involved. I have thought about adoption or maybe a surrogate. I wasn't intending for this to happen, if it has indeed happened.

 

[anonymous]

I dont believe in abortion but putting that aside - if you dont feel you need to have a baby for whatever reason-health, finances,maturity.etc.- PREVENT IT!!! If you know for sure that your body could not handle the stress of pregnancy there are permanent birth control measures- use them.

 

[anonymous]

I dont believe in abortion but putting that aside - if you dont feel you need to have a baby for whatever reason-health, finances,maturity.etc.- PREVENT IT!!! If you know for sure that your body could not handle the stress of pregnancy there are permanent birth control measures- use them.

 

[anonymous]

I dont believe in abortion but putting that aside - if you dont feel you need to have a baby for whatever reason-health, finances,maturity.etc.- PREVENT IT!!! If you know for sure that your body could not handle the stress of pregnancy there are permanent birth control measures- use them.

 

[anonymous]

if i got pregnant now, i would be thrown into a huge whirlwind...i love my boyfriend very much and we are committed to each other. i can't even imagine all the emotions that would surround having a little combined him-and-me to be.

however, i have never felt a strong desire to have children, and certainly not to carry one myself if i did. i have also been very afraid that pregnancy would adversely affect my own health. these two things would pull me toward the possibility of termination were i accidentally to become pregnant.

BUT, if i did have a desire to have a child, i think i would do it, even if my health was not the best--as long as i was in a place to do so (financially stable, in a committed relationship, etc.) however, if i was in "end stage" CF (not sure you could get pregnant anyway like this), had been dx with cepacia iii or a bad strain of pseudo or some other major health issue had arisen, i would not even try to get pregnant.

to the original poster: i don't envy anyone having to make this decision.

 

[anonymous]

if i got pregnant now, i would be thrown into a huge whirlwind...i love my boyfriend very much and we are committed to each other. i can't even imagine all the emotions that would surround having a little combined him-and-me to be.

however, i have never felt a strong desire to have children, and certainly not to carry one myself if i did. i have also been very afraid that pregnancy would adversely affect my own health. these two things would pull me toward the possibility of termination were i accidentally to become pregnant.

BUT, if i did have a desire to have a child, i think i would do it, even if my health was not the best--as long as i was in a place to do so (financially stable, in a committed relationship, etc.) however, if i was in "end stage" CF (not sure you could get pregnant anyway like this), had been dx with cepacia iii or a bad strain of pseudo or some other major health issue had arisen, i would not even try to get pregnant.

to the original poster: i don't envy anyone having to make this decision.

 

[anonymous]

if i got pregnant now, i would be thrown into a huge whirlwind...i love my boyfriend very much and we are committed to each other. i can't even imagine all the emotions that would surround having a little combined him-and-me to be.

however, i have never felt a strong desire to have children, and certainly not to carry one myself if i did. i have also been very afraid that pregnancy would adversely affect my own health. these two things would pull me toward the possibility of termination were i accidentally to become pregnant.

BUT, if i did have a desire to have a child, i think i would do it, even if my health was not the best--as long as i was in a place to do so (financially stable, in a committed relationship, etc.) however, if i was in "end stage" CF (not sure you could get pregnant anyway like this), had been dx with cepacia iii or a bad strain of pseudo or some other major health issue had arisen, i would not even try to get pregnant.

to the original poster: i don't envy anyone having to make this decision.

 

[Scarlett81]

I think prevention is the best thing. No one wants to be in that situation-so if you can prevent it from happening that's best. I'm sure its very emotional and painful no matter what the circumstances.

(considering it is such an emotionally painful subject, perhaps we could be respectful and considerate of others-and not always think of our own opinion being the most important thing.)

 

[Scarlett81]

I think prevention is the best thing. No one wants to be in that situation-so if you can prevent it from happening that's best. I'm sure its very emotional and painful no matter what the circumstances.

(considering it is such an emotionally painful subject, perhaps we could be respectful and considerate of others-and not always think of our own opinion being the most important thing.)

 

[Scarlett81]

I think prevention is the best thing. No one wants to be in that situation-so if you can prevent it from happening that's best. I'm sure its very emotional and painful no matter what the circumstances.

(considering it is such an emotionally painful subject, perhaps we could be respectful and considerate of others-and not always think of our own opinion being the most important thing.)

 

[Diane]

<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>amy</b></i>

just to clarify.... i will not be intimidated to change my opinion or silence my opinions or questions by others. so the fact that seana or others don't like my question isn't going to change my question asking in the future nor will it change my opinion making in the future.



there tends to still be a mentality on this site that you can't have an opinion that doesn't make others happy. or you can't ask a question that hurts someone else's feelings. every post must agree with the original poster and no question may be asked unless it makes someone feel good.



and finally, the question wasn't to rile seana up.... i would have asked it of anyone. it just so happens that seana was open enough to state that she considered abortion for one of her children. i would have asked it of anyone who posted.</end quote></div>
Amy amazingly so, you remind me of a little child. Little children who dont know any better just say things or ask questions without THINKING about how stupid it can be perceived or how hurtful it can be to the person who you are asking.
I dont think anyone on here wants to intimidate you into changing your opinions , i just think we wish you would grow up, mature a little, and THINK before you speak. I can't imagine how any one who is educated the way you say, can still be so unintelligent at times. There have been many times i wanted to say something to someone but i THOUGHT about it before i posted my response and realized my response wouldnt have been appropriate or may have been hurtful to the original poster and i chose to just remain silent. Thats what an adult with common sense does. We think before we speak, we try to keep peace, not stir up all kinds of crap, because we feel the need to show we have no common sense or intelligence to think it thru before we type. I dont think anyone will disagree with me on this, unless they do it anonymously. ( geeeee , who can it be?)
Please from now on Amy THINK before you type, or you will have no friends left on here.

 

[Diane]

<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>amy</b></i>

just to clarify.... i will not be intimidated to change my opinion or silence my opinions or questions by others. so the fact that seana or others don't like my question isn't going to change my question asking in the future nor will it change my opinion making in the future.



there tends to still be a mentality on this site that you can't have an opinion that doesn't make others happy. or you can't ask a question that hurts someone else's feelings. every post must agree with the original poster and no question may be asked unless it makes someone feel good.



and finally, the question wasn't to rile seana up.... i would have asked it of anyone. it just so happens that seana was open enough to state that she considered abortion for one of her children. i would have asked it of anyone who posted.</end quote></div>
Amy amazingly so, you remind me of a little child. Little children who dont know any better just say things or ask questions without THINKING about how stupid it can be perceived or how hurtful it can be to the person who you are asking.
I dont think anyone on here wants to intimidate you into changing your opinions , i just think we wish you would grow up, mature a little, and THINK before you speak. I can't imagine how any one who is educated the way you say, can still be so unintelligent at times. There have been many times i wanted to say something to someone but i THOUGHT about it before i posted my response and realized my response wouldnt have been appropriate or may have been hurtful to the original poster and i chose to just remain silent. Thats what an adult with common sense does. We think before we speak, we try to keep peace, not stir up all kinds of crap, because we feel the need to show we have no common sense or intelligence to think it thru before we type. I dont think anyone will disagree with me on this, unless they do it anonymously. ( geeeee , who can it be?)
Please from now on Amy THINK before you type, or you will have no friends left on here.

 

[Diane]

<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>amy</b></i>

just to clarify.... i will not be intimidated to change my opinion or silence my opinions or questions by others. so the fact that seana or others don't like my question isn't going to change my question asking in the future nor will it change my opinion making in the future.



there tends to still be a mentality on this site that you can't have an opinion that doesn't make others happy. or you can't ask a question that hurts someone else's feelings. every post must agree with the original poster and no question may be asked unless it makes someone feel good.



and finally, the question wasn't to rile seana up.... i would have asked it of anyone. it just so happens that seana was open enough to state that she considered abortion for one of her children. i would have asked it of anyone who posted.</end quote></div>
Amy amazingly so, you remind me of a little child. Little children who dont know any better just say things or ask questions without THINKING about how stupid it can be perceived or how hurtful it can be to the person who you are asking.
I dont think anyone on here wants to intimidate you into changing your opinions , i just think we wish you would grow up, mature a little, and THINK before you speak. I can't imagine how any one who is educated the way you say, can still be so unintelligent at times. There have been many times i wanted to say something to someone but i THOUGHT about it before i posted my response and realized my response wouldnt have been appropriate or may have been hurtful to the original poster and i chose to just remain silent. Thats what an adult with common sense does. We think before we speak, we try to keep peace, not stir up all kinds of crap, because we feel the need to show we have no common sense or intelligence to think it thru before we type. I dont think anyone will disagree with me on this, unless they do it anonymously. ( geeeee , who can it be?)
Please from now on Amy THINK before you type, or you will have no friends left on here.

 

[Diane]

Now I want to post my opinion about abortion. I think it is a necessary evil. At times it is appropriate, and others it is not. I definitely believe the best thing is to prevent a pregnancy if you dont want it, BUT i know sometimes the best prevention can fail, so this is when decisions must be made.

 

[Diane]

Now I want to post my opinion about abortion. I think it is a necessary evil. At times it is appropriate, and others it is not. I definitely believe the best thing is to prevent a pregnancy if you dont want it, BUT i know sometimes the best prevention can fail, so this is when decisions must be made.

 

[Diane]

Now I want to post my opinion about abortion. I think it is a necessary evil. At times it is appropriate, and others it is not. I definitely believe the best thing is to prevent a pregnancy if you dont want it, BUT i know sometimes the best prevention can fail, so this is when decisions must be made.

 

[anonymous]

Amy would have had a comment no matter what you posted. You cannot make her happy. If you had said which child she would have bashed you for that. If you had posted anonymously she would have bashed you for that. She likes to a) bring people down to her level and b) hear herself talk. To this she will reply, "If you don't like my posts, block them". We shouldn't have to block members who are repeatedly offensive. I hope she is happy in real life and this site is just her vent.