<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>jfarel</b></i>
I don't think she has ever accessed an arm port.</end quote></div>
That is THE WORST excuse I have ever heard. It is not even an excuse. A port is a port is a port. It doesn't matter where it is, unless you are trying to access it yourself. The target area is the same. It's a bump with some skin stretched over it, it's not difficult.
I'm really sorry you had to go through all that - that's why I now access my own port, always. All it took was one nurse flubbing it three times in a row for me to make the decision. She actually stabbed the needle in, incorrectly (it hit the metal on the port, instead of the acessible area) and then took the needle out and stabbed it back in - same needle, no more sterilzation...
When the next nurse comes, ask her if she knows what she's doing beforehand, and if she isn't confident in her ability to do it, tell her to leave.
I've never had medical training, have only been doing this for about 3ish years, and I have never fucked up an access. It makes all the more infuriating to me when a real nurse does mess up. Good luck. :/