I understand your reason for wanting to get married on that particular date--that's cool how that will all work out! So, will 4-9-10 just so happen to fall on a Saturday?
One idea I had that you may or may not want to consider is to go to the County Courthouse & legally get married a few months before the "church" wedding. I suppose it would be up to you whether you wanted to tell folks you had done this or not?
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