I am not arguing with you risa it's just that you made some commentsd I frequently hear so I'm just using your statment to address these issues <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">
<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>EnergytxGal</b></i>
An old friend of mine, was completely flat chested but when she walked, she got lots of guys to stare at her. She carried herself in a way that demanded attention. Maybe because she looked so much like Madona?
<b>People tend to think gals get boob jobs to catch a guys eye. Not really the case unless they are in a sex profession. Mostly we get a boob job bevause we have to look at oursleves and we'd like to see a reflection of a woman not a prepubescent boy or a 13 yr old girl.</b>
It is not about how big your chest is, it is about how you feel about yourself. That shows more than anything. Just my opinion.
<b>Absolutely! So why do people assume that someone got a boob job because they felt bad about themsleves?</b>
edited to add: If you gain some quality weight, you might be surprised how much fills out your chest. Working out with weights will help too.
<b>Actually, this really aint so true. If you are not genetically blessed you are pretty screwed, even if you could put on weight it wouldn't go to your boobs. And considering how hard it is for us to keep up our weight thats damning a lot of us to nearly A hell (also known as IBTC... itty bitty ..... committee). I am 5'1, 96lbs and frequently my stomach is sticking out like a save the children add. That makes you look like a little kid I'm sorry. But you know how little girls look in their bathing suits the way they are all just this little thing with no chest or anything and this stomach - well crap who wants to look like that their entire life!?! When I look in the mirror I want to see something that reflects the person I feel like to some extent. I felt older that 13 at 13 I certainly don't want to look 13 at 27</b>.</end quote></div>
Also, to the other argument that guys don't really dig fake boobs. Yep, they probably don't I never thought they did...that's why it really is about what YOU want. So you are still probably going to be looking for guys who aren't boob men....oh gee thats a heart breaking thought.