I wish I could be motivated enough to imitate the menu my parents had my sister and I on when we were kids--my mom is an older mom from another country and never tried to understand packaged foods in the US, and my dad used to work for a nutrition lobby in Washington--tried to fight the whole Reagan-ketchup-is-a-vegetable thing back in the day.
We had no juice or soda, only whole fruit with every breakfast, cereals like all-bran and grape nuts, sandwiches on crumbly nutty bread, vegetarian dinners about 3-4 times a week, and minimal desserts. (I remember going to friends' houses and eating cookies in state of ecstasy.)
My family has a more lax version of this diet. We have some stuff in boxes, eat dessert a few nights a week, have juice and even sometimes soda. But every meal has to have a fruit or veggie, and we eat tons of rice, quinoa, potatoes with skin, beans and because of a random obsession of two of my kids: Japanese food (not just take-out, we go to the store and buy seaweed etc). We have more meat and fish than I grew up with because we have the funds and my husband is a red-meat man (he's slender, has a good cholesterol level and needs dental work every six months or so btw
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This thread caught my attention because if my appetite is down, I do skip the starch and just eat the meat and veggie. I don't crave carbs--I crave salt, vinegar, protein and fat. I have concerns about a high red meat diet and cancer and heart disease--also diabetes according to the article below. I figured I'd throw it out here for an opposing view--not because I think one diet is wrong or right.
(Caroline, it's fantastic that you are avoiding nitrites, but I think there are still some risks.)
http://harvardmagazine.com/2012/01/a-diabetes-link-to-meat