Dilemma

mom2lillian

New member
I am sorry to hear about you loss.

I dont know what you should do but I know my grandfather woudl have wanted me to take care of myself and remain my tush at home and think of him instead. Maybe think of what you think your grandfather woudl want you to do?
 

mom2lillian

New member
I am sorry to hear about you loss.

I dont know what you should do but I know my grandfather woudl have wanted me to take care of myself and remain my tush at home and think of him instead. Maybe think of what you think your grandfather woudl want you to do?
 

Samsmom

New member
Ladybug, I am sorry to hear of your grandfather's passing. After reading your post I think it sounds like you have made your decision, just looking for a little support. Your health is most important and you know your body better than anyone. The only delima I see you have is possibly receiving criticism from family members that you were unable to attend the funeral but able to hop a plane the following week for a vacation. Explain it to them and if they think about what is best for you they will understand. Vacations with your husband are cherished moments and I don't think that you should feel guilty for choosing the vacation over the funeral. Remember, those who truly love you will understand, to he** with the rest.
 

Samsmom

New member
Ladybug, I am sorry to hear of your grandfather's passing. After reading your post I think it sounds like you have made your decision, just looking for a little support. Your health is most important and you know your body better than anyone. The only delima I see you have is possibly receiving criticism from family members that you were unable to attend the funeral but able to hop a plane the following week for a vacation. Explain it to them and if they think about what is best for you they will understand. Vacations with your husband are cherished moments and I don't think that you should feel guilty for choosing the vacation over the funeral. Remember, those who truly love you will understand, to he** with the rest.
 

Samsmom

New member
Ladybug, I am sorry to hear of your grandfather's passing. After reading your post I think it sounds like you have made your decision, just looking for a little support. Your health is most important and you know your body better than anyone. The only delima I see you have is possibly receiving criticism from family members that you were unable to attend the funeral but able to hop a plane the following week for a vacation. Explain it to them and if they think about what is best for you they will understand. Vacations with your husband are cherished moments and I don't think that you should feel guilty for choosing the vacation over the funeral. Remember, those who truly love you will understand, to he** with the rest.
 

Samsmom

New member
Ladybug, I am sorry to hear of your grandfather's passing. After reading your post I think it sounds like you have made your decision, just looking for a little support. Your health is most important and you know your body better than anyone. The only delima I see you have is possibly receiving criticism from family members that you were unable to attend the funeral but able to hop a plane the following week for a vacation. Explain it to them and if they think about what is best for you they will understand. Vacations with your husband are cherished moments and I don't think that you should feel guilty for choosing the vacation over the funeral. Remember, those who truly love you will understand, to he** with the rest.
 

Samsmom

New member
Ladybug, I am sorry to hear of your grandfather's passing. After reading your post I think it sounds like you have made your decision, just looking for a little support. Your health is most important and you know your body better than anyone. The only delima I see you have is possibly receiving criticism from family members that you were unable to attend the funeral but able to hop a plane the following week for a vacation. Explain it to them and if they think about what is best for you they will understand. Vacations with your husband are cherished moments and I don't think that you should feel guilty for choosing the vacation over the funeral. Remember, those who truly love you will understand, to he** with the rest.
 

Samsmom

New member
Ladybug, I am sorry to hear of your grandfather's passing. After reading your post I think it sounds like you have made your decision, just looking for a little support. Your health is most important and you know your body better than anyone. The only delima I see you have is possibly receiving criticism from family members that you were unable to attend the funeral but able to hop a plane the following week for a vacation. Explain it to them and if they think about what is best for you they will understand. Vacations with your husband are cherished moments and I don't think that you should feel guilty for choosing the vacation over the funeral. Remember, those who truly love you will understand, to he** with the rest.
 

Landy

New member
I am sorry to hear of your Grandfather's passing too.

I agree with the others. Take care of yourself on this one--I would think your family would understand.
 

Landy

New member
I am sorry to hear of your Grandfather's passing too.

I agree with the others. Take care of yourself on this one--I would think your family would understand.
 

Landy

New member
I am sorry to hear of your Grandfather's passing too.

I agree with the others. Take care of yourself on this one--I would think your family would understand.
 

Landy

New member
I am sorry to hear of your Grandfather's passing too.

I agree with the others. Take care of yourself on this one--I would think your family would understand.
 

Landy

New member
I am sorry to hear of your Grandfather's passing too.

I agree with the others. Take care of yourself on this one--I would think your family would understand.
 

Landy

New member
I am sorry to hear of your Grandfather's passing too.

I agree with the others. Take care of yourself on this one--I would think your family would understand.
 

Ratatosk

Administrator
Staff member
So sorry to hear of your loss. IMO, stay home and take care of yourself.

Sounds like there are too many unknowns in terms of the flight -- -only one available, what if it's delayed or cancelled due to bad weather, not enough passengers... There's always a chance you could end up stranged for an extra day or so if you miss your flight. Last year I flew with a family to Denver who'd missed their flight on a Sunday and couldn't fly out until Tuesday.

You can probably make it to the funeral in time, but lack of sleep, recovering from a cold, stress from travel... I'm sure your family would understand, especially if you haven't felt well lately.
 

Ratatosk

Administrator
Staff member
So sorry to hear of your loss. IMO, stay home and take care of yourself.

Sounds like there are too many unknowns in terms of the flight -- -only one available, what if it's delayed or cancelled due to bad weather, not enough passengers... There's always a chance you could end up stranged for an extra day or so if you miss your flight. Last year I flew with a family to Denver who'd missed their flight on a Sunday and couldn't fly out until Tuesday.

You can probably make it to the funeral in time, but lack of sleep, recovering from a cold, stress from travel... I'm sure your family would understand, especially if you haven't felt well lately.
 

Ratatosk

Administrator
Staff member
So sorry to hear of your loss. IMO, stay home and take care of yourself.

Sounds like there are too many unknowns in terms of the flight -- -only one available, what if it's delayed or cancelled due to bad weather, not enough passengers... There's always a chance you could end up stranged for an extra day or so if you miss your flight. Last year I flew with a family to Denver who'd missed their flight on a Sunday and couldn't fly out until Tuesday.

You can probably make it to the funeral in time, but lack of sleep, recovering from a cold, stress from travel... I'm sure your family would understand, especially if you haven't felt well lately.
 

Ratatosk

Administrator
Staff member
So sorry to hear of your loss. IMO, stay home and take care of yourself.

Sounds like there are too many unknowns in terms of the flight -- -only one available, what if it's delayed or cancelled due to bad weather, not enough passengers... There's always a chance you could end up stranged for an extra day or so if you miss your flight. Last year I flew with a family to Denver who'd missed their flight on a Sunday and couldn't fly out until Tuesday.

You can probably make it to the funeral in time, but lack of sleep, recovering from a cold, stress from travel... I'm sure your family would understand, especially if you haven't felt well lately.
 

Ratatosk

Administrator
Staff member
So sorry to hear of your loss. IMO, stay home and take care of yourself.

Sounds like there are too many unknowns in terms of the flight -- -only one available, what if it's delayed or cancelled due to bad weather, not enough passengers... There's always a chance you could end up stranged for an extra day or so if you miss your flight. Last year I flew with a family to Denver who'd missed their flight on a Sunday and couldn't fly out until Tuesday.

You can probably make it to the funeral in time, but lack of sleep, recovering from a cold, stress from travel... I'm sure your family would understand, especially if you haven't felt well lately.
 

Ratatosk

Administrator
Staff member
So sorry to hear of your loss. IMO, stay home and take care of yourself.

Sounds like there are too many unknowns in terms of the flight -- -only one available, what if it's delayed or cancelled due to bad weather, not enough passengers... There's always a chance you could end up stranged for an extra day or so if you miss your flight. Last year I flew with a family to Denver who'd missed their flight on a Sunday and couldn't fly out until Tuesday.

You can probably make it to the funeral in time, but lack of sleep, recovering from a cold, stress from travel... I'm sure your family would understand, especially if you haven't felt well lately.
 
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