well i just think since it is the internet and anyone could be lying it is better to take people's word for it than assume people are lying. If someone irritates me i try to just ignore them. I think in the long run it is healthier for yourself if you just don't try to guess/interpret people's motives because so much of it is clouded by your own issues. In my experience (although i've never done it over the internet since i tend to trust everyone) it usually just ends up hurting everyone involved (including yourself.) I probably shouldn't be talking though since i have such a hard time avoiding this myself.
I've heard from ambry that with full panel mutation testing the carrier frequency increases to about 1/15 among caucasions. This is certainly not anywhere near 5/100 or 5/50 but it is something. If you are really concerned about this you should find out what the frequency of munchausen by proxy syndrome occurs at. I just can't imagine anyone who considers it "dramatic" to have a ill child to have anything less than munchausen. I could certainly see pretending they have an ill child over the internet is probably a launching pad for the full blown disorder. I could see maybe one of these indviduals making things up for attention but i have a hard time believing three would...? Why wouldn't any of them choose another disease? Maybe what you are noticing are parents who are very worried about their child's health and to them it feels like everyone is against them? Possibly the defensiveness from this attitude could set off your BS meter? maybe they are hypochondriacs?
who knows. good luck.
I've heard from ambry that with full panel mutation testing the carrier frequency increases to about 1/15 among caucasions. This is certainly not anywhere near 5/100 or 5/50 but it is something. If you are really concerned about this you should find out what the frequency of munchausen by proxy syndrome occurs at. I just can't imagine anyone who considers it "dramatic" to have a ill child to have anything less than munchausen. I could certainly see pretending they have an ill child over the internet is probably a launching pad for the full blown disorder. I could see maybe one of these indviduals making things up for attention but i have a hard time believing three would...? Why wouldn't any of them choose another disease? Maybe what you are noticing are parents who are very worried about their child's health and to them it feels like everyone is against them? Possibly the defensiveness from this attitude could set off your BS meter? maybe they are hypochondriacs?
who knows. good luck.