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BabyBeauty

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I hope you don't mind me adding to this. I am a parent with a CF child. We didn't know we were carriers, nor did we have a clue as to what CF was.

I look at my little girl each and thank God for her to be here with me each day. I am so grateful that I have her. I also pray each day for her to live a long, healthy, and happy life.

I wish to God that I could take CF away from her. I would give my life for her. I hate seeing her in pain or even the slightest bit of discomfort because of CF.

Please know your parents love you and cherish each day with you. They too I am sure have wanted to take all of it away from you and place it on their shoulders.
 
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BabyBeauty

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I hope you don't mind me adding to this. I am a parent with a CF child. We didn't know we were carriers, nor did we have a clue as to what CF was.

I look at my little girl each and thank God for her to be here with me each day. I am so grateful that I have her. I also pray each day for her to live a long, healthy, and happy life.

I wish to God that I could take CF away from her. I would give my life for her. I hate seeing her in pain or even the slightest bit of discomfort because of CF.

Please know your parents love you and cherish each day with you. They too I am sure have wanted to take all of it away from you and place it on their shoulders.
 
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BabyBeauty

New member
I hope you don't mind me adding to this. I am a parent with a CF child. We didn't know we were carriers, nor did we have a clue as to what CF was.

I look at my little girl each and thank God for her to be here with me each day. I am so grateful that I have her. I also pray each day for her to live a long, healthy, and happy life.

I wish to God that I could take CF away from her. I would give my life for her. I hate seeing her in pain or even the slightest bit of discomfort because of CF.

Please know your parents love you and cherish each day with you. They too I am sure have wanted to take all of it away from you and place it on their shoulders.
 
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BabyBeauty

New member
I hope you don't mind me adding to this. I am a parent with a CF child. We didn't know we were carriers, nor did we have a clue as to what CF was.

I look at my little girl each and thank God for her to be here with me each day. I am so grateful that I have her. I also pray each day for her to live a long, healthy, and happy life.

I wish to God that I could take CF away from her. I would give my life for her. I hate seeing her in pain or even the slightest bit of discomfort because of CF.

Please know your parents love you and cherish each day with you. They too I am sure have wanted to take all of it away from you and place it on their shoulders.
 
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BabyBeauty

New member
I hope you don't mind me adding to this. I am a parent with a CF child. We didn't know we were carriers, nor did we have a clue as to what CF was.
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<br />I look at my little girl each and thank God for her to be here with me each day. I am so grateful that I have her. I also pray each day for her to live a long, healthy, and happy life.
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<br />I wish to God that I could take CF away from her. I would give my life for her. I hate seeing her in pain or even the slightest bit of discomfort because of CF.
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<br />Please know your parents love you and cherish each day with you. They too I am sure have wanted to take all of it away from you and place it on their shoulders.
 
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Jane

Digital opinion leader
If they knew or they didn't matters not at this point. You are here.

My mom had a disfunctional family upbringing. After she had been through years of counceling she learned as an adult you need to stop blaming your parents for your past. You need to make peace with your situation and move on with a positive attitude. Blaming will perpetuate the anger.

I like what Mockingbird said..." Even if my parents did know they were carriers, I could never blame them, because the love they've given me is so much more powerful than cystic fibrosis." That's lovely.
 
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Jane

Digital opinion leader
If they knew or they didn't matters not at this point. You are here.

My mom had a disfunctional family upbringing. After she had been through years of counceling she learned as an adult you need to stop blaming your parents for your past. You need to make peace with your situation and move on with a positive attitude. Blaming will perpetuate the anger.

I like what Mockingbird said..." Even if my parents did know they were carriers, I could never blame them, because the love they've given me is so much more powerful than cystic fibrosis." That's lovely.
 
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Jane

Digital opinion leader
If they knew or they didn't matters not at this point. You are here.

My mom had a disfunctional family upbringing. After she had been through years of counceling she learned as an adult you need to stop blaming your parents for your past. You need to make peace with your situation and move on with a positive attitude. Blaming will perpetuate the anger.

I like what Mockingbird said..." Even if my parents did know they were carriers, I could never blame them, because the love they've given me is so much more powerful than cystic fibrosis." That's lovely.
 
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Jane

Digital opinion leader
If they knew or they didn't matters not at this point. You are here.

My mom had a disfunctional family upbringing. After she had been through years of counceling she learned as an adult you need to stop blaming your parents for your past. You need to make peace with your situation and move on with a positive attitude. Blaming will perpetuate the anger.

I like what Mockingbird said..." Even if my parents did know they were carriers, I could never blame them, because the love they've given me is so much more powerful than cystic fibrosis." That's lovely.
 
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Jane

Digital opinion leader
If they knew or they didn't matters not at this point. You are here.
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<br />My mom had a disfunctional family upbringing. After she had been through years of counceling she learned as an adult you need to stop blaming your parents for your past. You need to make peace with your situation and move on with a positive attitude. Blaming will perpetuate the anger.
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<br />I like what Mockingbird said..." Even if my parents did know they were carriers, I could never blame them, because the love they've given me is so much more powerful than cystic fibrosis." That's lovely.
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SARAHSARAH253

New member
I like what Mockingbird said..." Even if my parents did know they were carriers, I could never blame them, because the love they've given me is so much more powerful than cystic fibrosis." That's lovely.


I have never posted on the adults portion of this site...But, I read this and tears started pouring....It really is lovely..I can only hope my son grows to think of us his parents like this......Thank you...

Sarah

Mommy to Johnny
 
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SARAHSARAH253

New member
I like what Mockingbird said..." Even if my parents did know they were carriers, I could never blame them, because the love they've given me is so much more powerful than cystic fibrosis." That's lovely.


I have never posted on the adults portion of this site...But, I read this and tears started pouring....It really is lovely..I can only hope my son grows to think of us his parents like this......Thank you...

Sarah

Mommy to Johnny
 
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SARAHSARAH253

New member
I like what Mockingbird said..." Even if my parents did know they were carriers, I could never blame them, because the love they've given me is so much more powerful than cystic fibrosis." That's lovely.


I have never posted on the adults portion of this site...But, I read this and tears started pouring....It really is lovely..I can only hope my son grows to think of us his parents like this......Thank you...

Sarah

Mommy to Johnny
 
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SARAHSARAH253

New member
I like what Mockingbird said..." Even if my parents did know they were carriers, I could never blame them, because the love they've given me is so much more powerful than cystic fibrosis." That's lovely.


I have never posted on the adults portion of this site...But, I read this and tears started pouring....It really is lovely..I can only hope my son grows to think of us his parents like this......Thank you...

Sarah

Mommy to Johnny
 
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SARAHSARAH253

New member
I like what Mockingbird said..." Even if my parents did know they were carriers, I could never blame them, because the love they've given me is so much more powerful than cystic fibrosis." That's lovely.
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<br />I have never posted on the adults portion of this site...But, I read this and tears started pouring....It really is lovely..I can only hope my son grows to think of us his parents like this......Thank you...
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<br />Sarah
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<br />Mommy to Johnny
 
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grassisgreener

New member
Is it possible that there are other things that are contributing to the anger you feel? Not trying to drudge up any bad feelings in you but maybe there are other things that make you feel this way and your having CF seems like it is the main contributor since CF causes so much stress? ETA: I am thinking of things like rather than being upset by placing blame on them for your CF could it actually be that you are hurt/upset/angry by a possible lack of compassion? I dunno, just digging here!

I can understand the frustration you feel by not being able to talk to them, my parents are similar and it isn't easy for me to take!
 
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grassisgreener

New member
Is it possible that there are other things that are contributing to the anger you feel? Not trying to drudge up any bad feelings in you but maybe there are other things that make you feel this way and your having CF seems like it is the main contributor since CF causes so much stress? ETA: I am thinking of things like rather than being upset by placing blame on them for your CF could it actually be that you are hurt/upset/angry by a possible lack of compassion? I dunno, just digging here!

I can understand the frustration you feel by not being able to talk to them, my parents are similar and it isn't easy for me to take!
 
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grassisgreener

New member
Is it possible that there are other things that are contributing to the anger you feel? Not trying to drudge up any bad feelings in you but maybe there are other things that make you feel this way and your having CF seems like it is the main contributor since CF causes so much stress? ETA: I am thinking of things like rather than being upset by placing blame on them for your CF could it actually be that you are hurt/upset/angry by a possible lack of compassion? I dunno, just digging here!

I can understand the frustration you feel by not being able to talk to them, my parents are similar and it isn't easy for me to take!
 
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grassisgreener

New member
Is it possible that there are other things that are contributing to the anger you feel? Not trying to drudge up any bad feelings in you but maybe there are other things that make you feel this way and your having CF seems like it is the main contributor since CF causes so much stress? ETA: I am thinking of things like rather than being upset by placing blame on them for your CF could it actually be that you are hurt/upset/angry by a possible lack of compassion? I dunno, just digging here!

I can understand the frustration you feel by not being able to talk to them, my parents are similar and it isn't easy for me to take!
 
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grassisgreener

New member
Is it possible that there are other things that are contributing to the anger you feel? Not trying to drudge up any bad feelings in you but maybe there are other things that make you feel this way and your having CF seems like it is the main contributor since CF causes so much stress? ETA: I am thinking of things like rather than being upset by placing blame on them for your CF could it actually be that you are hurt/upset/angry by a possible lack of compassion? I dunno, just digging here!
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<br />I can understand the frustration you feel by not being able to talk to them, my parents are similar and it isn't easy for me to take!
 
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