HELP...I don't know what else to do...

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suziecoffeebean

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OH I didn't take it like that at all. I just didn't want anyone to think I made an attack. I did it very objectively. I think. I was just stating that I did all I could. And I really didn't think anyone would lie for her is all. And I really didn't think she would take my privileges to see them away. I am just really really upset. I just don't want her to be telling the kids stuff that is not true. I hope she comes to her senses too my grandma and dad both think she will get over it someday and want me around again. I don't know man...just is really a sucky situation it seems like whenever someone tries to do what is right and truthful they get nothing but this kind of thing.

*<i>Sigh</i>*
 
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suziecoffeebean

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OH I didn't take it like that at all. I just didn't want anyone to think I made an attack. I did it very objectively. I think. I was just stating that I did all I could. And I really didn't think anyone would lie for her is all. And I really didn't think she would take my privileges to see them away. I am just really really upset. I just don't want her to be telling the kids stuff that is not true. I hope she comes to her senses too my grandma and dad both think she will get over it someday and want me around again. I don't know man...just is really a sucky situation it seems like whenever someone tries to do what is right and truthful they get nothing but this kind of thing.

*<i>Sigh</i>*
 
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suziecoffeebean

New member
OH I didn't take it like that at all. I just didn't want anyone to think I made an attack. I did it very objectively. I think. I was just stating that I did all I could. And I really didn't think anyone would lie for her is all. And I really didn't think she would take my privileges to see them away. I am just really really upset. I just don't want her to be telling the kids stuff that is not true. I hope she comes to her senses too my grandma and dad both think she will get over it someday and want me around again. I don't know man...just is really a sucky situation it seems like whenever someone tries to do what is right and truthful they get nothing but this kind of thing.

*<i>Sigh</i>*
 
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suziecoffeebean

New member
OH I didn't take it like that at all. I just didn't want anyone to think I made an attack. I did it very objectively. I think. I was just stating that I did all I could. And I really didn't think anyone would lie for her is all. And I really didn't think she would take my privileges to see them away. I am just really really upset. I just don't want her to be telling the kids stuff that is not true. I hope she comes to her senses too my grandma and dad both think she will get over it someday and want me around again. I don't know man...just is really a sucky situation it seems like whenever someone tries to do what is right and truthful they get nothing but this kind of thing.

*<i>Sigh</i>*
 
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kayleesgrandma

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Suzie, stay strong and know that we are all with you in this...you should write a story about this--it's like an incredible book of fiction--except we know that it is true life!!! You are an awesome sister, and let us know if you need anything.<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
 
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kayleesgrandma

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Suzie, stay strong and know that we are all with you in this...you should write a story about this--it's like an incredible book of fiction--except we know that it is true life!!! You are an awesome sister, and let us know if you need anything.<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
 
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kayleesgrandma

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Suzie, stay strong and know that we are all with you in this...you should write a story about this--it's like an incredible book of fiction--except we know that it is true life!!! You are an awesome sister, and let us know if you need anything.<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
 
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kayleesgrandma

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Suzie, stay strong and know that we are all with you in this...you should write a story about this--it's like an incredible book of fiction--except we know that it is true life!!! You are an awesome sister, and let us know if you need anything.<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
 
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kayleesgrandma

New member
Suzie, stay strong and know that we are all with you in this...you should write a story about this--it's like an incredible book of fiction--except we know that it is true life!!! You are an awesome sister, and let us know if you need anything.<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
 
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kayleesgrandma

New member
Suzie, stay strong and know that we are all with you in this...you should write a story about this--it's like an incredible book of fiction--except we know that it is true life!!! You are an awesome sister, and let us know if you need anything.<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
 
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suziecoffeebean

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Thanks! I have been told several times I should write a book. This would even be a short chapter in the grand scheme of things. I appreciate the support. I am really glad I found this place because it has been a great help through all of this and an excellent way to vent.
 
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suziecoffeebean

New member
Thanks! I have been told several times I should write a book. This would even be a short chapter in the grand scheme of things. I appreciate the support. I am really glad I found this place because it has been a great help through all of this and an excellent way to vent.
 
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suziecoffeebean

New member
Thanks! I have been told several times I should write a book. This would even be a short chapter in the grand scheme of things. I appreciate the support. I am really glad I found this place because it has been a great help through all of this and an excellent way to vent.
 
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suziecoffeebean

New member
Thanks! I have been told several times I should write a book. This would even be a short chapter in the grand scheme of things. I appreciate the support. I am really glad I found this place because it has been a great help through all of this and an excellent way to vent.
 
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suziecoffeebean

New member
Thanks! I have been told several times I should write a book. This would even be a short chapter in the grand scheme of things. I appreciate the support. I am really glad I found this place because it has been a great help through all of this and an excellent way to vent.
 
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suziecoffeebean

New member
Thanks! I have been told several times I should write a book. This would even be a short chapter in the grand scheme of things. I appreciate the support. I am really glad I found this place because it has been a great help through all of this and an excellent way to vent.
 
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mom2lillian

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Suzie-sounds like you are doing everythign right but for whatever reason your family is doing everythign wrong. I can completely see why your family is willing to lie for her being that they now realize their butts are on the line too. Your mom is not the only one that is neglectful in this situation, your aunt and uncle should be ashamed of themselves and my guess is that they are but now they are more worried about important issues --like seeming to be blameless in the situation which necessitates lying.

It is most likely that she will continue to lie to them for some time and refuse you visitation but they are of the age where they will start to see through this and even if worst comes to worst be able to make their own decisions in a couple years.

I am sure if you stay the course and continue to follow all teh right chanels something will have to be done about this by the authorities.

take care and continue posting
 
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mom2lillian

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Suzie-sounds like you are doing everythign right but for whatever reason your family is doing everythign wrong. I can completely see why your family is willing to lie for her being that they now realize their butts are on the line too. Your mom is not the only one that is neglectful in this situation, your aunt and uncle should be ashamed of themselves and my guess is that they are but now they are more worried about important issues --like seeming to be blameless in the situation which necessitates lying.

It is most likely that she will continue to lie to them for some time and refuse you visitation but they are of the age where they will start to see through this and even if worst comes to worst be able to make their own decisions in a couple years.

I am sure if you stay the course and continue to follow all teh right chanels something will have to be done about this by the authorities.

take care and continue posting
 
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mom2lillian

New member
Suzie-sounds like you are doing everythign right but for whatever reason your family is doing everythign wrong. I can completely see why your family is willing to lie for her being that they now realize their butts are on the line too. Your mom is not the only one that is neglectful in this situation, your aunt and uncle should be ashamed of themselves and my guess is that they are but now they are more worried about important issues --like seeming to be blameless in the situation which necessitates lying.

It is most likely that she will continue to lie to them for some time and refuse you visitation but they are of the age where they will start to see through this and even if worst comes to worst be able to make their own decisions in a couple years.

I am sure if you stay the course and continue to follow all teh right chanels something will have to be done about this by the authorities.

take care and continue posting
 
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mom2lillian

New member
Suzie-sounds like you are doing everythign right but for whatever reason your family is doing everythign wrong. I can completely see why your family is willing to lie for her being that they now realize their butts are on the line too. Your mom is not the only one that is neglectful in this situation, your aunt and uncle should be ashamed of themselves and my guess is that they are but now they are more worried about important issues --like seeming to be blameless in the situation which necessitates lying.

It is most likely that she will continue to lie to them for some time and refuse you visitation but they are of the age where they will start to see through this and even if worst comes to worst be able to make their own decisions in a couple years.

I am sure if you stay the course and continue to follow all teh right chanels something will have to be done about this by the authorities.

take care and continue posting
 
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