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LouLou

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I was on the pill since age 15...so 12 and 1/2 years. I don't know off hand how long the pill can effect your fertility. I've heard most women are 'regular' after 6 months off. That's why I picked that amount of time before trying to conceive.

A great book that has the answer (sorry not at home or I'd look it up) is "Your Fertility Signals: Using Them to Achieve or Avoid Pregnancy Naturally" by Merryl Winstein. I feel like she might have said that b.c. can plague some women's fertility for two years. Best to get the book. This was the main reason I conceived as fast as I did. It allowed me to understand my body and all the results I was seeing.

Are you saying maybe the pill has something to do with not being able to conceive or the fact that you have great peaks and troughs with your basal temps? I would say possibly to the difficulty to conceive but that b.c. would not have contributed to your nice ovulation cycle...in fact it would be likely to do the opposite.

Jenn, I have a feeling it isn't you. Although that being said ovarian cysts can effect fertility I believe. Are you having the propensity for cysts monitored? Have they ever done that dye test that sees if your fallopian tubes are blocked? Where are the cysts when you've had them in the past. Getting a guy's spermcount tested is so easy. If we were you two we would do that to rule it out...but to each their own and I respect your decision to investigate or not.
 
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Jennifer1981

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Lauren,

Yeah, you're probably right about the b/c. My cycles are perfect and have been forever. Just thought I'd mention it...

How do you go about the testing for the fallopian tube blockage? Does insurance pay for any of it? I have Blue Cross through my husband. I know it might be my husband. I know. However, getting him convinced to get tested seems impossible. I tried for hours and in tears. It didn't work. That was about 1 month ago. That's why I'm trying to not think about it at all now.

My only guess for me and my infertility would be the blocked tubes due to cervical mucus. I know that I have thicker mucus. Sometimes it is greenish-tinged. Sorry for the graphics. Although around ovulation, it is clear, stretchy, and abundant. So I'm not too sure. I tried Robitussin and noticed somewhat of a difference but not a ton. I seem to be fine around ovulation - it's after that when it gets messed up looking.
 
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Jennifer1981

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Lauren,

Yeah, you're probably right about the b/c. My cycles are perfect and have been forever. Just thought I'd mention it...

How do you go about the testing for the fallopian tube blockage? Does insurance pay for any of it? I have Blue Cross through my husband. I know it might be my husband. I know. However, getting him convinced to get tested seems impossible. I tried for hours and in tears. It didn't work. That was about 1 month ago. That's why I'm trying to not think about it at all now.

My only guess for me and my infertility would be the blocked tubes due to cervical mucus. I know that I have thicker mucus. Sometimes it is greenish-tinged. Sorry for the graphics. Although around ovulation, it is clear, stretchy, and abundant. So I'm not too sure. I tried Robitussin and noticed somewhat of a difference but not a ton. I seem to be fine around ovulation - it's after that when it gets messed up looking.
 
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Jennifer1981

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Lauren,

Yeah, you're probably right about the b/c. My cycles are perfect and have been forever. Just thought I'd mention it...

How do you go about the testing for the fallopian tube blockage? Does insurance pay for any of it? I have Blue Cross through my husband. I know it might be my husband. I know. However, getting him convinced to get tested seems impossible. I tried for hours and in tears. It didn't work. That was about 1 month ago. That's why I'm trying to not think about it at all now.

My only guess for me and my infertility would be the blocked tubes due to cervical mucus. I know that I have thicker mucus. Sometimes it is greenish-tinged. Sorry for the graphics. Although around ovulation, it is clear, stretchy, and abundant. So I'm not too sure. I tried Robitussin and noticed somewhat of a difference but not a ton. I seem to be fine around ovulation - it's after that when it gets messed up looking.
 
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LouLou

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I'm not very well versed in the vaginal/infertility testing so unfortunately I can't answer your question about what the test is called. Probably one of the ladies on here that has worked with an infertility clinic can help you more. It might be the same test where liquid is sent through the fallopian tubes and reopens them at the same time. With cf this problem can occur. I remember someone saying they had their fallopian tubes cleared of mucus this way.

Insurance covers gynocological testing. Infertility stuff might be a bit grayer but I think you can reason that this testing is for your health although then it might need to be done at your gyno and not the infertility doctor's office. Have you had a talk with your gyno about this situation?

Your husband's response to getting tested is likely not unusual. No guy wants to hear he's shooting blanks or that he has swimmers but they are slow. They'd rather not know or just think it's their wife's problem in most cases. I hope you don't take offense to this but I do think it's true and a natural defensive mechanism for guys that they mostly don't even know they are doing. It's all back to evolution. Women only really need one man to keep our population going. Being infertile as a male strikes down to the bone. I'd fathom to say more so than for women.

So back on target here, if I were you I'd want to know why my body wasn't 'working' not so much to achieve pregnancy but to make sure I don't have some sort of problem that needs treated. Has your gyno. ever mentioned anything like this type of thinking? Okay I don't mean to add worry to your situation but thinking of it this way might help you and DH. Here's why: So you talk to your gyno. and she says she's done everything she can and doesn't know why you aren't getting pregnant. For that appt. maybe you just go and have a heart-to-heart with the doc. Then lets say she refers you to another doctor. Maybe an infertility doctor...maybe someone else I don't know. Maybe you don't call it an infertility doctor. A fertility specialist sounds better or whatever you think lessens the blow to DH. Either way you are chasing out why your body isn't functioning (assuming it's you). Believe that that is why you are going there whole heartedly and your loving husband will be on board. All the while, DH attends all these appt. so he sees what you are going through and supports you with all the 'testing.' He soon will realize (I would think) what a small inconvenience it would be for him to blow his load in a cup. I believe it is that basic and sorry for the graphic language if it offends anyone. Insurance might have a step process...first we test this on her, then we test this on her only if his test comes out normally. It might be easier to swallow for him if it comes from the doctor's mouth.

If this process doesn't work. I don't know why it wouldn't because all you are asking of him is to attend appts to find out why YOUR body isn't functioning then I would highly suggest marrital counseling because its a fact that reproduction issues can rear their ugly heads years later if not dealt with emotionally.
 
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LouLou

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I'm not very well versed in the vaginal/infertility testing so unfortunately I can't answer your question about what the test is called. Probably one of the ladies on here that has worked with an infertility clinic can help you more. It might be the same test where liquid is sent through the fallopian tubes and reopens them at the same time. With cf this problem can occur. I remember someone saying they had their fallopian tubes cleared of mucus this way.

Insurance covers gynocological testing. Infertility stuff might be a bit grayer but I think you can reason that this testing is for your health although then it might need to be done at your gyno and not the infertility doctor's office. Have you had a talk with your gyno about this situation?

Your husband's response to getting tested is likely not unusual. No guy wants to hear he's shooting blanks or that he has swimmers but they are slow. They'd rather not know or just think it's their wife's problem in most cases. I hope you don't take offense to this but I do think it's true and a natural defensive mechanism for guys that they mostly don't even know they are doing. It's all back to evolution. Women only really need one man to keep our population going. Being infertile as a male strikes down to the bone. I'd fathom to say more so than for women.

So back on target here, if I were you I'd want to know why my body wasn't 'working' not so much to achieve pregnancy but to make sure I don't have some sort of problem that needs treated. Has your gyno. ever mentioned anything like this type of thinking? Okay I don't mean to add worry to your situation but thinking of it this way might help you and DH. Here's why: So you talk to your gyno. and she says she's done everything she can and doesn't know why you aren't getting pregnant. For that appt. maybe you just go and have a heart-to-heart with the doc. Then lets say she refers you to another doctor. Maybe an infertility doctor...maybe someone else I don't know. Maybe you don't call it an infertility doctor. A fertility specialist sounds better or whatever you think lessens the blow to DH. Either way you are chasing out why your body isn't functioning (assuming it's you). Believe that that is why you are going there whole heartedly and your loving husband will be on board. All the while, DH attends all these appt. so he sees what you are going through and supports you with all the 'testing.' He soon will realize (I would think) what a small inconvenience it would be for him to blow his load in a cup. I believe it is that basic and sorry for the graphic language if it offends anyone. Insurance might have a step process...first we test this on her, then we test this on her only if his test comes out normally. It might be easier to swallow for him if it comes from the doctor's mouth.

If this process doesn't work. I don't know why it wouldn't because all you are asking of him is to attend appts to find out why YOUR body isn't functioning then I would highly suggest marrital counseling because its a fact that reproduction issues can rear their ugly heads years later if not dealt with emotionally.
 
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LouLou

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I'm not very well versed in the vaginal/infertility testing so unfortunately I can't answer your question about what the test is called. Probably one of the ladies on here that has worked with an infertility clinic can help you more. It might be the same test where liquid is sent through the fallopian tubes and reopens them at the same time. With cf this problem can occur. I remember someone saying they had their fallopian tubes cleared of mucus this way.

Insurance covers gynocological testing. Infertility stuff might be a bit grayer but I think you can reason that this testing is for your health although then it might need to be done at your gyno and not the infertility doctor's office. Have you had a talk with your gyno about this situation?

Your husband's response to getting tested is likely not unusual. No guy wants to hear he's shooting blanks or that he has swimmers but they are slow. They'd rather not know or just think it's their wife's problem in most cases. I hope you don't take offense to this but I do think it's true and a natural defensive mechanism for guys that they mostly don't even know they are doing. It's all back to evolution. Women only really need one man to keep our population going. Being infertile as a male strikes down to the bone. I'd fathom to say more so than for women.

So back on target here, if I were you I'd want to know why my body wasn't 'working' not so much to achieve pregnancy but to make sure I don't have some sort of problem that needs treated. Has your gyno. ever mentioned anything like this type of thinking? Okay I don't mean to add worry to your situation but thinking of it this way might help you and DH. Here's why: So you talk to your gyno. and she says she's done everything she can and doesn't know why you aren't getting pregnant. For that appt. maybe you just go and have a heart-to-heart with the doc. Then lets say she refers you to another doctor. Maybe an infertility doctor...maybe someone else I don't know. Maybe you don't call it an infertility doctor. A fertility specialist sounds better or whatever you think lessens the blow to DH. Either way you are chasing out why your body isn't functioning (assuming it's you). Believe that that is why you are going there whole heartedly and your loving husband will be on board. All the while, DH attends all these appt. so he sees what you are going through and supports you with all the 'testing.' He soon will realize (I would think) what a small inconvenience it would be for him to blow his load in a cup. I believe it is that basic and sorry for the graphic language if it offends anyone. Insurance might have a step process...first we test this on her, then we test this on her only if his test comes out normally. It might be easier to swallow for him if it comes from the doctor's mouth.

If this process doesn't work. I don't know why it wouldn't because all you are asking of him is to attend appts to find out why YOUR body isn't functioning then I would highly suggest marrital counseling because its a fact that reproduction issues can rear their ugly heads years later if not dealt with emotionally.
 
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LouLou

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oh and there's no harm in calling your insurance (by the way I've found BCBS to be great) and asking about specific coverage for various procedures.
 
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LouLou

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oh and there's no harm in calling your insurance (by the way I've found BCBS to be great) and asking about specific coverage for various procedures.
 
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LouLou

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oh and there's no harm in calling your insurance (by the way I've found BCBS to be great) and asking about specific coverage for various procedures.
 
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LouLou

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Oh and one other thing. I find if I tackle something like a 'health project' instead of a 'health crisis' HENCE LITTLE TO KNOW DRAMA OR EMOTION. DH is is much more supportive and level headed. As soon as the water works start with something I'm working on regarding my health. He thinks I've blown it out of proportion or need to get a grip. Try thinking of this situation from different ways, Jenn. The way I suggested is merely one way. I'm sure there are others. You'll know what to do when you find it. Then pursue it, like a mouse and cheese. Be clear what your expectations are of DH for the 'project.' Maybe he'll need a reward to feel it's worth his participation <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">
 
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LouLou

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Oh and one other thing. I find if I tackle something like a 'health project' instead of a 'health crisis' HENCE LITTLE TO KNOW DRAMA OR EMOTION. DH is is much more supportive and level headed. As soon as the water works start with something I'm working on regarding my health. He thinks I've blown it out of proportion or need to get a grip. Try thinking of this situation from different ways, Jenn. The way I suggested is merely one way. I'm sure there are others. You'll know what to do when you find it. Then pursue it, like a mouse and cheese. Be clear what your expectations are of DH for the 'project.' Maybe he'll need a reward to feel it's worth his participation <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">
 
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LouLou

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Oh and one other thing. I find if I tackle something like a 'health project' instead of a 'health crisis' HENCE LITTLE TO KNOW DRAMA OR EMOTION. DH is is much more supportive and level headed. As soon as the water works start with something I'm working on regarding my health. He thinks I've blown it out of proportion or need to get a grip. Try thinking of this situation from different ways, Jenn. The way I suggested is merely one way. I'm sure there are others. You'll know what to do when you find it. Then pursue it, like a mouse and cheese. Be clear what your expectations are of DH for the 'project.' Maybe he'll need a reward to feel it's worth his participation <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">
 
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AnD

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My gyn is my infertility doctor (he does pediatric gyn and infertility, and continues to see us adult cfs <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> ) . <i><b>Don't</b> </i>call your insurance before you talk to your doctor- sometimes they will "flag" your case, and may refuse to pay for stuff they would normally pay for in routine testing(it depends on what your particular policy covers under which circumstances <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> -I also have BC/BS). My doctor and his staff were very familiar with which tests/ treatments our insurance would pay, and which ones we were better off paying out of pocket in the long run <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> .
 
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AnD

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My gyn is my infertility doctor (he does pediatric gyn and infertility, and continues to see us adult cfs <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> ) . <i><b>Don't</b> </i>call your insurance before you talk to your doctor- sometimes they will "flag" your case, and may refuse to pay for stuff they would normally pay for in routine testing(it depends on what your particular policy covers under which circumstances <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> -I also have BC/BS). My doctor and his staff were very familiar with which tests/ treatments our insurance would pay, and which ones we were better off paying out of pocket in the long run <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> .
 
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AnD

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My gyn is my infertility doctor (he does pediatric gyn and infertility, and continues to see us adult cfs <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> ) . <i><b>Don't</b> </i>call your insurance before you talk to your doctor- sometimes they will "flag" your case, and may refuse to pay for stuff they would normally pay for in routine testing(it depends on what your particular policy covers under which circumstances <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> -I also have BC/BS). My doctor and his staff were very familiar with which tests/ treatments our insurance would pay, and which ones we were better off paying out of pocket in the long run <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> .
 
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julie

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Here's the info on the "fallopian tube testing", LOL! <a target=_blank class=ftalternatingbarlinklarge href="http://www.ivf.com/hsg.html
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Jessi, Dr. Depender is great with infertility stuff too, at least referring to who you need to see. Patients come back all the time and thank him for their babies.
 
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