<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>cdale613</b></i>
I'm sorry, but you and I strongly disagree on some fundamental ideas of happiness, health, and how to live life with CF.
What are your goals? What are your responsibilities? What are your dreams?
I'm engaged to be married in 3 months. I could not ask my fiance to marry me and risk the heartache of losing me to CF if I wasn't willing to give 110% in keeping myself healthy. I'm 27. My FEV1 baseline is still 90 percent. That makes it possible to look optimistically to the future and consider children (we don't care what the board thinks btw). Ask my fiance the difference between 45 and 55. Its worth it, and to suggest that its ok compromise any of that for 2 joints a year or getting drunk every so often is just sad.
I like to exercise. I am scared of not being able to do the things I love to do - biking, hiking, running, etc. Compliance with my meds is nothing compared to what I'd be giving up if I couldn't do these activities.
I work full time, I have a Masters degree. I'm not done achieving, and I'm not willing to sit around watching my life pass me by just because I have CF. I took the LSAT yesterday. I am competing in a half-ironman triathlon in three weeks. I'm biking 150 miles for the CFF in 5 weeks. I'm going on my honeymoon to Croatia in 14 weeks. I'm living a full life, and compliance with my meds makes that possible.
The guilt and shame I would feel if I was unable to provide for my wife and family; lost the ability to do the activities I love doing; lost the drive and ability to achieve... while knowing that I hadn't been fully compliant would be more than I could handle. Now, CF is chronic... I understand that. I can live with myself if I know I've done everything I can do to stave it off as long as possible.
100 percent compliance with my health care makes everything else I do possible. The 3-4 hours I spend taking care of myself each day is a small price to pay for the other 20.
And seriously.... you do realize you can do other things while you inhale meds through a neb... right? Be it LSAT prep tests, reading, watching TV, being online... a lot of it is time you would spend sitting anyway.
Don't try to justify your lack of compliance. Set goals that necessitate full compliance, and achieve them. That is how you live a full live with CF.
Sorry, but there no shortcuts. You get one chance at life. No do-overs. Don't make foolish decisions that appear to gratify you in the short-term that sacrifice your long-term health and happiness. Its really not worth it.
Chris
27 m w/CF</end quote>
Bravo! Bravo! Bravo!!!!
I'm sorry, but you and I strongly disagree on some fundamental ideas of happiness, health, and how to live life with CF.
What are your goals? What are your responsibilities? What are your dreams?
I'm engaged to be married in 3 months. I could not ask my fiance to marry me and risk the heartache of losing me to CF if I wasn't willing to give 110% in keeping myself healthy. I'm 27. My FEV1 baseline is still 90 percent. That makes it possible to look optimistically to the future and consider children (we don't care what the board thinks btw). Ask my fiance the difference between 45 and 55. Its worth it, and to suggest that its ok compromise any of that for 2 joints a year or getting drunk every so often is just sad.
I like to exercise. I am scared of not being able to do the things I love to do - biking, hiking, running, etc. Compliance with my meds is nothing compared to what I'd be giving up if I couldn't do these activities.
I work full time, I have a Masters degree. I'm not done achieving, and I'm not willing to sit around watching my life pass me by just because I have CF. I took the LSAT yesterday. I am competing in a half-ironman triathlon in three weeks. I'm biking 150 miles for the CFF in 5 weeks. I'm going on my honeymoon to Croatia in 14 weeks. I'm living a full life, and compliance with my meds makes that possible.
The guilt and shame I would feel if I was unable to provide for my wife and family; lost the ability to do the activities I love doing; lost the drive and ability to achieve... while knowing that I hadn't been fully compliant would be more than I could handle. Now, CF is chronic... I understand that. I can live with myself if I know I've done everything I can do to stave it off as long as possible.
100 percent compliance with my health care makes everything else I do possible. The 3-4 hours I spend taking care of myself each day is a small price to pay for the other 20.
And seriously.... you do realize you can do other things while you inhale meds through a neb... right? Be it LSAT prep tests, reading, watching TV, being online... a lot of it is time you would spend sitting anyway.
Don't try to justify your lack of compliance. Set goals that necessitate full compliance, and achieve them. That is how you live a full live with CF.
Sorry, but there no shortcuts. You get one chance at life. No do-overs. Don't make foolish decisions that appear to gratify you in the short-term that sacrifice your long-term health and happiness. Its really not worth it.
Chris
27 m w/CF</end quote>
Bravo! Bravo! Bravo!!!!