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JennifersHope

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Oh I am sorry.. I totally can understand hospital depression.. I get anxiety in the hospital totally.. and usually need medication because I can't relax..

As far as emotional support, to me that is as important if not more important then any medication or CPT or breathing treatment.. and I admit I am pretty needy emotionally when I am sick.

I need friends to come and pick my spirits up but mostly I need the ppl I love the most to be there, even if it is for a few minutes.. I need it.

If these are ppl that are good friends, I would just be honest, usually with good friends girls can lay it on the line... I would tell them that you get lonely in the hospital and that you were wondering if there was a reason that they didn't come see you. ask them if they were busy, or what was the deal? It does seem odd that they didn't even call for seven days... but I don't know what they were thinking..

I really think you should be brave and talk it out with them and clear the air..so you can continue to trust these people to be your good friends..

Sending you a lot of hugs, love and understanding and a wish for a Happy Birthday

Jennifer
 
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JennifersHope

New member
Oh I am sorry.. I totally can understand hospital depression.. I get anxiety in the hospital totally.. and usually need medication because I can't relax..

As far as emotional support, to me that is as important if not more important then any medication or CPT or breathing treatment.. and I admit I am pretty needy emotionally when I am sick.

I need friends to come and pick my spirits up but mostly I need the ppl I love the most to be there, even if it is for a few minutes.. I need it.

If these are ppl that are good friends, I would just be honest, usually with good friends girls can lay it on the line... I would tell them that you get lonely in the hospital and that you were wondering if there was a reason that they didn't come see you. ask them if they were busy, or what was the deal? It does seem odd that they didn't even call for seven days... but I don't know what they were thinking..

I really think you should be brave and talk it out with them and clear the air..so you can continue to trust these people to be your good friends..

Sending you a lot of hugs, love and understanding and a wish for a Happy Birthday

Jennifer
 
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JennifersHope

New member
Oh I am sorry.. I totally can understand hospital depression.. I get anxiety in the hospital totally.. and usually need medication because I can't relax..

As far as emotional support, to me that is as important if not more important then any medication or CPT or breathing treatment.. and I admit I am pretty needy emotionally when I am sick.

I need friends to come and pick my spirits up but mostly I need the ppl I love the most to be there, even if it is for a few minutes.. I need it.

If these are ppl that are good friends, I would just be honest, usually with good friends girls can lay it on the line... I would tell them that you get lonely in the hospital and that you were wondering if there was a reason that they didn't come see you. ask them if they were busy, or what was the deal? It does seem odd that they didn't even call for seven days... but I don't know what they were thinking..

I really think you should be brave and talk it out with them and clear the air..so you can continue to trust these people to be your good friends..

Sending you a lot of hugs, love and understanding and a wish for a Happy Birthday

Jennifer
 
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JennifersHope

New member
Oh I am sorry.. I totally can understand hospital depression.. I get anxiety in the hospital totally.. and usually need medication because I can't relax..

As far as emotional support, to me that is as important if not more important then any medication or CPT or breathing treatment.. and I admit I am pretty needy emotionally when I am sick.

I need friends to come and pick my spirits up but mostly I need the ppl I love the most to be there, even if it is for a few minutes.. I need it.

If these are ppl that are good friends, I would just be honest, usually with good friends girls can lay it on the line... I would tell them that you get lonely in the hospital and that you were wondering if there was a reason that they didn't come see you. ask them if they were busy, or what was the deal? It does seem odd that they didn't even call for seven days... but I don't know what they were thinking..

I really think you should be brave and talk it out with them and clear the air..so you can continue to trust these people to be your good friends..

Sending you a lot of hugs, love and understanding and a wish for a Happy Birthday

Jennifer
 
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JennifersHope

New member
Oh I am sorry.. I totally can understand hospital depression.. I get anxiety in the hospital totally.. and usually need medication because I can't relax..

As far as emotional support, to me that is as important if not more important then any medication or CPT or breathing treatment.. and I admit I am pretty needy emotionally when I am sick.

I need friends to come and pick my spirits up but mostly I need the ppl I love the most to be there, even if it is for a few minutes.. I need it.

If these are ppl that are good friends, I would just be honest, usually with good friends girls can lay it on the line... I would tell them that you get lonely in the hospital and that you were wondering if there was a reason that they didn't come see you. ask them if they were busy, or what was the deal? It does seem odd that they didn't even call for seven days... but I don't know what they were thinking..

I really think you should be brave and talk it out with them and clear the air..so you can continue to trust these people to be your good friends..

Sending you a lot of hugs, love and understanding and a wish for a Happy Birthday

Jennifer
 
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kayleesgrandma

New member
Hmmm, that's kind of tough, but it seems like you need to express yourself, or this will nag at you. I guess I would have called them while in hopital and asked when they were going to come up. I don't know how you can talk to them while out celebrating your bday, cause it may be ackward...maybe something like "I wish you could've visited me--I was starving 'cause of the hospital food!" Good luck, let us know how it turned out. HAPP BIRTHDAY EARLY! 27 is a good age, and even better if you're a CFr! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0">
 
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kayleesgrandma

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Hmmm, that's kind of tough, but it seems like you need to express yourself, or this will nag at you. I guess I would have called them while in hopital and asked when they were going to come up. I don't know how you can talk to them while out celebrating your bday, cause it may be ackward...maybe something like "I wish you could've visited me--I was starving 'cause of the hospital food!" Good luck, let us know how it turned out. HAPP BIRTHDAY EARLY! 27 is a good age, and even better if you're a CFr! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0">
 
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kayleesgrandma

New member
Hmmm, that's kind of tough, but it seems like you need to express yourself, or this will nag at you. I guess I would have called them while in hopital and asked when they were going to come up. I don't know how you can talk to them while out celebrating your bday, cause it may be ackward...maybe something like "I wish you could've visited me--I was starving 'cause of the hospital food!" Good luck, let us know how it turned out. HAPP BIRTHDAY EARLY! 27 is a good age, and even better if you're a CFr! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0">
 
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kayleesgrandma

New member
Hmmm, that's kind of tough, but it seems like you need to express yourself, or this will nag at you. I guess I would have called them while in hopital and asked when they were going to come up. I don't know how you can talk to them while out celebrating your bday, cause it may be ackward...maybe something like "I wish you could've visited me--I was starving 'cause of the hospital food!" Good luck, let us know how it turned out. HAPP BIRTHDAY EARLY! 27 is a good age, and even better if you're a CFr! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0">
 
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kayleesgrandma

New member
Hmmm, that's kind of tough, but it seems like you need to express yourself, or this will nag at you. I guess I would have called them while in hopital and asked when they were going to come up. I don't know how you can talk to them while out celebrating your bday, cause it may be ackward...maybe something like "I wish you could've visited me--I was starving 'cause of the hospital food!" Good luck, let us know how it turned out. HAPP BIRTHDAY EARLY! 27 is a good age, and even better if you're a CFr! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0">
 
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bittyhorse23

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Jen

I agree with everyone else. I would just bring it up to them but jokingly. Maybe they are having a hard time with you being in there and they felt overwhelmed just like you did. It may have been rough on them too. I would just say something like Terri mentioned - joking about starving because of the hospital food. If they are your good friends you guys should be able to talk about it. Just try not to get all finger pointing and blame them for anything until you hear their side.

And Happy early Birthday!!!! <img src="i/expressions/present.gif" border="0">

<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
 
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bittyhorse23

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Jen

I agree with everyone else. I would just bring it up to them but jokingly. Maybe they are having a hard time with you being in there and they felt overwhelmed just like you did. It may have been rough on them too. I would just say something like Terri mentioned - joking about starving because of the hospital food. If they are your good friends you guys should be able to talk about it. Just try not to get all finger pointing and blame them for anything until you hear their side.

And Happy early Birthday!!!! <img src="i/expressions/present.gif" border="0">

<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
 
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bittyhorse23

New member
Jen

I agree with everyone else. I would just bring it up to them but jokingly. Maybe they are having a hard time with you being in there and they felt overwhelmed just like you did. It may have been rough on them too. I would just say something like Terri mentioned - joking about starving because of the hospital food. If they are your good friends you guys should be able to talk about it. Just try not to get all finger pointing and blame them for anything until you hear their side.

And Happy early Birthday!!!! <img src="i/expressions/present.gif" border="0">

<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
 
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bittyhorse23

New member
Jen

I agree with everyone else. I would just bring it up to them but jokingly. Maybe they are having a hard time with you being in there and they felt overwhelmed just like you did. It may have been rough on them too. I would just say something like Terri mentioned - joking about starving because of the hospital food. If they are your good friends you guys should be able to talk about it. Just try not to get all finger pointing and blame them for anything until you hear their side.

And Happy early Birthday!!!! <img src="i/expressions/present.gif" border="0">

<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
 
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bittyhorse23

New member
Jen

I agree with everyone else. I would just bring it up to them but jokingly. Maybe they are having a hard time with you being in there and they felt overwhelmed just like you did. It may have been rough on them too. I would just say something like Terri mentioned - joking about starving because of the hospital food. If they are your good friends you guys should be able to talk about it. Just try not to get all finger pointing and blame them for anything until you hear their side.

And Happy early Birthday!!!! <img src="i/expressions/present.gif" border="0">

<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
 
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