I like to bring my laptop and I get the cheapest one month subscription to dial up internet I can find (usually about $12). Then I tell all my friends and family to call me on my cell phone because my room line will be tied up since I'll be online all day. Or they can email me instead!
I bring lots of pillows, 3 to be exact. I bring my own toiletries. (hospital toothbrushes are the worst!) Is this Jaelyn's first hospitalization? i have learned to ask for meds at the hour, not at prescribed intervals. The doctor has to write these orders. What I mean is, if I have IVs every 8 hours, I ask the doctor to write the Rx for 7AM, 2PM and 10PM. This give me a little bit longer sleeping time and my meds typically come ontime. If they are schedule "every 8 hours" and one nurse is late, the next one will be later...and before you know it, you're waking up at 2AM for IVs! No fun. I also schedule 4 respiratory treatments with the RTs. I usually have them come at my first IV treatment so my schedule might look like this: 7AM, 11AM, 4PM, 9PM. I try and work around meals and visitors so I'm not "booked" when I have guests.
So my best advice is schedule, schedule, schedule. That way you'll know what to expect and when to expect it. I also bring notes for the front door. "DO NOT DISTRUB 2300-0700." Have the doctor write the order for this as well. There's no reason to get vitals done while you're sleeping, no matter what the nurse's protocol is (usually twice per shift)
It's all about schedule and doctor's orders. I'm very picky about getting my rest when I go in. It's the least the nurses staff could do to accomodate me.
I also ask for the cafeteria food list. CFers are allowed to order whatever they want, not just from the patient meal list. Maybe all of this is redunant because you've done this before. If so, my apologies.
Ok, more stuff to bring. DVD player is good. They probably have video games and dvd players in each room, or at least one on the floor to pass around, but it's best to bring your own incase of technical difficluties. (I've been stuck without one before!) I also like to bring my own contraband of enzymes. Most nurses don't understand that you need them with all snacks, and frankly they are just too slow in bringing them at the right times. So for snacks I prefer to take my own. Make sure to HIDE them!
You can bring her favorite blanket or comforter. I'm usually hot in the hospital beds though, since the mattresses are made of rubber and/or they always have that waterproof pad under the patient. That makes it really hot. But each room should have a fan. Lotion is good cause the rooms are dry. I would maybe go to the dollar store and get some coloring books or toys she hasn't seen before. Pack them away just for the hopsital and save a new one for every other day or so. That's what I do when we go on car trips with my 2 year olds. LOL! Distraction is key! The days can get long but if you have a good schedule, you'll know when you can leave the room and for how long. That's another bonus to having a good schedule! If the weather is nice make sure you have suitable outdoor clothing and just GET OUT of the room for an hour or two each day.
Good luck. Hope some of this helps.
Tara