This is a question we thought we had answereds for years. We always said that we would not take this chance after our son was dx. But after 7 years we are second guessing our selves and now are going to leave it up to god. If it is his will for us to have another kid than we will take it cf or no cf. We are not trying but all three of us have decided we what another kid in the house how ever it comes even if we have to adopt.