I'm posting this in Off Topic because it's not strictly CF related. But, We all know that our Cf kiddos are a stubborn lot, so I'm hoping that someone will have a suggestion or idea, or at least can empathize. I'm going crazy!
For about the last week, Emily has been having "accidents." Only, we are convinced that they are not accidents anymore. She has, apparently just decided not to pee on the toilet anymore. She walks into the bathroom, then pees on the floor in front of the toilet. (I know, I'd be chuckling at this too, if one of you had written it...)
I've talked to the pediatrician and we've pretty much ruled out a physical cause - she's not complining of pain, there's no increased frequency, no (unusual) foul smell. It seems to be a total power play type of thing. I've tried to stay calm to take the "payoff" of the fight out of it. We've tried to find some natural consequences (she has to "help" clean up and can't play or watch tv until the floor and she are cleaned up), I've tried my hardest to use the love and logic ideas...,being sad for her and not mad at her.....but it's been a WEEK now and I'd just about DONE with it!
And here's the kicker. I went out last night and Dad was in charge. Emily. of course, pulled one of her tricks again. Dad made the threat that if she had any more "accidents" she couldn't go camping with the family this weekend. SInce the trip with with Dad's side of the family he told her that if she peed on the floor in the morning, she and mom (me!) would be staying home.
Guess what? She got out of bed, walked into the bathroom, turned to look at me, said "I don't want to go camping this week, maybe next week." And let loose. UUUUGGGHHH! (Go ahead, laugh. I'll laugh about it when she's 30...right now I'm MAD!)
So, we have to follow through on his threat, right? There is NO way that we can back off and still go and enjoy a camping trip, right? I've already informed Dad that I am very upset that HE made a threat that I have to enforce (And I've given him all the reasons that we don't makre threats.....) but, what's done is done, right?
I'm just so upset that now our family camping trip no longer included half of our family. And, I have to stay home when DAd gets to go (Petty, I know, but it was my vacation, too!)
Uuuugggghhh! Any suggestions, anyone?
For about the last week, Emily has been having "accidents." Only, we are convinced that they are not accidents anymore. She has, apparently just decided not to pee on the toilet anymore. She walks into the bathroom, then pees on the floor in front of the toilet. (I know, I'd be chuckling at this too, if one of you had written it...)
I've talked to the pediatrician and we've pretty much ruled out a physical cause - she's not complining of pain, there's no increased frequency, no (unusual) foul smell. It seems to be a total power play type of thing. I've tried to stay calm to take the "payoff" of the fight out of it. We've tried to find some natural consequences (she has to "help" clean up and can't play or watch tv until the floor and she are cleaned up), I've tried my hardest to use the love and logic ideas...,being sad for her and not mad at her.....but it's been a WEEK now and I'd just about DONE with it!
And here's the kicker. I went out last night and Dad was in charge. Emily. of course, pulled one of her tricks again. Dad made the threat that if she had any more "accidents" she couldn't go camping with the family this weekend. SInce the trip with with Dad's side of the family he told her that if she peed on the floor in the morning, she and mom (me!) would be staying home.
Guess what? She got out of bed, walked into the bathroom, turned to look at me, said "I don't want to go camping this week, maybe next week." And let loose. UUUUGGGHHH! (Go ahead, laugh. I'll laugh about it when she's 30...right now I'm MAD!)
So, we have to follow through on his threat, right? There is NO way that we can back off and still go and enjoy a camping trip, right? I've already informed Dad that I am very upset that HE made a threat that I have to enforce (And I've given him all the reasons that we don't makre threats.....) but, what's done is done, right?
I'm just so upset that now our family camping trip no longer included half of our family. And, I have to stay home when DAd gets to go (Petty, I know, but it was my vacation, too!)
Uuuugggghhh! Any suggestions, anyone?