Lynda, I'm not sure I am understanding your questions. All I am doing is compiling lists of users. The idea is when you want to create a private topic you can use the lists to know who to include. You said (I think it was you) that there is a great number of screen names on this site, many you've never heard of before. A list would enable you to include members you don't know, but share a common interest.
If a new user comes to this site looking for support on a controversial issue, I might mention the lists to them, but other than that my role is rather passive.
Also, some of the suggestions you gave (in the private messages) were good suggestions, but they are beyond my control. Just think of me as a guy writing down names and only that. If you want me to write down or erase a name, I'm your guy, but the rest of the process is in the hands of others.