Sad, confused... still not sure

just1more

New member
sorry to hear that it looks like you are joining our 'family', however, know that the people on this board are great and we are all thinking of you.

One quick answer to you question about kids: IF you son has CF then both you & your husband have a defective gene (it takes two to get CF). If this is the case 50% of your kids will have 1 gene (carrier) and 25% will have CF, the other 25% will be normal.
 

just1more

New member
sorry to hear that it looks like you are joining our 'family', however, know that the people on this board are great and we are all thinking of you.

One quick answer to you question about kids: IF you son has CF then both you & your husband have a defective gene (it takes two to get CF). If this is the case 50% of your kids will have 1 gene (carrier) and 25% will have CF, the other 25% will be normal.
 

just1more

New member
sorry to hear that it looks like you are joining our 'family', however, know that the people on this board are great and we are all thinking of you.

One quick answer to you question about kids: IF you son has CF then both you & your husband have a defective gene (it takes two to get CF). If this is the case 50% of your kids will have 1 gene (carrier) and 25% will have CF, the other 25% will be normal.
 

just1more

New member
sorry to hear that it looks like you are joining our 'family', however, know that the people on this board are great and we are all thinking of you.

One quick answer to you question about kids: IF you son has CF then both you & your husband have a defective gene (it takes two to get CF). If this is the case 50% of your kids will have 1 gene (carrier) and 25% will have CF, the other 25% will be normal.
 

just1more

New member
sorry to hear that it looks like you are joining our 'family', however, know that the people on this board are great and we are all thinking of you.
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<br />One quick answer to you question about kids: IF you son has CF then both you & your husband have a defective gene (it takes two to get CF). If this is the case 50% of your kids will have 1 gene (carrier) and 25% will have CF, the other 25% will be normal.
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Mommafirst

Guest
Hello and welcome.

First let me ask you if you are sure it is a meconium plug or if it was meconium illeus? My daughter had a plug (lower in the colon), wheras illeus is usually further up in the digestive tract. It doesn't really matter. Except there is a much higher coincidence of CF with the illeus than with the plug.

All that said, my daughter does have CF. I remember how unbelievably scared and emotional I was when I was in your shoes. Today, my 2 and a half year old daughter is doing terrifically. Besides the fact that she is petite and has trouble gaining weight, she has had NO other issues since the plug. She takes meds and does treatments but ALL of it (including her enzymes as she is mostly pancreatic sufficient) are done preventatively. CF is not a death sentence for today's newborns. There are great treatments, and medicines and there is huge hope for our kids.

Try not to get caught up in a lack of family history of CF. Most of us around here don't have any either. CF wasn't even a diagnosed disease until the 1930's and even then it was missed quite a bit. And the way the genes work, it may not have shown up. I believe I read that nearly 10 million people are unknowingly carriers of CF.

As for having other CF kids, your chance if both you and your partner are carriers is 25% for each kid, but there are IVF procedures that can minimize the possibility even more.

Welcome and hang in there!!! We all know what you are dealing with.
 
M

Mommafirst

Guest
Hello and welcome.

First let me ask you if you are sure it is a meconium plug or if it was meconium illeus? My daughter had a plug (lower in the colon), wheras illeus is usually further up in the digestive tract. It doesn't really matter. Except there is a much higher coincidence of CF with the illeus than with the plug.

All that said, my daughter does have CF. I remember how unbelievably scared and emotional I was when I was in your shoes. Today, my 2 and a half year old daughter is doing terrifically. Besides the fact that she is petite and has trouble gaining weight, she has had NO other issues since the plug. She takes meds and does treatments but ALL of it (including her enzymes as she is mostly pancreatic sufficient) are done preventatively. CF is not a death sentence for today's newborns. There are great treatments, and medicines and there is huge hope for our kids.

Try not to get caught up in a lack of family history of CF. Most of us around here don't have any either. CF wasn't even a diagnosed disease until the 1930's and even then it was missed quite a bit. And the way the genes work, it may not have shown up. I believe I read that nearly 10 million people are unknowingly carriers of CF.

As for having other CF kids, your chance if both you and your partner are carriers is 25% for each kid, but there are IVF procedures that can minimize the possibility even more.

Welcome and hang in there!!! We all know what you are dealing with.
 
M

Mommafirst

Guest
Hello and welcome.

First let me ask you if you are sure it is a meconium plug or if it was meconium illeus? My daughter had a plug (lower in the colon), wheras illeus is usually further up in the digestive tract. It doesn't really matter. Except there is a much higher coincidence of CF with the illeus than with the plug.

All that said, my daughter does have CF. I remember how unbelievably scared and emotional I was when I was in your shoes. Today, my 2 and a half year old daughter is doing terrifically. Besides the fact that she is petite and has trouble gaining weight, she has had NO other issues since the plug. She takes meds and does treatments but ALL of it (including her enzymes as she is mostly pancreatic sufficient) are done preventatively. CF is not a death sentence for today's newborns. There are great treatments, and medicines and there is huge hope for our kids.

Try not to get caught up in a lack of family history of CF. Most of us around here don't have any either. CF wasn't even a diagnosed disease until the 1930's and even then it was missed quite a bit. And the way the genes work, it may not have shown up. I believe I read that nearly 10 million people are unknowingly carriers of CF.

As for having other CF kids, your chance if both you and your partner are carriers is 25% for each kid, but there are IVF procedures that can minimize the possibility even more.

Welcome and hang in there!!! We all know what you are dealing with.
 
M

Mommafirst

Guest
Hello and welcome.

First let me ask you if you are sure it is a meconium plug or if it was meconium illeus? My daughter had a plug (lower in the colon), wheras illeus is usually further up in the digestive tract. It doesn't really matter. Except there is a much higher coincidence of CF with the illeus than with the plug.

All that said, my daughter does have CF. I remember how unbelievably scared and emotional I was when I was in your shoes. Today, my 2 and a half year old daughter is doing terrifically. Besides the fact that she is petite and has trouble gaining weight, she has had NO other issues since the plug. She takes meds and does treatments but ALL of it (including her enzymes as she is mostly pancreatic sufficient) are done preventatively. CF is not a death sentence for today's newborns. There are great treatments, and medicines and there is huge hope for our kids.

Try not to get caught up in a lack of family history of CF. Most of us around here don't have any either. CF wasn't even a diagnosed disease until the 1930's and even then it was missed quite a bit. And the way the genes work, it may not have shown up. I believe I read that nearly 10 million people are unknowingly carriers of CF.

As for having other CF kids, your chance if both you and your partner are carriers is 25% for each kid, but there are IVF procedures that can minimize the possibility even more.

Welcome and hang in there!!! We all know what you are dealing with.
 
M

Mommafirst

Guest
Hello and welcome.
<br />
<br />First let me ask you if you are sure it is a meconium plug or if it was meconium illeus? My daughter had a plug (lower in the colon), wheras illeus is usually further up in the digestive tract. It doesn't really matter. Except there is a much higher coincidence of CF with the illeus than with the plug.
<br />
<br />All that said, my daughter does have CF. I remember how unbelievably scared and emotional I was when I was in your shoes. Today, my 2 and a half year old daughter is doing terrifically. Besides the fact that she is petite and has trouble gaining weight, she has had NO other issues since the plug. She takes meds and does treatments but ALL of it (including her enzymes as she is mostly pancreatic sufficient) are done preventatively. CF is not a death sentence for today's newborns. There are great treatments, and medicines and there is huge hope for our kids.
<br />
<br />Try not to get caught up in a lack of family history of CF. Most of us around here don't have any either. CF wasn't even a diagnosed disease until the 1930's and even then it was missed quite a bit. And the way the genes work, it may not have shown up. I believe I read that nearly 10 million people are unknowingly carriers of CF.
<br />
<br />As for having other CF kids, your chance if both you and your partner are carriers is 25% for each kid, but there are IVF procedures that can minimize the possibility even more.
<br />
<br />Welcome and hang in there!!! We all know what you are dealing with.
 

JORDYSMOM

New member
Hi Tobysmom. Congratulations on your new baby. I'm sorry you are facing all of this right now. This site is great for education and support. We are here for you, so ask any other questions you have. Someone will have answers for you.

Please keep us posted on you and your baby.

Stacey
 

JORDYSMOM

New member
Hi Tobysmom. Congratulations on your new baby. I'm sorry you are facing all of this right now. This site is great for education and support. We are here for you, so ask any other questions you have. Someone will have answers for you.

Please keep us posted on you and your baby.

Stacey
 

JORDYSMOM

New member
Hi Tobysmom. Congratulations on your new baby. I'm sorry you are facing all of this right now. This site is great for education and support. We are here for you, so ask any other questions you have. Someone will have answers for you.

Please keep us posted on you and your baby.

Stacey
 

JORDYSMOM

New member
Hi Tobysmom. Congratulations on your new baby. I'm sorry you are facing all of this right now. This site is great for education and support. We are here for you, so ask any other questions you have. Someone will have answers for you.

Please keep us posted on you and your baby.

Stacey
 

JORDYSMOM

New member
Hi Tobysmom. Congratulations on your new baby. I'm sorry you are facing all of this right now. This site is great for education and support. We are here for you, so ask any other questions you have. Someone will have answers for you.
<br />
<br />Please keep us posted on you and your baby.
<br />
<br />Stacey
 

Ratatosk

Administrator
Staff member
Five years ago we had a similar experience. DS was born with a bowel obstruction, we were told he probably had CF -- our family geneology records go back a LONG times and there aren't any indications of cf -- young deaths, lung or bowel issues...
 

Ratatosk

Administrator
Staff member
Five years ago we had a similar experience. DS was born with a bowel obstruction, we were told he probably had CF -- our family geneology records go back a LONG times and there aren't any indications of cf -- young deaths, lung or bowel issues...
 

Ratatosk

Administrator
Staff member
Five years ago we had a similar experience. DS was born with a bowel obstruction, we were told he probably had CF -- our family geneology records go back a LONG times and there aren't any indications of cf -- young deaths, lung or bowel issues...
 

Ratatosk

Administrator
Staff member
Five years ago we had a similar experience. DS was born with a bowel obstruction, we were told he probably had CF -- our family geneology records go back a LONG times and there aren't any indications of cf -- young deaths, lung or bowel issues...
 

Ratatosk

Administrator
Staff member
Five years ago we had a similar experience. DS was born with a bowel obstruction, we were told he probably had CF -- our family geneology records go back a LONG times and there aren't any indications of cf -- young deaths, lung or bowel issues...
 
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