SARAHSARAH253
New member
Hi there, I feel silly for posting again..But, I have so many questions. Okay, today we had our 2nd visit to the CF Clinic. Everything went well, but I asked the Social Worker some tough questions. I got her to answer some questions, but have no real way to fix anything. They explained to us the income scale.....and Medicaid Scale...ect. They informed me my husband makes too much money. They said we have to be a family of above 8, and my husband would have to make 20,000.00 les a year to qualify. We are not rich we have a nice home...but we are not wealthy. So, I asked so what happens when we reach our 1 million cap. We are getting close since our son was in the NICU for almost 2 months...and already has had 2 surgeries....They answered you and your husband will pay yourselves for his care there are no goverment agencies that will help you since your income is above the stadard middle income level. I said asked so should we sell the house..not have more children? Not eat out again? How do you plan for a disease that there are no true paths of what he will need? Is there anyone else out there that has fealt so upset that what if one day we don't have the money for a lung transplant or something else.....it's different than my friends crying over what if they can't give their new babies all the toys and cute baby cloths..I'm crying that we won't be able to have enough money to keep our baby alive....Please help me..I have been dealing with accepting him having CF......But, this is too much for me.........I'm just a stupid girl who planned her whole life to be a silly stay at home mom.....and I got what I wanted...I have the home and the new baby little boy.....How am I ever going to be able to provide everything he needs...My husband says we will just take it as it comes..But, I'm a planner..I planned not to have kids until I was 30..and we were set up for kids...We did it the right way..Now all I get is it would be better for my son if we were on WELFARE then we would qualify for thing he needed...Sorry if I said too much..I'm just really scared....