so..... we went to the OB for our first appointment today. I told her about the bleeding on Monday night and the trip to the ER. I also told her I had a small amount of spotting again last night. She wanted us to have an ultrasound so we went and ran some errands and came back for our ultrasound.
The tech was very nice, asking how we became pregnant with twins, "was it naturally? Oh, you have Cystic fibrosis, I've heard of that but not too much, why the IVF?" Very inquisitive (in a good way) and very friendly.
So she starts the scan and immediately sees baby A and the heartbeat. She points it out to us on a screen that is set up so Mark and I can see it. Then she see's Baby B and points out that heartbeat. She goes back up to baby A and A is dancing around bouncing off the "walls" (it was so adorable). Mark and I were oohing and ahhhing and talking and laughing and, "oh, they are so cute...."
All through this she's been asking us a lot of questions about the spotting, IVF dates and such, so when she asks "how many ultrasounds did you say you've had", we didn't think much of the question.
I told her what I had previously said, one in the IVF clinic at about 6 weeks and one this past monday in the ER. She said, <b>"oh, because this is very uncommon but they missed your THIRD baby both times".</b> Mark and I said "WHAT!!!!!!!!!!, You are kidding right????" She was dead freaking serious. She went back up to baby A, then down to baby B and then further down to Baby C, who is an identical to baby B but they DO NOT share the same sacs so there is less risk for complications to the babies. I just started laughing, like the kind of laughing that they should put me in a padded room for. Mark just kept stepping closer to the monitor saying, "are you kidding me, seriously, oh my gosh" over and over again. I told her, "I'm sorry, I don't know whether to laugh, cry or scream so I'll just stick with laughing hysterically". She totally understood.
I'll spare you all the details of the phone conversations to our family this evening, but it took both my husband and myself and about 15 minutes to make my mom believe us that we were serious and not kidding (Mark jokes around with my mom all the time so it's understandable for her to think it was a "haha, got ya").
I'm going to attach some pictures....
We are very excited but also scared crapless and we have some huge life changes ahead of us..... Those who pray, please do. Those who think good thoughts, please consider including us <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
Thanks to all for listening, I was going to post the update on the website but I thought TRIPLETS was too much not to share here. And to think we only transfered two eggs... I wonder what would have happened if we transfered 3 as they recommended????????????
The tech was very nice, asking how we became pregnant with twins, "was it naturally? Oh, you have Cystic fibrosis, I've heard of that but not too much, why the IVF?" Very inquisitive (in a good way) and very friendly.
So she starts the scan and immediately sees baby A and the heartbeat. She points it out to us on a screen that is set up so Mark and I can see it. Then she see's Baby B and points out that heartbeat. She goes back up to baby A and A is dancing around bouncing off the "walls" (it was so adorable). Mark and I were oohing and ahhhing and talking and laughing and, "oh, they are so cute...."
All through this she's been asking us a lot of questions about the spotting, IVF dates and such, so when she asks "how many ultrasounds did you say you've had", we didn't think much of the question.
I told her what I had previously said, one in the IVF clinic at about 6 weeks and one this past monday in the ER. She said, <b>"oh, because this is very uncommon but they missed your THIRD baby both times".</b> Mark and I said "WHAT!!!!!!!!!!, You are kidding right????" She was dead freaking serious. She went back up to baby A, then down to baby B and then further down to Baby C, who is an identical to baby B but they DO NOT share the same sacs so there is less risk for complications to the babies. I just started laughing, like the kind of laughing that they should put me in a padded room for. Mark just kept stepping closer to the monitor saying, "are you kidding me, seriously, oh my gosh" over and over again. I told her, "I'm sorry, I don't know whether to laugh, cry or scream so I'll just stick with laughing hysterically". She totally understood.
I'll spare you all the details of the phone conversations to our family this evening, but it took both my husband and myself and about 15 minutes to make my mom believe us that we were serious and not kidding (Mark jokes around with my mom all the time so it's understandable for her to think it was a "haha, got ya").
I'm going to attach some pictures....
We are very excited but also scared crapless and we have some huge life changes ahead of us..... Those who pray, please do. Those who think good thoughts, please consider including us <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
Thanks to all for listening, I was going to post the update on the website but I thought TRIPLETS was too much not to share here. And to think we only transfered two eggs... I wonder what would have happened if we transfered 3 as they recommended????????????