I think not having your health, for any reason sucks, no matter what...but i do see what you mean about knowing what you have and being able to make the most of your life... my sister also had c/f, it did a number on her for many years, but it was breast cancer that ended her life... by the way, i know that we can give each other certain bugs, but say can my husband give my these bugs when we have sex? Iv'e been wondering that for awhile now.....thanks for any info .... Joni 55 y/o f w c/f