HELP...I don't know what else to do...

[suziecoffeebean]

Oh my god. The woman went as far as calling my boss at work today and telling her I haven't talked to her in a week and that she wanted to see if I was alive. I have a really good job and she can't be jeopardizing that now to act like a jackass. She called my desk all day and when I did finally answer the phone cause I thought it was someone else it was one Giant guilt trip on me telling me its fine if I want to ignore the kids and her and all this other *****. I can't even remember it all. SO I just hung up and she called and left me 3 messages at my desk each one belittling me and telling me I am the piece of *****. I knew this was going to happen. Been waiting for it. Which is why I haven't answered my phone. And I let her know that when I was on the phone. It is truly unbelievable what was coming out of her mouth.

 

[suziecoffeebean]

Oh my god. The woman went as far as calling my boss at work today and telling her I haven't talked to her in a week and that she wanted to see if I was alive. I have a really good job and she can't be jeopardizing that now to act like a jackass. She called my desk all day and when I did finally answer the phone cause I thought it was someone else it was one Giant guilt trip on me telling me its fine if I want to ignore the kids and her and all this other *****. I can't even remember it all. SO I just hung up and she called and left me 3 messages at my desk each one belittling me and telling me I am the piece of *****. I knew this was going to happen. Been waiting for it. Which is why I haven't answered my phone. And I let her know that when I was on the phone. It is truly unbelievable what was coming out of her mouth.

 

[suziecoffeebean]

Oh my god. The woman went as far as calling my boss at work today and telling her I haven't talked to her in a week and that she wanted to see if I was alive. I have a really good job and she can't be jeopardizing that now to act like a jackass. She called my desk all day and when I did finally answer the phone cause I thought it was someone else it was one Giant guilt trip on me telling me its fine if I want to ignore the kids and her and all this other *****. I can't even remember it all. SO I just hung up and she called and left me 3 messages at my desk each one belittling me and telling me I am the piece of *****. I knew this was going to happen. Been waiting for it. Which is why I haven't answered my phone. And I let her know that when I was on the phone. It is truly unbelievable what was coming out of her mouth.

 

[suziecoffeebean]

Oh my god. The woman went as far as calling my boss at work today and telling her I haven't talked to her in a week and that she wanted to see if I was alive. I have a really good job and she can't be jeopardizing that now to act like a jackass. She called my desk all day and when I did finally answer the phone cause I thought it was someone else it was one Giant guilt trip on me telling me its fine if I want to ignore the kids and her and all this other *****. I can't even remember it all. SO I just hung up and she called and left me 3 messages at my desk each one belittling me and telling me I am the piece of *****. I knew this was going to happen. Been waiting for it. Which is why I haven't answered my phone. And I let her know that when I was on the phone. It is truly unbelievable what was coming out of her mouth.

 

[JORDYSMOM]

Suzie:

I went through a very similar situation with my mother when I was a little younger than you. I really stinks!! I'm sorry you are going through it. My mom called my boss and anyone else she could think of that might cause trouble for me. It is amazing what a person will do when they feel guilty. She isn't able to admit it yet, but she feels guilty.

You are doing the right thing. I know she's your mom and you want her approval, but honey she doesn't even approve of herself. She isn't able to be a good mother to you or your siblings because she isn't good to herself. You just have to be strong and know your heart is good. Do not buy into her "guilt trip"! Trust me, only SHE looks foolish in this situation. You keep doing your job and your employer cannot hold the actions of your mother against you. Have someone else there tell her you are not allowed to have personal calls.

Again, I am sorry you have to go through this. If you need to vent, feel free to PM me or e-mail me (staceladybug@aol.com)

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[JORDYSMOM]

Suzie:

I went through a very similar situation with my mother when I was a little younger than you. I really stinks!! I'm sorry you are going through it. My mom called my boss and anyone else she could think of that might cause trouble for me. It is amazing what a person will do when they feel guilty. She isn't able to admit it yet, but she feels guilty.

You are doing the right thing. I know she's your mom and you want her approval, but honey she doesn't even approve of herself. She isn't able to be a good mother to you or your siblings because she isn't good to herself. You just have to be strong and know your heart is good. Do not buy into her "guilt trip"! Trust me, only SHE looks foolish in this situation. You keep doing your job and your employer cannot hold the actions of your mother against you. Have someone else there tell her you are not allowed to have personal calls.

Again, I am sorry you have to go through this. If you need to vent, feel free to PM me or e-mail me (staceladybug@aol.com)

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[JORDYSMOM]

Suzie:

I went through a very similar situation with my mother when I was a little younger than you. I really stinks!! I'm sorry you are going through it. My mom called my boss and anyone else she could think of that might cause trouble for me. It is amazing what a person will do when they feel guilty. She isn't able to admit it yet, but she feels guilty.

You are doing the right thing. I know she's your mom and you want her approval, but honey she doesn't even approve of herself. She isn't able to be a good mother to you or your siblings because she isn't good to herself. You just have to be strong and know your heart is good. Do not buy into her "guilt trip"! Trust me, only SHE looks foolish in this situation. You keep doing your job and your employer cannot hold the actions of your mother against you. Have someone else there tell her you are not allowed to have personal calls.

Again, I am sorry you have to go through this. If you need to vent, feel free to PM me or e-mail me (staceladybug@aol.com)

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[JORDYSMOM]

Suzie:

I went through a very similar situation with my mother when I was a little younger than you. I really stinks!! I'm sorry you are going through it. My mom called my boss and anyone else she could think of that might cause trouble for me. It is amazing what a person will do when they feel guilty. She isn't able to admit it yet, but she feels guilty.

You are doing the right thing. I know she's your mom and you want her approval, but honey she doesn't even approve of herself. She isn't able to be a good mother to you or your siblings because she isn't good to herself. You just have to be strong and know your heart is good. Do not buy into her "guilt trip"! Trust me, only SHE looks foolish in this situation. You keep doing your job and your employer cannot hold the actions of your mother against you. Have someone else there tell her you are not allowed to have personal calls.

Again, I am sorry you have to go through this. If you need to vent, feel free to PM me or e-mail me (staceladybug@aol.com)

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[JORDYSMOM]

Suzie:

I went through a very similar situation with my mother when I was a little younger than you. I really stinks!! I'm sorry you are going through it. My mom called my boss and anyone else she could think of that might cause trouble for me. It is amazing what a person will do when they feel guilty. She isn't able to admit it yet, but she feels guilty.

You are doing the right thing. I know she's your mom and you want her approval, but honey she doesn't even approve of herself. She isn't able to be a good mother to you or your siblings because she isn't good to herself. You just have to be strong and know your heart is good. Do not buy into her "guilt trip"! Trust me, only SHE looks foolish in this situation. You keep doing your job and your employer cannot hold the actions of your mother against you. Have someone else there tell her you are not allowed to have personal calls.

Again, I am sorry you have to go through this. If you need to vent, feel free to PM me or e-mail me (staceladybug@aol.com)

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[JORDYSMOM]

Suzie:

I went through a very similar situation with my mother when I was a little younger than you. I really stinks!! I'm sorry you are going through it. My mom called my boss and anyone else she could think of that might cause trouble for me. It is amazing what a person will do when they feel guilty. She isn't able to admit it yet, but she feels guilty.

You are doing the right thing. I know she's your mom and you want her approval, but honey she doesn't even approve of herself. She isn't able to be a good mother to you or your siblings because she isn't good to herself. You just have to be strong and know your heart is good. Do not buy into her "guilt trip"! Trust me, only SHE looks foolish in this situation. You keep doing your job and your employer cannot hold the actions of your mother against you. Have someone else there tell her you are not allowed to have personal calls.

Again, I am sorry you have to go through this. If you need to vent, feel free to PM me or e-mail me (staceladybug@aol.com)

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[suziecoffeebean]

Thanks yall. This is just crazy. I can't even believe this crap. I want it to be over.

 

[suziecoffeebean]

Thanks yall. This is just crazy. I can't even believe this crap. I want it to be over.

 

[suziecoffeebean]

Thanks yall. This is just crazy. I can't even believe this crap. I want it to be over.

 

[suziecoffeebean]

Thanks yall. This is just crazy. I can't even believe this crap. I want it to be over.

 

[suziecoffeebean]

Thanks yall. This is just crazy. I can't even believe this crap. I want it to be over.

 

[suziecoffeebean]

Thanks yall. This is just crazy. I can't even believe this crap. I want it to be over.

 

[mom2lillian]

What a gorgeous picture of your siblings btw.

May the knowledge that you are doing the right thing get you through all of this. Even if your siblings are upset with you over this for a while they will look back on it and realize YOU were their salvation in a truly desperate situation.

I applaud you for your efforts.

PS since you are seeing a therapist might I mention a zanax during times like these can do wonders! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> I was going through infertility treatments (which I had to postpone) when my parents entered a messy divorce and my grandfather was dying; I can attest they can be a life saver if you really end up in need.

 

[mom2lillian]

What a gorgeous picture of your siblings btw.

May the knowledge that you are doing the right thing get you through all of this. Even if your siblings are upset with you over this for a while they will look back on it and realize YOU were their salvation in a truly desperate situation.

I applaud you for your efforts.

PS since you are seeing a therapist might I mention a zanax during times like these can do wonders! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> I was going through infertility treatments (which I had to postpone) when my parents entered a messy divorce and my grandfather was dying; I can attest they can be a life saver if you really end up in need.

 

[mom2lillian]

What a gorgeous picture of your siblings btw.

May the knowledge that you are doing the right thing get you through all of this. Even if your siblings are upset with you over this for a while they will look back on it and realize YOU were their salvation in a truly desperate situation.

I applaud you for your efforts.

PS since you are seeing a therapist might I mention a zanax during times like these can do wonders! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> I was going through infertility treatments (which I had to postpone) when my parents entered a messy divorce and my grandfather was dying; I can attest they can be a life saver if you really end up in need.

 

[mom2lillian]

What a gorgeous picture of your siblings btw.

May the knowledge that you are doing the right thing get you through all of this. Even if your siblings are upset with you over this for a while they will look back on it and realize YOU were their salvation in a truly desperate situation.

I applaud you for your efforts.

PS since you are seeing a therapist might I mention a zanax during times like these can do wonders! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> I was going through infertility treatments (which I had to postpone) when my parents entered a messy divorce and my grandfather was dying; I can attest they can be a life saver if you really end up in need.