suziecoffeebean
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Well it's kind of a messed up situation anyways. But yes it would upset ME is the thing. And I am sure my brother and sister I am sure. At this point I am not taking her feelings into consideration anymore. I had to be without a mom my whole life pretty much due to the drug abuse and then due to the fact that she put herself into AA and that was it. That was her focus not us. When that all changed I kind of latched on and we have a decent relationship now. It just sucks. I see what you are saying and I think I may have to make that phone call. Still hard to make that decision regardless. It is selfish I know the reason I don't want to. But at this point they have been neglected for too long so I only have their best interest in mind. It just seems to me there should be another way. It just sux and I am venting and wanted an outsiders opinion. Thanks.