HELP...I don't know what else to do...

[okok]

I guess if i were you i would try to break it to them gently and gradually over a period of time....you know sort of slowly building on the previous info you have given them. Emphasize how much they can do to effect their health. If you make it seem like something they have power over it will be much easier for them. If it upsets your mom to hear you talk about it, i would suggest that you go on a walk to the park or grab a mocha at a cafe with them privately. Try not to blame your mom when you discuss it with them. Try to help them understand that it may be painful for you mom to think of them as having a genetic disease and so it might be easier for her to believe that they don't have it or are better off without doctors. I think that being gentle, compassionate and supportive of your mom is the best way to win her over at this point although i COMPLETELY understand how angry you must be with her (and you have every right to be.) Unfortunately i don't think anger or blame will help you get the outcome you desire. It will only antagonize her and cause her to strenghen her stance against you and alienate you from her (and possibly the kids). On the other hand it may be that no matter how gentle and compassionate you are towards your mother, she wont budge but at least she won't have much to go on for building a case against you.

Also do they like sports or any sort of exersize....?? I really believe exersize is HUGELY important in keeping CFer's healthy. If this is something they already enjoy then it is a great way for them to motivate them to take care of their health. Of course, if they haven't been treated in a while and have bad digestive problems they might feel exhausted and tired.... so they might need enzymes to get them nutritionally on track before either of them could imagine exersizing.

 

[okok]

I guess if i were you i would try to break it to them gently and gradually over a period of time....you know sort of slowly building on the previous info you have given them. Emphasize how much they can do to effect their health. If you make it seem like something they have power over it will be much easier for them. If it upsets your mom to hear you talk about it, i would suggest that you go on a walk to the park or grab a mocha at a cafe with them privately. Try not to blame your mom when you discuss it with them. Try to help them understand that it may be painful for you mom to think of them as having a genetic disease and so it might be easier for her to believe that they don't have it or are better off without doctors. I think that being gentle, compassionate and supportive of your mom is the best way to win her over at this point although i COMPLETELY understand how angry you must be with her (and you have every right to be.) Unfortunately i don't think anger or blame will help you get the outcome you desire. It will only antagonize her and cause her to strenghen her stance against you and alienate you from her (and possibly the kids). On the other hand it may be that no matter how gentle and compassionate you are towards your mother, she wont budge but at least she won't have much to go on for building a case against you.

Also do they like sports or any sort of exersize....?? I really believe exersize is HUGELY important in keeping CFer's healthy. If this is something they already enjoy then it is a great way for them to motivate them to take care of their health. Of course, if they haven't been treated in a while and have bad digestive problems they might feel exhausted and tired.... so they might need enzymes to get them nutritionally on track before either of them could imagine exersizing.

 

[okok]

I guess if i were you i would try to break it to them gently and gradually over a period of time....you know sort of slowly building on the previous info you have given them. Emphasize how much they can do to effect their health. If you make it seem like something they have power over it will be much easier for them. If it upsets your mom to hear you talk about it, i would suggest that you go on a walk to the park or grab a mocha at a cafe with them privately. Try not to blame your mom when you discuss it with them. Try to help them understand that it may be painful for you mom to think of them as having a genetic disease and so it might be easier for her to believe that they don't have it or are better off without doctors. I think that being gentle, compassionate and supportive of your mom is the best way to win her over at this point although i COMPLETELY understand how angry you must be with her (and you have every right to be.) Unfortunately i don't think anger or blame will help you get the outcome you desire. It will only antagonize her and cause her to strenghen her stance against you and alienate you from her (and possibly the kids). On the other hand it may be that no matter how gentle and compassionate you are towards your mother, she wont budge but at least she won't have much to go on for building a case against you.

Also do they like sports or any sort of exersize....?? I really believe exersize is HUGELY important in keeping CFer's healthy. If this is something they already enjoy then it is a great way for them to motivate them to take care of their health. Of course, if they haven't been treated in a while and have bad digestive problems they might feel exhausted and tired.... so they might need enzymes to get them nutritionally on track before either of them could imagine exersizing.

 

[okok]

I guess if i were you i would try to break it to them gently and gradually over a period of time....you know sort of slowly building on the previous info you have given them. Emphasize how much they can do to effect their health. If you make it seem like something they have power over it will be much easier for them. If it upsets your mom to hear you talk about it, i would suggest that you go on a walk to the park or grab a mocha at a cafe with them privately. Try not to blame your mom when you discuss it with them. Try to help them understand that it may be painful for you mom to think of them as having a genetic disease and so it might be easier for her to believe that they don't have it or are better off without doctors. I think that being gentle, compassionate and supportive of your mom is the best way to win her over at this point although i COMPLETELY understand how angry you must be with her (and you have every right to be.) Unfortunately i don't think anger or blame will help you get the outcome you desire. It will only antagonize her and cause her to strenghen her stance against you and alienate you from her (and possibly the kids). On the other hand it may be that no matter how gentle and compassionate you are towards your mother, she wont budge but at least she won't have much to go on for building a case against you.

Also do they like sports or any sort of exersize....?? I really believe exersize is HUGELY important in keeping CFer's healthy. If this is something they already enjoy then it is a great way for them to motivate them to take care of their health. Of course, if they haven't been treated in a while and have bad digestive problems they might feel exhausted and tired.... so they might need enzymes to get them nutritionally on track before either of them could imagine exersizing.

 

[suziecoffeebean]

<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>okok</b></i>

I guess if i were you i would try to break it to them gently and gradually over a period of time....you know sort of slowly building on the previous info you have given them. Emphasize how much they can do to effect their health. If you make it seem like something they have power over it will be much easier for them. If it upsets your mom to hear you talk about it, i would suggest that you go on a walk to the park or grab a mocha at a cafe with them privately. Try not to blame your mom when you discuss it with them. Try to help them understand that it may be painful for you mom to think of them as having a genetic disease and so it might be easier for her to believe that they don't have it or are better off without doctors. I think that being gentle, compassionate and supportive of your mom is the best way to win her over at this point although i COMPLETELY understand how angry you must be with her (and you have every right to be.) Unfortunately i don't think anger or blame will help you get the outcome you desire. It will only antagonize her and cause her to strenghen her stance against you and alienate you from her (and possibly the kids). On the other hand it may be that no matter how gentle and compassionate you are towards your mother, she wont budge but at least she won't have much to go on for building a case against you.



Also do they like sports or any sort of exersize....?? I really believe exersize is HUGELY important in keeping CFer's healthy. If this is something they already enjoy then it is a great way for them to motivate them to take care of their health. Of course, if they haven't been treated in a while and have bad digestive problems they might feel exhausted and tired.... so they might need enzymes to get them nutritionally on track before either of them could imagine exersizing.</end quote></div>
This is extremely helpful. Thank YOu! My sister does yoga but my brother basically does nothing but play video games. I can't even express my appreciation to you all for giving me your honest opinions. I am going to go see them this weekend. Hopefully I can figure out something to say by then....a little something anyways. Thanks again, EVERYONE!

 

[suziecoffeebean]

<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>okok</b></i>

I guess if i were you i would try to break it to them gently and gradually over a period of time....you know sort of slowly building on the previous info you have given them. Emphasize how much they can do to effect their health. If you make it seem like something they have power over it will be much easier for them. If it upsets your mom to hear you talk about it, i would suggest that you go on a walk to the park or grab a mocha at a cafe with them privately. Try not to blame your mom when you discuss it with them. Try to help them understand that it may be painful for you mom to think of them as having a genetic disease and so it might be easier for her to believe that they don't have it or are better off without doctors. I think that being gentle, compassionate and supportive of your mom is the best way to win her over at this point although i COMPLETELY understand how angry you must be with her (and you have every right to be.) Unfortunately i don't think anger or blame will help you get the outcome you desire. It will only antagonize her and cause her to strenghen her stance against you and alienate you from her (and possibly the kids). On the other hand it may be that no matter how gentle and compassionate you are towards your mother, she wont budge but at least she won't have much to go on for building a case against you.



Also do they like sports or any sort of exersize....?? I really believe exersize is HUGELY important in keeping CFer's healthy. If this is something they already enjoy then it is a great way for them to motivate them to take care of their health. Of course, if they haven't been treated in a while and have bad digestive problems they might feel exhausted and tired.... so they might need enzymes to get them nutritionally on track before either of them could imagine exersizing.</end quote></div>
This is extremely helpful. Thank YOu! My sister does yoga but my brother basically does nothing but play video games. I can't even express my appreciation to you all for giving me your honest opinions. I am going to go see them this weekend. Hopefully I can figure out something to say by then....a little something anyways. Thanks again, EVERYONE!

 

[suziecoffeebean]

<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>okok</b></i>

I guess if i were you i would try to break it to them gently and gradually over a period of time....you know sort of slowly building on the previous info you have given them. Emphasize how much they can do to effect their health. If you make it seem like something they have power over it will be much easier for them. If it upsets your mom to hear you talk about it, i would suggest that you go on a walk to the park or grab a mocha at a cafe with them privately. Try not to blame your mom when you discuss it with them. Try to help them understand that it may be painful for you mom to think of them as having a genetic disease and so it might be easier for her to believe that they don't have it or are better off without doctors. I think that being gentle, compassionate and supportive of your mom is the best way to win her over at this point although i COMPLETELY understand how angry you must be with her (and you have every right to be.) Unfortunately i don't think anger or blame will help you get the outcome you desire. It will only antagonize her and cause her to strenghen her stance against you and alienate you from her (and possibly the kids). On the other hand it may be that no matter how gentle and compassionate you are towards your mother, she wont budge but at least she won't have much to go on for building a case against you.



Also do they like sports or any sort of exersize....?? I really believe exersize is HUGELY important in keeping CFer's healthy. If this is something they already enjoy then it is a great way for them to motivate them to take care of their health. Of course, if they haven't been treated in a while and have bad digestive problems they might feel exhausted and tired.... so they might need enzymes to get them nutritionally on track before either of them could imagine exersizing.</end quote></div>
This is extremely helpful. Thank YOu! My sister does yoga but my brother basically does nothing but play video games. I can't even express my appreciation to you all for giving me your honest opinions. I am going to go see them this weekend. Hopefully I can figure out something to say by then....a little something anyways. Thanks again, EVERYONE!

 

[suziecoffeebean]

<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>okok</b></i>

I guess if i were you i would try to break it to them gently and gradually over a period of time....you know sort of slowly building on the previous info you have given them. Emphasize how much they can do to effect their health. If you make it seem like something they have power over it will be much easier for them. If it upsets your mom to hear you talk about it, i would suggest that you go on a walk to the park or grab a mocha at a cafe with them privately. Try not to blame your mom when you discuss it with them. Try to help them understand that it may be painful for you mom to think of them as having a genetic disease and so it might be easier for her to believe that they don't have it or are better off without doctors. I think that being gentle, compassionate and supportive of your mom is the best way to win her over at this point although i COMPLETELY understand how angry you must be with her (and you have every right to be.) Unfortunately i don't think anger or blame will help you get the outcome you desire. It will only antagonize her and cause her to strenghen her stance against you and alienate you from her (and possibly the kids). On the other hand it may be that no matter how gentle and compassionate you are towards your mother, she wont budge but at least she won't have much to go on for building a case against you.



Also do they like sports or any sort of exersize....?? I really believe exersize is HUGELY important in keeping CFer's healthy. If this is something they already enjoy then it is a great way for them to motivate them to take care of their health. Of course, if they haven't been treated in a while and have bad digestive problems they might feel exhausted and tired.... so they might need enzymes to get them nutritionally on track before either of them could imagine exersizing.</end quote></div>
This is extremely helpful. Thank YOu! My sister does yoga but my brother basically does nothing but play video games. I can't even express my appreciation to you all for giving me your honest opinions. I am going to go see them this weekend. Hopefully I can figure out something to say by then....a little something anyways. Thanks again, EVERYONE!

 

[suziecoffeebean]

<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>okok</b></i>

I guess if i were you i would try to break it to them gently and gradually over a period of time....you know sort of slowly building on the previous info you have given them. Emphasize how much they can do to effect their health. If you make it seem like something they have power over it will be much easier for them. If it upsets your mom to hear you talk about it, i would suggest that you go on a walk to the park or grab a mocha at a cafe with them privately. Try not to blame your mom when you discuss it with them. Try to help them understand that it may be painful for you mom to think of them as having a genetic disease and so it might be easier for her to believe that they don't have it or are better off without doctors. I think that being gentle, compassionate and supportive of your mom is the best way to win her over at this point although i COMPLETELY understand how angry you must be with her (and you have every right to be.) Unfortunately i don't think anger or blame will help you get the outcome you desire. It will only antagonize her and cause her to strenghen her stance against you and alienate you from her (and possibly the kids). On the other hand it may be that no matter how gentle and compassionate you are towards your mother, she wont budge but at least she won't have much to go on for building a case against you.



Also do they like sports or any sort of exersize....?? I really believe exersize is HUGELY important in keeping CFer's healthy. If this is something they already enjoy then it is a great way for them to motivate them to take care of their health. Of course, if they haven't been treated in a while and have bad digestive problems they might feel exhausted and tired.... so they might need enzymes to get them nutritionally on track before either of them could imagine exersizing.</end quote>
This is extremely helpful. Thank YOu! My sister does yoga but my brother basically does nothing but play video games. I can't even express my appreciation to you all for giving me your honest opinions. I am going to go see them this weekend. Hopefully I can figure out something to say by then....a little something anyways. Thanks again, EVERYONE!

 

[suziecoffeebean]

<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>okok</b></i>

I guess if i were you i would try to break it to them gently and gradually over a period of time....you know sort of slowly building on the previous info you have given them. Emphasize how much they can do to effect their health. If you make it seem like something they have power over it will be much easier for them. If it upsets your mom to hear you talk about it, i would suggest that you go on a walk to the park or grab a mocha at a cafe with them privately. Try not to blame your mom when you discuss it with them. Try to help them understand that it may be painful for you mom to think of them as having a genetic disease and so it might be easier for her to believe that they don't have it or are better off without doctors. I think that being gentle, compassionate and supportive of your mom is the best way to win her over at this point although i COMPLETELY understand how angry you must be with her (and you have every right to be.) Unfortunately i don't think anger or blame will help you get the outcome you desire. It will only antagonize her and cause her to strenghen her stance against you and alienate you from her (and possibly the kids). On the other hand it may be that no matter how gentle and compassionate you are towards your mother, she wont budge but at least she won't have much to go on for building a case against you.



Also do they like sports or any sort of exersize....?? I really believe exersize is HUGELY important in keeping CFer's healthy. If this is something they already enjoy then it is a great way for them to motivate them to take care of their health. Of course, if they haven't been treated in a while and have bad digestive problems they might feel exhausted and tired.... so they might need enzymes to get them nutritionally on track before either of them could imagine exersizing.</end quote>
This is extremely helpful. Thank YOu! My sister does yoga but my brother basically does nothing but play video games. I can't even express my appreciation to you all for giving me your honest opinions. I am going to go see them this weekend. Hopefully I can figure out something to say by then....a little something anyways. Thanks again, EVERYONE!

 

[purplemartin]

The only option I see is calling CPS. But, I also understand your felling of "losing" your mom. The truth of the matter though, these children ARE being neglected. They need immediate medical care, CF is a progressive disease and prevention is the main key!


One more thing, contact a social worker at the nearest CF clinic. They have a LOT of resources at their fingertips. They may be able to offer you some help with getting your bro and sis the medical treatment they so desperately need.


Your siblings should be honored to have a sister like you, but please make the best decision for them!


Please keep us updated and best wishes!

 

[purplemartin]

The only option I see is calling CPS. But, I also understand your felling of "losing" your mom. The truth of the matter though, these children ARE being neglected. They need immediate medical care, CF is a progressive disease and prevention is the main key!


One more thing, contact a social worker at the nearest CF clinic. They have a LOT of resources at their fingertips. They may be able to offer you some help with getting your bro and sis the medical treatment they so desperately need.


Your siblings should be honored to have a sister like you, but please make the best decision for them!


Please keep us updated and best wishes!

 

[purplemartin]

The only option I see is calling CPS. But, I also understand your felling of "losing" your mom. The truth of the matter though, these children ARE being neglected. They need immediate medical care, CF is a progressive disease and prevention is the main key!


One more thing, contact a social worker at the nearest CF clinic. They have a LOT of resources at their fingertips. They may be able to offer you some help with getting your bro and sis the medical treatment they so desperately need.


Your siblings should be honored to have a sister like you, but please make the best decision for them!


Please keep us updated and best wishes!

 

[purplemartin]

The only option I see is calling CPS. But, I also understand your felling of "losing" your mom. The truth of the matter though, these children ARE being neglected. They need immediate medical care, CF is a progressive disease and prevention is the main key!


One more thing, contact a social worker at the nearest CF clinic. They have a LOT of resources at their fingertips. They may be able to offer you some help with getting your bro and sis the medical treatment they so desperately need.


Your siblings should be honored to have a sister like you, but please make the best decision for them!


Please keep us updated and best wishes!

 

[purplemartin]

The only option I see is calling CPS. But, I also understand your felling of "losing" your mom. The truth of the matter though, these children ARE being neglected. They need immediate medical care, CF is a progressive disease and prevention is the main key!


One more thing, contact a social worker at the nearest CF clinic. They have a LOT of resources at their fingertips. They may be able to offer you some help with getting your bro and sis the medical treatment they so desperately need.


Your siblings should be honored to have a sister like you, but please make the best decision for them!


Please keep us updated and best wishes!

 

[purplemartin]

The only option I see is calling CPS. But, I also understand your felling of "losing" your mom. The truth of the matter though, these children ARE being neglected. They need immediate medical care, CF is a progressive disease and prevention is the main key!


One more thing, contact a social worker at the nearest CF clinic. They have a LOT of resources at their fingertips. They may be able to offer you some help with getting your bro and sis the medical treatment they so desperately need.


Your siblings should be honored to have a sister like you, but please make the best decision for them!


Please keep us updated and best wishes!

 

[AnD]

The social worker at the cf clinic is a really good idea. She may be able to talk to your mom and let her know that if the kids aren't seen in clinic pronto, <i>she</i> will have to report her (but she would really rather help her now, etc.). And in our state (I don't know about where you live, though, but if <i>Alabama</i> has it... lol) we have Kid One Transport, that gives kids without transportation a ride to get to their appointments, etc.. Then your siblings could arrange their own appointments, once the ball gets rolling.

 

[AnD]

The social worker at the cf clinic is a really good idea. She may be able to talk to your mom and let her know that if the kids aren't seen in clinic pronto, <i>she</i> will have to report her (but she would really rather help her now, etc.). And in our state (I don't know about where you live, though, but if <i>Alabama</i> has it... lol) we have Kid One Transport, that gives kids without transportation a ride to get to their appointments, etc.. Then your siblings could arrange their own appointments, once the ball gets rolling.

 

[AnD]

The social worker at the cf clinic is a really good idea. She may be able to talk to your mom and let her know that if the kids aren't seen in clinic pronto, <i>she</i> will have to report her (but she would really rather help her now, etc.). And in our state (I don't know about where you live, though, but if <i>Alabama</i> has it... lol) we have Kid One Transport, that gives kids without transportation a ride to get to their appointments, etc.. Then your siblings could arrange their own appointments, once the ball gets rolling.

 

[AnD]

The social worker at the cf clinic is a really good idea. She may be able to talk to your mom and let her know that if the kids aren't seen in clinic pronto, <i>she</i> will have to report her (but she would really rather help her now, etc.). And in our state (I don't know about where you live, though, but if <i>Alabama</i> has it... lol) we have Kid One Transport, that gives kids without transportation a ride to get to their appointments, etc.. Then your siblings could arrange their own appointments, once the ball gets rolling.