JennifersHope
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Yippie JULIE AND MARK............ WAHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU....
IN MY PRAYERS
JENNIFER
IN MY PRAYERS
JENNIFER
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HERE WE GO---UPDATED AND SAD :(
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JennifersHope
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Yippie JULIE AND MARK............ WAHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU....
IN MY PRAYERS
JENNIFER
IN MY PRAYERS
JENNIFER
Emily65Roses
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*does a little dance*
You know if you get pregnant with twins and can't handle both... I'll take one off your hands. Buahahahahaa. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">
Oh and the dance was a congrats dance for you. Haha. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0">
You know if you get pregnant with twins and can't handle both... I'll take one off your hands. Buahahahahaa. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">
Oh and the dance was a congrats dance for you. Haha. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0">
Emily65Roses
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*does a little dance*
You know if you get pregnant with twins and can't handle both... I'll take one off your hands. Buahahahahaa. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">
Oh and the dance was a congrats dance for you. Haha. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0">
You know if you get pregnant with twins and can't handle both... I'll take one off your hands. Buahahahahaa. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">
Oh and the dance was a congrats dance for you. Haha. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0">
JohnnaMarie
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That is great news!!!!! Congrats to you!!!!<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
JohnnaMarie
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That is great news!!!!! Congrats to you!!!!<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
Ok, now I really am going to pull my hair out and jump off a bridge. My chief from TPU called me today (where I am temporairly at while I wait for the ship to return) and said the CO of Everett denied my request for an elective procedure because he won't interefere with something that has the potential to take me off the ship (he doesn't want to skew the manning of the ship). My chief also informed me that RSO has been trying to get ahold of me because this chief (medical) at RSO wants to re-review my "sea-duty" screening beause there are questions about whether or not I am fit for duty. Apparently, because Mark has medical issues he was suppose to have a "sea-duty" screening also in San diego but I asked and everyone told me no and looked like I had 3 heads. Mark is an "exceptional Family member" because of his CF and he is a category 4 (not really sure how they figure all of that out). Anyway, my chief on the ship mentioned that they shouldn't have even put me on sea duty with a category 4 EFM family member... so now that's all in question.
Here I started my egg stimulating meds yesterday and now I am being told that I can't go through with this procedure, but hold tight for a day or two because if they negate my sea duty screening and say I am not fit for sea duty at this time then I will be at TPU for a while waiting for orders somewhere else and at that time the CO MIGHT authorize the procedures. In the meantime I have this mass of eggs growing inside me that need to be retrieved, this many eggs will not be reabsorbed naturally... but they are telling me that even procedure won't be authorized and if I do have it done, then they CAN take me to mast about it. So basically, I am not sure what I should do. This is so unbelievably frustrating, I am on my way to a mental health appointment right now because of all this. I have never felt so helpless, aggrivated, frustrated, hopeless, angry, infurirated, sad and so many more things in my entire life. Just wanted to vent.....
Here I started my egg stimulating meds yesterday and now I am being told that I can't go through with this procedure, but hold tight for a day or two because if they negate my sea duty screening and say I am not fit for sea duty at this time then I will be at TPU for a while waiting for orders somewhere else and at that time the CO MIGHT authorize the procedures. In the meantime I have this mass of eggs growing inside me that need to be retrieved, this many eggs will not be reabsorbed naturally... but they are telling me that even procedure won't be authorized and if I do have it done, then they CAN take me to mast about it. So basically, I am not sure what I should do. This is so unbelievably frustrating, I am on my way to a mental health appointment right now because of all this. I have never felt so helpless, aggrivated, frustrated, hopeless, angry, infurirated, sad and so many more things in my entire life. Just wanted to vent.....
Ok, now I really am going to pull my hair out and jump off a bridge. My chief from TPU called me today (where I am temporairly at while I wait for the ship to return) and said the CO of Everett denied my request for an elective procedure because he won't interefere with something that has the potential to take me off the ship (he doesn't want to skew the manning of the ship). My chief also informed me that RSO has been trying to get ahold of me because this chief (medical) at RSO wants to re-review my "sea-duty" screening beause there are questions about whether or not I am fit for duty. Apparently, because Mark has medical issues he was suppose to have a "sea-duty" screening also in San diego but I asked and everyone told me no and looked like I had 3 heads. Mark is an "exceptional Family member" because of his CF and he is a category 4 (not really sure how they figure all of that out). Anyway, my chief on the ship mentioned that they shouldn't have even put me on sea duty with a category 4 EFM family member... so now that's all in question.
Here I started my egg stimulating meds yesterday and now I am being told that I can't go through with this procedure, but hold tight for a day or two because if they negate my sea duty screening and say I am not fit for sea duty at this time then I will be at TPU for a while waiting for orders somewhere else and at that time the CO MIGHT authorize the procedures. In the meantime I have this mass of eggs growing inside me that need to be retrieved, this many eggs will not be reabsorbed naturally... but they are telling me that even procedure won't be authorized and if I do have it done, then they CAN take me to mast about it. So basically, I am not sure what I should do. This is so unbelievably frustrating, I am on my way to a mental health appointment right now because of all this. I have never felt so helpless, aggrivated, frustrated, hopeless, angry, infurirated, sad and so many more things in my entire life. Just wanted to vent.....
Here I started my egg stimulating meds yesterday and now I am being told that I can't go through with this procedure, but hold tight for a day or two because if they negate my sea duty screening and say I am not fit for sea duty at this time then I will be at TPU for a while waiting for orders somewhere else and at that time the CO MIGHT authorize the procedures. In the meantime I have this mass of eggs growing inside me that need to be retrieved, this many eggs will not be reabsorbed naturally... but they are telling me that even procedure won't be authorized and if I do have it done, then they CAN take me to mast about it. So basically, I am not sure what I should do. This is so unbelievably frustrating, I am on my way to a mental health appointment right now because of all this. I have never felt so helpless, aggrivated, frustrated, hopeless, angry, infurirated, sad and so many more things in my entire life. Just wanted to vent.....
Emily65Roses
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I don't know how the military works... and I have no advice or words of wisdom. I just think it's all disgusting, and no one should have a say in whether or not you can get pregnant. I still hold to my original question: What if you got pregnant naturally, hmm? That's all. I just wanted to tell you I think these people suck.
Emily65Roses
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I don't know how the military works... and I have no advice or words of wisdom. I just think it's all disgusting, and no one should have a say in whether or not you can get pregnant. I still hold to my original question: What if you got pregnant naturally, hmm? That's all. I just wanted to tell you I think these people suck.
Emily's right....if this was a natural conception, there wouldn't be any questions being raised. I don't like the idea that the military has that much control over one person. It doesn't seem like they should have the right to be making that choice for you....Hang in there and keep fighting! <img src="i/expressions/angel.gif" border="0"><img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
Emily's right....if this was a natural conception, there wouldn't be any questions being raised. I don't like the idea that the military has that much control over one person. It doesn't seem like they should have the right to be making that choice for you....Hang in there and keep fighting! <img src="i/expressions/angel.gif" border="0"><img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
Apparently the military "owns" me and that includes what I do to my body (nevermind the fact that at Naval Medical Center San Diego they provide nose jobs, breast implants and other plastic surgeries). Plus people go out and get tattoos all the time and other such things. I guess the issue is because this might affect the manning of the ship.... At this point, I really don't give a crap anymore.
Those of you who say this might be jeporadizing my health, that is true, but notbody really cares about that it seems. I do have an appointment on Friday with a military doctor to discuss all of this so we'll see.
Those of you who say this might be jeporadizing my health, that is true, but notbody really cares about that it seems. I do have an appointment on Friday with a military doctor to discuss all of this so we'll see.
Apparently the military "owns" me and that includes what I do to my body (nevermind the fact that at Naval Medical Center San Diego they provide nose jobs, breast implants and other plastic surgeries). Plus people go out and get tattoos all the time and other such things. I guess the issue is because this might affect the manning of the ship.... At this point, I really don't give a crap anymore.
Those of you who say this might be jeporadizing my health, that is true, but notbody really cares about that it seems. I do have an appointment on Friday with a military doctor to discuss all of this so we'll see.
Those of you who say this might be jeporadizing my health, that is true, but notbody really cares about that it seems. I do have an appointment on Friday with a military doctor to discuss all of this so we'll see.