Need some marrital advice

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lightNlife

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Brad n I read a book together called "Men are like wallfes, Woman are like sphaghtti. It was a really good way for us to notice why I get response A from input B.

This book was exceptionally well balanced. I learned a lot from it and have been to put it suggestions into practice
 
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lightNlife

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Brad n I read a book together called "Men are like wallfes, Woman are like sphaghtti. It was a really good way for us to notice why I get response A from input B.

This book was exceptionally well balanced. I learned a lot from it and have been to put it suggestions into practice
 
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lightNlife

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Brad n I read a book together called "Men are like wallfes, Woman are like sphaghtti. It was a really good way for us to notice why I get response A from input B.

This book was exceptionally well balanced. I learned a lot from it and have been to put it suggestions into practice
 
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lightNlife

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Brad n I read a book together called "Men are like wallfes, Woman are like sphaghtti. It was a really good way for us to notice why I get response A from input B.

This book was exceptionally well balanced. I learned a lot from it and have been to put it suggestions into practice
 
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lightNlife

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Brad n I read a book together called "Men are like wallfes, Woman are like sphaghtti. It was a really good way for us to notice why I get response A from input B.

This book was exceptionally well balanced. I learned a lot from it and have been to put it suggestions into practice
 
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Kelli

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Boy, he sounds like he could almost be depressed. That sounds awful. And believe me, after I got married, I felt some of the things you did. My husband still sucks at communication but he does little things to make me feel loved.
I would hold off on having kids at this point, and make sure the 2 of you get into counseling...pronto.
Good luck to you and remember that no marriage is perfect! But I do hope yours gets better!
Kelli
29 f CF
(married 4 years)
 
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Kelli

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Boy, he sounds like he could almost be depressed. That sounds awful. And believe me, after I got married, I felt some of the things you did. My husband still sucks at communication but he does little things to make me feel loved.
I would hold off on having kids at this point, and make sure the 2 of you get into counseling...pronto.
Good luck to you and remember that no marriage is perfect! But I do hope yours gets better!
Kelli
29 f CF
(married 4 years)
 
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Kelli

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Boy, he sounds like he could almost be depressed. That sounds awful. And believe me, after I got married, I felt some of the things you did. My husband still sucks at communication but he does little things to make me feel loved.
I would hold off on having kids at this point, and make sure the 2 of you get into counseling...pronto.
Good luck to you and remember that no marriage is perfect! But I do hope yours gets better!
Kelli
29 f CF
(married 4 years)
 
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Kelli

New member
Boy, he sounds like he could almost be depressed. That sounds awful. And believe me, after I got married, I felt some of the things you did. My husband still sucks at communication but he does little things to make me feel loved.
I would hold off on having kids at this point, and make sure the 2 of you get into counseling...pronto.
Good luck to you and remember that no marriage is perfect! But I do hope yours gets better!
Kelli
29 f CF
(married 4 years)
 
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Kelli

New member
Boy, he sounds like he could almost be depressed. That sounds awful. And believe me, after I got married, I felt some of the things you did. My husband still sucks at communication but he does little things to make me feel loved.
I would hold off on having kids at this point, and make sure the 2 of you get into counseling...pronto.
Good luck to you and remember that no marriage is perfect! But I do hope yours gets better!
Kelli
29 f CF
(married 4 years)
 
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thefrogprincess

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I want to clarify a couple things. He IS depressed, and refuses to do anything about it. His cancer diagnosis and surgery was more than a year and a half ago. There is absolutely NO physical reason why he CAN'T have sex. He just never wants to, and reguardless of why, not havng sex is extremely detrimental to ANY marriage. It makes the person who is interested in it feel worthless, unattractive, and unwanted. So while the communication issue is MUCH more important, so is the sex, or lack of, issue. And that has been a problem in our relationship since before we got married. So in a way it hurts even more than anything else.

I know that I shouldn't threaten or scream at him. But when I try to talk to him like an adult and he literally just sits there and doesn't say a word I get so frustrated and down right pi$$ed off that I just explode. I know that I need to work on that.
 
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thefrogprincess

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I want to clarify a couple things. He IS depressed, and refuses to do anything about it. His cancer diagnosis and surgery was more than a year and a half ago. There is absolutely NO physical reason why he CAN'T have sex. He just never wants to, and reguardless of why, not havng sex is extremely detrimental to ANY marriage. It makes the person who is interested in it feel worthless, unattractive, and unwanted. So while the communication issue is MUCH more important, so is the sex, or lack of, issue. And that has been a problem in our relationship since before we got married. So in a way it hurts even more than anything else.

I know that I shouldn't threaten or scream at him. But when I try to talk to him like an adult and he literally just sits there and doesn't say a word I get so frustrated and down right pi$$ed off that I just explode. I know that I need to work on that.
 
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thefrogprincess

New member
I want to clarify a couple things. He IS depressed, and refuses to do anything about it. His cancer diagnosis and surgery was more than a year and a half ago. There is absolutely NO physical reason why he CAN'T have sex. He just never wants to, and reguardless of why, not havng sex is extremely detrimental to ANY marriage. It makes the person who is interested in it feel worthless, unattractive, and unwanted. So while the communication issue is MUCH more important, so is the sex, or lack of, issue. And that has been a problem in our relationship since before we got married. So in a way it hurts even more than anything else.

I know that I shouldn't threaten or scream at him. But when I try to talk to him like an adult and he literally just sits there and doesn't say a word I get so frustrated and down right pi$$ed off that I just explode. I know that I need to work on that.
 
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thefrogprincess

New member
I want to clarify a couple things. He IS depressed, and refuses to do anything about it. His cancer diagnosis and surgery was more than a year and a half ago. There is absolutely NO physical reason why he CAN'T have sex. He just never wants to, and reguardless of why, not havng sex is extremely detrimental to ANY marriage. It makes the person who is interested in it feel worthless, unattractive, and unwanted. So while the communication issue is MUCH more important, so is the sex, or lack of, issue. And that has been a problem in our relationship since before we got married. So in a way it hurts even more than anything else.

I know that I shouldn't threaten or scream at him. But when I try to talk to him like an adult and he literally just sits there and doesn't say a word I get so frustrated and down right pi$$ed off that I just explode. I know that I need to work on that.
 
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thefrogprincess

New member
I want to clarify a couple things. He IS depressed, and refuses to do anything about it. His cancer diagnosis and surgery was more than a year and a half ago. There is absolutely NO physical reason why he CAN'T have sex. He just never wants to, and reguardless of why, not havng sex is extremely detrimental to ANY marriage. It makes the person who is interested in it feel worthless, unattractive, and unwanted. So while the communication issue is MUCH more important, so is the sex, or lack of, issue. And that has been a problem in our relationship since before we got married. So in a way it hurts even more than anything else.

I know that I shouldn't threaten or scream at him. But when I try to talk to him like an adult and he literally just sits there and doesn't say a word I get so frustrated and down right pi$$ed off that I just explode. I know that I need to work on that.
 
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