TestifyToLove
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A hospitalization nearly killed M. He was in the hospital for a bowel obstruction and someone manage to infect his port with staph. That little stunt went septic, put him in DIC and landed him in the PICU fighting for his life.
I still struggle with his fostermom for abandoning him at the hospital and allowing that to happen. I realize that fosters are not obligated to care nor to be there but as a nurse, she knew better and she knew how vunerable he was as an unaccompanied minor in the hospital for nearly 2 months.
We've done 2 hospitalizations for M since homecoming. And, we've battled staff (mostly nurses) who try constantly to violate the isolation precautions for M. This last hospital stay involved surgery, so we needed to be there for that. But, we have decided in the future that unless there are other reasons to be in the hospital, we will do IV abx at home. We can increase ACTs ourselves. We can transport for any desired labs. And, we can do a far better job protecting him from nosicomal infections if we keep him home.
I still struggle with his fostermom for abandoning him at the hospital and allowing that to happen. I realize that fosters are not obligated to care nor to be there but as a nurse, she knew better and she knew how vunerable he was as an unaccompanied minor in the hospital for nearly 2 months.
We've done 2 hospitalizations for M since homecoming. And, we've battled staff (mostly nurses) who try constantly to violate the isolation precautions for M. This last hospital stay involved surgery, so we needed to be there for that. But, we have decided in the future that unless there are other reasons to be in the hospital, we will do IV abx at home. We can increase ACTs ourselves. We can transport for any desired labs. And, we can do a far better job protecting him from nosicomal infections if we keep him home.