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SeeEff

Guest
i have cf too & I get what you're saying. I've had relationships before but none that were as intimate that they would witness a treatment. like you, that thought scares/guilts me. if/when i find a guy i want to be with, would i really want him to be around when i am doing my morning treatment? coughing, the mucus. ugh, i don't even want to be there, let alone him.
*sigh*
but hey, we all as human beings have our problems. no one is perfect. so we have cf, ok, that's OUR thing. i think you should at least allow someone the chance to say yes or no to a relationship & not let yourself decide they won't want you.
i don't know if any of that made sense, but stay well & stay strong <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 
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SeeEff

Guest
i have cf too & I get what you're saying. I've had relationships before but none that were as intimate that they would witness a treatment. like you, that thought scares/guilts me. if/when i find a guy i want to be with, would i really want him to be around when i am doing my morning treatment? coughing, the mucus. ugh, i don't even want to be there, let alone him.
*sigh*
but hey, we all as human beings have our problems. no one is perfect. so we have cf, ok, that's OUR thing. i think you should at least allow someone the chance to say yes or no to a relationship & not let yourself decide they won't want you.
i don't know if any of that made sense, but stay well & stay strong <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 
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SeeEff

Guest
i have cf too & I get what you're saying. I've had relationships before but none that were as intimate that they would witness a treatment. like you, that thought scares/guilts me. if/when i find a guy i want to be with, would i really want him to be around when i am doing my morning treatment? coughing, the mucus. ugh, i don't even want to be there, let alone him.
*sigh*
but hey, we all as human beings have our problems. no one is perfect. so we have cf, ok, that's OUR thing. i think you should at least allow someone the chance to say yes or no to a relationship & not let yourself decide they won't want you.
i don't know if any of that made sense, but stay well & stay strong <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 
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SeeEff

Guest
i have cf too & I get what you're saying. I've had relationships before but none that were as intimate that they would witness a treatment. like you, that thought scares/guilts me. if/when i find a guy i want to be with, would i really want him to be around when i am doing my morning treatment? coughing, the mucus. ugh, i don't even want to be there, let alone him.
*sigh*
but hey, we all as human beings have our problems. no one is perfect. so we have cf, ok, that's OUR thing. i think you should at least allow someone the chance to say yes or no to a relationship & not let yourself decide they won't want you.
i don't know if any of that made sense, but stay well & stay strong <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 
S

SeeEff

Guest
i have cf too & I get what you're saying. I've had relationships before but none that were as intimate that they would witness a treatment. like you, that thought scares/guilts me. if/when i find a guy i want to be with, would i really want him to be around when i am doing my morning treatment? coughing, the mucus. ugh, i don't even want to be there, let alone him.
<br />*sigh*
<br />but hey, we all as human beings have our problems. no one is perfect. so we have cf, ok, that's OUR thing. i think you should at least allow someone the chance to say yes or no to a relationship & not let yourself decide they won't want you.
<br />i don't know if any of that made sense, but stay well & stay strong <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 
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bigstar

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Blue beam i can totally relate.Im a 20 y/o female but never had a relationship either.I dont really believe that im not attractive and you shouldnt believe it either.There are people around us that love us just the way we are.No matter if we cough or sneeze or anything.They love us anyway.I wanted to explain that there have been many boys that were interested to me but i kept and i keep rejecting them.I believe that since im not in love its just doesnt worth all the mess.But honestly like you i worry that when Ill find somenone that i love (and of course loves me back) it would be such a heavy load to put upon him...You never want to put through pain the ones you love.....
 
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bigstar

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Blue beam i can totally relate.Im a 20 y/o female but never had a relationship either.I dont really believe that im not attractive and you shouldnt believe it either.There are people around us that love us just the way we are.No matter if we cough or sneeze or anything.They love us anyway.I wanted to explain that there have been many boys that were interested to me but i kept and i keep rejecting them.I believe that since im not in love its just doesnt worth all the mess.But honestly like you i worry that when Ill find somenone that i love (and of course loves me back) it would be such a heavy load to put upon him...You never want to put through pain the ones you love.....
 
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bigstar

New member
Blue beam i can totally relate.Im a 20 y/o female but never had a relationship either.I dont really believe that im not attractive and you shouldnt believe it either.There are people around us that love us just the way we are.No matter if we cough or sneeze or anything.They love us anyway.I wanted to explain that there have been many boys that were interested to me but i kept and i keep rejecting them.I believe that since im not in love its just doesnt worth all the mess.But honestly like you i worry that when Ill find somenone that i love (and of course loves me back) it would be such a heavy load to put upon him...You never want to put through pain the ones you love.....
 
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bigstar

New member
Blue beam i can totally relate.Im a 20 y/o female but never had a relationship either.I dont really believe that im not attractive and you shouldnt believe it either.There are people around us that love us just the way we are.No matter if we cough or sneeze or anything.They love us anyway.I wanted to explain that there have been many boys that were interested to me but i kept and i keep rejecting them.I believe that since im not in love its just doesnt worth all the mess.But honestly like you i worry that when Ill find somenone that i love (and of course loves me back) it would be such a heavy load to put upon him...You never want to put through pain the ones you love.....
 
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bigstar

New member
Blue beam i can totally relate.Im a 20 y/o female but never had a relationship either.I dont really believe that im not attractive and you shouldnt believe it either.There are people around us that love us just the way we are.No matter if we cough or sneeze or anything.They love us anyway.I wanted to explain that there have been many boys that were interested to me but i kept and i keep rejecting them.I believe that since im not in love its just doesnt worth all the mess.But honestly like you i worry that when Ill find somenone that i love (and of course loves me back) it would be such a heavy load to put upon him...You never want to put through pain the ones you love.....
 
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ManFromDublin

New member
you should come to ireland the women here are great..

no but seriously how can you expect anyone else to like you if you dont like yourself.

some people say that sharing the problem can make it less of a problem..but sometimes when we hear there are other people going through the same thing we only start to get comfortable with the mess we are in.

Dont get comfortable.

Go outside your comfort zone.

Thats when the excitement starts...

Talk to a girl, if she likes you and asks you out, say no.

Put yourself in the driver seat, get that feeling of power.

Take risks and let the risks take you.
 
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ManFromDublin

New member
you should come to ireland the women here are great..

no but seriously how can you expect anyone else to like you if you dont like yourself.

some people say that sharing the problem can make it less of a problem..but sometimes when we hear there are other people going through the same thing we only start to get comfortable with the mess we are in.

Dont get comfortable.

Go outside your comfort zone.

Thats when the excitement starts...

Talk to a girl, if she likes you and asks you out, say no.

Put yourself in the driver seat, get that feeling of power.

Take risks and let the risks take you.
 
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ManFromDublin

New member
you should come to ireland the women here are great..

no but seriously how can you expect anyone else to like you if you dont like yourself.

some people say that sharing the problem can make it less of a problem..but sometimes when we hear there are other people going through the same thing we only start to get comfortable with the mess we are in.

Dont get comfortable.

Go outside your comfort zone.

Thats when the excitement starts...

Talk to a girl, if she likes you and asks you out, say no.

Put yourself in the driver seat, get that feeling of power.

Take risks and let the risks take you.
 
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ManFromDublin

New member
you should come to ireland the women here are great..

no but seriously how can you expect anyone else to like you if you dont like yourself.

some people say that sharing the problem can make it less of a problem..but sometimes when we hear there are other people going through the same thing we only start to get comfortable with the mess we are in.

Dont get comfortable.

Go outside your comfort zone.

Thats when the excitement starts...

Talk to a girl, if she likes you and asks you out, say no.

Put yourself in the driver seat, get that feeling of power.

Take risks and let the risks take you.
 
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ManFromDublin

New member
you should come to ireland the women here are great..
<br />
<br />no but seriously how can you expect anyone else to like you if you dont like yourself.
<br />
<br />some people say that sharing the problem can make it less of a problem..but sometimes when we hear there are other people going through the same thing we only start to get comfortable with the mess we are in.
<br />
<br />Dont get comfortable.
<br />
<br />Go outside your comfort zone.
<br />
<br />Thats when the excitement starts...
<br />
<br />Talk to a girl, if she likes you and asks you out, say no.
<br />
<br />Put yourself in the driver seat, get that feeling of power.
<br />
<br />Take risks and let the risks take you.
 
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lostboy

New member
ill tell you yes you can find someone ,who will love u for who u are,i met my girfriend a few years ago i new her for nine years i new she was sick,but i looked past that! all that stuff your talking about it isnt sick ,it is just someone being sick. please be yourself, someone will find you, we all deserve love
 
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lostboy

New member
ill tell you yes you can find someone ,who will love u for who u are,i met my girfriend a few years ago i new her for nine years i new she was sick,but i looked past that! all that stuff your talking about it isnt sick ,it is just someone being sick. please be yourself, someone will find you, we all deserve love
 
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lostboy

New member
ill tell you yes you can find someone ,who will love u for who u are,i met my girfriend a few years ago i new her for nine years i new she was sick,but i looked past that! all that stuff your talking about it isnt sick ,it is just someone being sick. please be yourself, someone will find you, we all deserve love
 
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lostboy

New member
ill tell you yes you can find someone ,who will love u for who u are,i met my girfriend a few years ago i new her for nine years i new she was sick,but i looked past that! all that stuff your talking about it isnt sick ,it is just someone being sick. please be yourself, someone will find you, we all deserve love
 
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lostboy

New member
ill tell you yes you can find someone ,who will love u for who u are,i met my girfriend a few years ago i new her for nine years i new she was sick,but i looked past that! all that stuff your talking about it isnt sick ,it is just someone being sick. please be yourself, someone will find you, we all deserve love
 
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