why me!!!!!!!!!!!

mysterygrl19

New member
Hey Dani,
I am 19 and was Dx at birth. When I was younger I was very healthy, but since I turned about 14 things have gone down hill pretty quickly. I struggle with my faith, or lack of it, every day. I still dont have an answer as to why me, or why anyone else.
The thing that helps me sometimes is to think of all the good things having CF has given me. I have met a lot of great people. I try to appreciate the days when I can make it upstairs without getting out of breath. i also think CF has made me a more compassionate and empathetic person.
Keep your chin up!
--Heather 19 w/cf; CFRD
 

mysterygrl19

New member
Hey Dani,
I am 19 and was Dx at birth. When I was younger I was very healthy, but since I turned about 14 things have gone down hill pretty quickly. I struggle with my faith, or lack of it, every day. I still dont have an answer as to why me, or why anyone else.
The thing that helps me sometimes is to think of all the good things having CF has given me. I have met a lot of great people. I try to appreciate the days when I can make it upstairs without getting out of breath. i also think CF has made me a more compassionate and empathetic person.
Keep your chin up!
--Heather 19 w/cf; CFRD
 

mysterygrl19

New member
Hey Dani,
I am 19 and was Dx at birth. When I was younger I was very healthy, but since I turned about 14 things have gone down hill pretty quickly. I struggle with my faith, or lack of it, every day. I still dont have an answer as to why me, or why anyone else.
The thing that helps me sometimes is to think of all the good things having CF has given me. I have met a lot of great people. I try to appreciate the days when I can make it upstairs without getting out of breath. i also think CF has made me a more compassionate and empathetic person.
Keep your chin up!
--Heather 19 w/cf; CFRD
 

mysterygrl19

New member
Hey Dani,
I am 19 and was Dx at birth. When I was younger I was very healthy, but since I turned about 14 things have gone down hill pretty quickly. I struggle with my faith, or lack of it, every day. I still dont have an answer as to why me, or why anyone else.
The thing that helps me sometimes is to think of all the good things having CF has given me. I have met a lot of great people. I try to appreciate the days when I can make it upstairs without getting out of breath. i also think CF has made me a more compassionate and empathetic person.
Keep your chin up!
--Heather 19 w/cf; CFRD
 

mysterygrl19

New member
Hey Dani,
<br /> I am 19 and was Dx at birth. When I was younger I was very healthy, but since I turned about 14 things have gone down hill pretty quickly. I struggle with my faith, or lack of it, every day. I still dont have an answer as to why me, or why anyone else.
<br />The thing that helps me sometimes is to think of all the good things having CF has given me. I have met a lot of great people. I try to appreciate the days when I can make it upstairs without getting out of breath. i also think CF has made me a more compassionate and empathetic person.
<br />Keep your chin up!
<br />--Heather 19 w/cf; CFRD
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Rosi19

New member
Hey Huni x

Im Rosi :) im 19 so a bit older, but i have bin through the why me stage! and i can freely admit it was the worst part of my life, being a teenager is confusing and frustrating anyway but then we are faced with this whole other part of our lives that we have to accept and come to terms with. Your angry, your upset, you feel trapped, helpless and scared that there is nothing you can do to change things! and as silly as it sounds i felt embarrassed!!

At the time i was so horrible to my mum because i had all these feelings that i didn't know how to handle, I was so angry about having CF and i blamed her for everything! But it just made things worst because I sort of isolated my self from the 1 person id always relied on! She did not deserve it after everything she'd done, but i just wanted to forget about CF and she couldn't let me, I used to say she was shoving CF in my face when ever she tried to get me to do treatments and take my medication. I used to think she was using that to trap me and stop me being free but she just cared. The worst thing is i used to scream about why i had CF but my brothers and sisters were all fine and how i hated them for it! It was an awful thing to say when i think back.

I didn't mean what i was saying but I just had to come to terms with CF, like your trying to do now. Luckily my mum understood I guess it was something she had to accept along time ago, and everything i was going through, the anger, denial, and self pitty she'd already done.

Back then CF seemed like the end of my world but you now what im over it, and i love my life and having a fantastic time, probely thanks to my mum for helping me at the low points but hey if we didnt have them we wouldn't appreciate the highs!! i never thought id say this but i wouldn't change anything There would be no point because it just doesnt bother me anymore, you'll eventually realize its a waste of time being angry cuz theres not really much we can do.

CF is just a small part of me but it is not who i am and never will be! Just take care so that you can enjoy the better and more fun things that will come your way and concentrate on them theres a lot more to life. xxxxxxxxx
 

Rosi19

New member
Hey Huni x

Im Rosi :) im 19 so a bit older, but i have bin through the why me stage! and i can freely admit it was the worst part of my life, being a teenager is confusing and frustrating anyway but then we are faced with this whole other part of our lives that we have to accept and come to terms with. Your angry, your upset, you feel trapped, helpless and scared that there is nothing you can do to change things! and as silly as it sounds i felt embarrassed!!

At the time i was so horrible to my mum because i had all these feelings that i didn't know how to handle, I was so angry about having CF and i blamed her for everything! But it just made things worst because I sort of isolated my self from the 1 person id always relied on! She did not deserve it after everything she'd done, but i just wanted to forget about CF and she couldn't let me, I used to say she was shoving CF in my face when ever she tried to get me to do treatments and take my medication. I used to think she was using that to trap me and stop me being free but she just cared. The worst thing is i used to scream about why i had CF but my brothers and sisters were all fine and how i hated them for it! It was an awful thing to say when i think back.

I didn't mean what i was saying but I just had to come to terms with CF, like your trying to do now. Luckily my mum understood I guess it was something she had to accept along time ago, and everything i was going through, the anger, denial, and self pitty she'd already done.

Back then CF seemed like the end of my world but you now what im over it, and i love my life and having a fantastic time, probely thanks to my mum for helping me at the low points but hey if we didnt have them we wouldn't appreciate the highs!! i never thought id say this but i wouldn't change anything There would be no point because it just doesnt bother me anymore, you'll eventually realize its a waste of time being angry cuz theres not really much we can do.

CF is just a small part of me but it is not who i am and never will be! Just take care so that you can enjoy the better and more fun things that will come your way and concentrate on them theres a lot more to life. xxxxxxxxx
 

Rosi19

New member
Hey Huni x

Im Rosi :) im 19 so a bit older, but i have bin through the why me stage! and i can freely admit it was the worst part of my life, being a teenager is confusing and frustrating anyway but then we are faced with this whole other part of our lives that we have to accept and come to terms with. Your angry, your upset, you feel trapped, helpless and scared that there is nothing you can do to change things! and as silly as it sounds i felt embarrassed!!

At the time i was so horrible to my mum because i had all these feelings that i didn't know how to handle, I was so angry about having CF and i blamed her for everything! But it just made things worst because I sort of isolated my self from the 1 person id always relied on! She did not deserve it after everything she'd done, but i just wanted to forget about CF and she couldn't let me, I used to say she was shoving CF in my face when ever she tried to get me to do treatments and take my medication. I used to think she was using that to trap me and stop me being free but she just cared. The worst thing is i used to scream about why i had CF but my brothers and sisters were all fine and how i hated them for it! It was an awful thing to say when i think back.

I didn't mean what i was saying but I just had to come to terms with CF, like your trying to do now. Luckily my mum understood I guess it was something she had to accept along time ago, and everything i was going through, the anger, denial, and self pitty she'd already done.

Back then CF seemed like the end of my world but you now what im over it, and i love my life and having a fantastic time, probely thanks to my mum for helping me at the low points but hey if we didnt have them we wouldn't appreciate the highs!! i never thought id say this but i wouldn't change anything There would be no point because it just doesnt bother me anymore, you'll eventually realize its a waste of time being angry cuz theres not really much we can do.

CF is just a small part of me but it is not who i am and never will be! Just take care so that you can enjoy the better and more fun things that will come your way and concentrate on them theres a lot more to life. xxxxxxxxx
 

Rosi19

New member
Hey Huni x

Im Rosi :) im 19 so a bit older, but i have bin through the why me stage! and i can freely admit it was the worst part of my life, being a teenager is confusing and frustrating anyway but then we are faced with this whole other part of our lives that we have to accept and come to terms with. Your angry, your upset, you feel trapped, helpless and scared that there is nothing you can do to change things! and as silly as it sounds i felt embarrassed!!

At the time i was so horrible to my mum because i had all these feelings that i didn't know how to handle, I was so angry about having CF and i blamed her for everything! But it just made things worst because I sort of isolated my self from the 1 person id always relied on! She did not deserve it after everything she'd done, but i just wanted to forget about CF and she couldn't let me, I used to say she was shoving CF in my face when ever she tried to get me to do treatments and take my medication. I used to think she was using that to trap me and stop me being free but she just cared. The worst thing is i used to scream about why i had CF but my brothers and sisters were all fine and how i hated them for it! It was an awful thing to say when i think back.

I didn't mean what i was saying but I just had to come to terms with CF, like your trying to do now. Luckily my mum understood I guess it was something she had to accept along time ago, and everything i was going through, the anger, denial, and self pitty she'd already done.

Back then CF seemed like the end of my world but you now what im over it, and i love my life and having a fantastic time, probely thanks to my mum for helping me at the low points but hey if we didnt have them we wouldn't appreciate the highs!! i never thought id say this but i wouldn't change anything There would be no point because it just doesnt bother me anymore, you'll eventually realize its a waste of time being angry cuz theres not really much we can do.

CF is just a small part of me but it is not who i am and never will be! Just take care so that you can enjoy the better and more fun things that will come your way and concentrate on them theres a lot more to life. xxxxxxxxx
 

Rosi19

New member
Hey Huni x
<br />
<br />Im Rosi :) im 19 so a bit older, but i have bin through the why me stage! and i can freely admit it was the worst part of my life, being a teenager is confusing and frustrating anyway but then we are faced with this whole other part of our lives that we have to accept and come to terms with. Your angry, your upset, you feel trapped, helpless and scared that there is nothing you can do to change things! and as silly as it sounds i felt embarrassed!!
<br />
<br />At the time i was so horrible to my mum because i had all these feelings that i didn't know how to handle, I was so angry about having CF and i blamed her for everything! But it just made things worst because I sort of isolated my self from the 1 person id always relied on! She did not deserve it after everything she'd done, but i just wanted to forget about CF and she couldn't let me, I used to say she was shoving CF in my face when ever she tried to get me to do treatments and take my medication. I used to think she was using that to trap me and stop me being free but she just cared. The worst thing is i used to scream about why i had CF but my brothers and sisters were all fine and how i hated them for it! It was an awful thing to say when i think back.
<br />
<br />I didn't mean what i was saying but I just had to come to terms with CF, like your trying to do now. Luckily my mum understood I guess it was something she had to accept along time ago, and everything i was going through, the anger, denial, and self pitty she'd already done.
<br />
<br />Back then CF seemed like the end of my world but you now what im over it, and i love my life and having a fantastic time, probely thanks to my mum for helping me at the low points but hey if we didnt have them we wouldn't appreciate the highs!! i never thought id say this but i wouldn't change anything There would be no point because it just doesnt bother me anymore, you'll eventually realize its a waste of time being angry cuz theres not really much we can do.
<br />
<br />CF is just a small part of me but it is not who i am and never will be! Just take care so that you can enjoy the better and more fun things that will come your way and concentrate on them theres a lot more to life. xxxxxxxxx
 

JennyCoulon

New member
My husband and I used to be angry with God about our boys having CF. I just remember so much hearing from people that God only gives you what He knows you can handle. I know it is different because I do not have CF but am a parent of two boys with CF. Please keep this in mind and think of the future. <img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
 

JennyCoulon

New member
My husband and I used to be angry with God about our boys having CF. I just remember so much hearing from people that God only gives you what He knows you can handle. I know it is different because I do not have CF but am a parent of two boys with CF. Please keep this in mind and think of the future. <img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
 

JennyCoulon

New member
My husband and I used to be angry with God about our boys having CF. I just remember so much hearing from people that God only gives you what He knows you can handle. I know it is different because I do not have CF but am a parent of two boys with CF. Please keep this in mind and think of the future. <img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
 

JennyCoulon

New member
My husband and I used to be angry with God about our boys having CF. I just remember so much hearing from people that God only gives you what He knows you can handle. I know it is different because I do not have CF but am a parent of two boys with CF. Please keep this in mind and think of the future. <img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
 

JennyCoulon

New member
My husband and I used to be angry with God about our boys having CF. I just remember so much hearing from people that God only gives you what He knows you can handle. I know it is different because I do not have CF but am a parent of two boys with CF. Please keep this in mind and think of the future. <img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
 

13mlr

New member
Hey Dani
Sometimes i am really upset with God to. I think he gave alot of us a raw deal. But it makes us stronger. We even meet some extrordinary people when we are sick. Some of the most amazing people i've met are my docters and nurses. I try to just stay positive and it's okay to be mad at God because really there isn't anyone to blame for CF.

Malora 15 w/ CF
 

13mlr

New member
Hey Dani
Sometimes i am really upset with God to. I think he gave alot of us a raw deal. But it makes us stronger. We even meet some extrordinary people when we are sick. Some of the most amazing people i've met are my docters and nurses. I try to just stay positive and it's okay to be mad at God because really there isn't anyone to blame for CF.

Malora 15 w/ CF
 

13mlr

New member
Hey Dani
Sometimes i am really upset with God to. I think he gave alot of us a raw deal. But it makes us stronger. We even meet some extrordinary people when we are sick. Some of the most amazing people i've met are my docters and nurses. I try to just stay positive and it's okay to be mad at God because really there isn't anyone to blame for CF.

Malora 15 w/ CF
 

13mlr

New member
Hey Dani
Sometimes i am really upset with God to. I think he gave alot of us a raw deal. But it makes us stronger. We even meet some extrordinary people when we are sick. Some of the most amazing people i've met are my docters and nurses. I try to just stay positive and it's okay to be mad at God because really there isn't anyone to blame for CF.

Malora 15 w/ CF
 

13mlr

New member
Hey Dani
<br />Sometimes i am really upset with God to. I think he gave alot of us a raw deal. But it makes us stronger. We even meet some extrordinary people when we are sick. Some of the most amazing people i've met are my docters and nurses. I try to just stay positive and it's okay to be mad at God because really there isn't anyone to blame for CF.
<br />
<br />Malora 15 w/ CF
 
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