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zoeg

New member
Thanks so much for all the support everyone. I am starting to feel a little better about things today, but still not as excited as a new mom should feel and that makes me so guilty I can't stand it! I love my Kate more than anything in this world, and I'm sure I will feel the same for this one CF or not. We are now debating the amnio issue. I can't decide if it is right for us. We may wait until after the baby is born and have our clinic swab its' cheek as they did for Kate. It was quick and painless and we had the results quite quickly. Thanks again for everything. I know each time is a one in four chance, but just hearing how so many of you have siblings and other kids without it at least gives me something to hope for.

Thanks,
Zoe mom to Kate
 
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zoeg

New member
Thanks so much for all the support everyone. I am starting to feel a little better about things today, but still not as excited as a new mom should feel and that makes me so guilty I can't stand it! I love my Kate more than anything in this world, and I'm sure I will feel the same for this one CF or not. We are now debating the amnio issue. I can't decide if it is right for us. We may wait until after the baby is born and have our clinic swab its' cheek as they did for Kate. It was quick and painless and we had the results quite quickly. Thanks again for everything. I know each time is a one in four chance, but just hearing how so many of you have siblings and other kids without it at least gives me something to hope for.

Thanks,
Zoe mom to Kate
 
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zoeg

New member
Thanks so much for all the support everyone. I am starting to feel a little better about things today, but still not as excited as a new mom should feel and that makes me so guilty I can't stand it! I love my Kate more than anything in this world, and I'm sure I will feel the same for this one CF or not. We are now debating the amnio issue. I can't decide if it is right for us. We may wait until after the baby is born and have our clinic swab its' cheek as they did for Kate. It was quick and painless and we had the results quite quickly. Thanks again for everything. I know each time is a one in four chance, but just hearing how so many of you have siblings and other kids without it at least gives me something to hope for.

Thanks,
Zoe mom to Kate
 
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zoeg

New member
Thanks so much for all the support everyone. I am starting to feel a little better about things today, but still not as excited as a new mom should feel and that makes me so guilty I can't stand it! I love my Kate more than anything in this world, and I'm sure I will feel the same for this one CF or not. We are now debating the amnio issue. I can't decide if it is right for us. We may wait until after the baby is born and have our clinic swab its' cheek as they did for Kate. It was quick and painless and we had the results quite quickly. Thanks again for everything. I know each time is a one in four chance, but just hearing how so many of you have siblings and other kids without it at least gives me something to hope for.

Thanks,
Zoe mom to Kate
 
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zoeg

New member
Thanks so much for all the support everyone. I am starting to feel a little better about things today, but still not as excited as a new mom should feel and that makes me so guilty I can't stand it! I love my Kate more than anything in this world, and I'm sure I will feel the same for this one CF or not. We are now debating the amnio issue. I can't decide if it is right for us. We may wait until after the baby is born and have our clinic swab its' cheek as they did for Kate. It was quick and painless and we had the results quite quickly. Thanks again for everything. I know each time is a one in four chance, but just hearing how so many of you have siblings and other kids without it at least gives me something to hope for.

Thanks,
Zoe mom to Kate
 
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tammykrumrey

Guest
Zoe,
I just wanted to add that I had those same emotions as my second pregnancy went along-without even considering the impact of a second with CF. All I knew was that I LOVED Kayla more than anything in the world and loved being there for her every second she needed me.

I felt guilty that I was having another baby and that I would not be able to give her 100% of my attention. I wasn't sure that I could even love someone else as much as I loved her. It was so hard to believe that I could and I was scared that maybe I wouldn't.

I will never forget the morning that I went into labor with Hannah. I still had a little time before needing to get to the hospital, so I sat and spent as much time with Kayla as I could. I remember sitting in her room and rocking her in the rocking chair and just fighting back the tears. She was 18 months old at the time. I was still feeling sad that it was some of our last moments together in which she had my undivided attention.

And my fears of not loving the second one as much diminished as soon as I looked in Hannah's eyes. <i> It was an amazing time for me as a mother to discover that I didn't have to divide my love, but that my heart and love actually multiplied by two!</i>

You will do great no matter what the outcome!
 
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tammykrumrey

Guest
Zoe,
I just wanted to add that I had those same emotions as my second pregnancy went along-without even considering the impact of a second with CF. All I knew was that I LOVED Kayla more than anything in the world and loved being there for her every second she needed me.

I felt guilty that I was having another baby and that I would not be able to give her 100% of my attention. I wasn't sure that I could even love someone else as much as I loved her. It was so hard to believe that I could and I was scared that maybe I wouldn't.

I will never forget the morning that I went into labor with Hannah. I still had a little time before needing to get to the hospital, so I sat and spent as much time with Kayla as I could. I remember sitting in her room and rocking her in the rocking chair and just fighting back the tears. She was 18 months old at the time. I was still feeling sad that it was some of our last moments together in which she had my undivided attention.

And my fears of not loving the second one as much diminished as soon as I looked in Hannah's eyes. <i> It was an amazing time for me as a mother to discover that I didn't have to divide my love, but that my heart and love actually multiplied by two!</i>

You will do great no matter what the outcome!
 
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tammykrumrey

Guest
Zoe,
I just wanted to add that I had those same emotions as my second pregnancy went along-without even considering the impact of a second with CF. All I knew was that I LOVED Kayla more than anything in the world and loved being there for her every second she needed me.

I felt guilty that I was having another baby and that I would not be able to give her 100% of my attention. I wasn't sure that I could even love someone else as much as I loved her. It was so hard to believe that I could and I was scared that maybe I wouldn't.

I will never forget the morning that I went into labor with Hannah. I still had a little time before needing to get to the hospital, so I sat and spent as much time with Kayla as I could. I remember sitting in her room and rocking her in the rocking chair and just fighting back the tears. She was 18 months old at the time. I was still feeling sad that it was some of our last moments together in which she had my undivided attention.

And my fears of not loving the second one as much diminished as soon as I looked in Hannah's eyes. <i> It was an amazing time for me as a mother to discover that I didn't have to divide my love, but that my heart and love actually multiplied by two!</i>

You will do great no matter what the outcome!
 
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tammykrumrey

Guest
Zoe,
I just wanted to add that I had those same emotions as my second pregnancy went along-without even considering the impact of a second with CF. All I knew was that I LOVED Kayla more than anything in the world and loved being there for her every second she needed me.

I felt guilty that I was having another baby and that I would not be able to give her 100% of my attention. I wasn't sure that I could even love someone else as much as I loved her. It was so hard to believe that I could and I was scared that maybe I wouldn't.

I will never forget the morning that I went into labor with Hannah. I still had a little time before needing to get to the hospital, so I sat and spent as much time with Kayla as I could. I remember sitting in her room and rocking her in the rocking chair and just fighting back the tears. She was 18 months old at the time. I was still feeling sad that it was some of our last moments together in which she had my undivided attention.

And my fears of not loving the second one as much diminished as soon as I looked in Hannah's eyes. <i> It was an amazing time for me as a mother to discover that I didn't have to divide my love, but that my heart and love actually multiplied by two!</i>

You will do great no matter what the outcome!
 
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tammykrumrey

Guest
Zoe,
I just wanted to add that I had those same emotions as my second pregnancy went along-without even considering the impact of a second with CF. All I knew was that I LOVED Kayla more than anything in the world and loved being there for her every second she needed me.

I felt guilty that I was having another baby and that I would not be able to give her 100% of my attention. I wasn't sure that I could even love someone else as much as I loved her. It was so hard to believe that I could and I was scared that maybe I wouldn't.

I will never forget the morning that I went into labor with Hannah. I still had a little time before needing to get to the hospital, so I sat and spent as much time with Kayla as I could. I remember sitting in her room and rocking her in the rocking chair and just fighting back the tears. She was 18 months old at the time. I was still feeling sad that it was some of our last moments together in which she had my undivided attention.

And my fears of not loving the second one as much diminished as soon as I looked in Hannah's eyes. <i> It was an amazing time for me as a mother to discover that I didn't have to divide my love, but that my heart and love actually multiplied by two!</i>

You will do great no matter what the outcome!
 
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wanderlost

New member
<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>tammykrumrey</b></i>

<i> It was an amazing time for me as a mother to discover that I didn't have to divide my love, but that my heart and love actually multiplied by two!</i>
</end quote></div>

This brought tears to my eyes and it is sooo true - I also worried about having another child, especially after having my son to myself for 7 years - but now I know that I love them each equally, but completely differently and there is plenty of love to go around!

A little OT from having a Cf baby, I know, but I just couldn't not respond <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 
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wanderlost

New member
<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>tammykrumrey</b></i>

<i> It was an amazing time for me as a mother to discover that I didn't have to divide my love, but that my heart and love actually multiplied by two!</i>
</end quote></div>

This brought tears to my eyes and it is sooo true - I also worried about having another child, especially after having my son to myself for 7 years - but now I know that I love them each equally, but completely differently and there is plenty of love to go around!

A little OT from having a Cf baby, I know, but I just couldn't not respond <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 
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wanderlost

New member
<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>tammykrumrey</b></i>

<i> It was an amazing time for me as a mother to discover that I didn't have to divide my love, but that my heart and love actually multiplied by two!</i>
</end quote></div>

This brought tears to my eyes and it is sooo true - I also worried about having another child, especially after having my son to myself for 7 years - but now I know that I love them each equally, but completely differently and there is plenty of love to go around!

A little OT from having a Cf baby, I know, but I just couldn't not respond <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 
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wanderlost

New member
<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>tammykrumrey</b></i>

<i> It was an amazing time for me as a mother to discover that I didn't have to divide my love, but that my heart and love actually multiplied by two!</i>
</end quote>

This brought tears to my eyes and it is sooo true - I also worried about having another child, especially after having my son to myself for 7 years - but now I know that I love them each equally, but completely differently and there is plenty of love to go around!

A little OT from having a Cf baby, I know, but I just couldn't not respond <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 
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wanderlost

New member
<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>tammykrumrey</b></i>

<i> It was an amazing time for me as a mother to discover that I didn't have to divide my love, but that my heart and love actually multiplied by two!</i>
</end quote>

This brought tears to my eyes and it is sooo true - I also worried about having another child, especially after having my son to myself for 7 years - but now I know that I love them each equally, but completely differently and there is plenty of love to go around!

A little OT from having a Cf baby, I know, but I just couldn't not respond <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 
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