I agree deeznuts...it is very hard not to get emotionally invested (good term) with others who share the same struggles as we do. I for one love forums like these because of this...it is difficult to get people on the outside, even my family to truly understand my illness. They do sympathize but do they really know how I am feeling when I am being faced with yet another drawn out hospitalization or the pain I feel when I am coughing up a few lobes of my lungs? You guys do.
As far as posers...I don't know why anyone would fake this disease or any for that matter, some people truly believe that they are suffering from the disease even though the docs say no, then there are others who fake the disease to get attention. As an ex nurse, I did have the opportunity to take care of a woman with Munchausen's. It was very sad...she must have had 20 or more scars on her abdomen from her many "exploratory laps" for abdominal pain. She also would inject herself with tainted syringes to create infections and abcesses on various parts of her body...all the while confusing the docs as to why this was happening until the contaminated syringes were found in the bathroom. When she was confronted, she signed out AMA...against medical advice and fled somewhere else.
As with anything on the internet, we just have to be cautious.
Hugs, Jenn