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coltsfan715

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Welcome to the site!

I am kind of shocked to read this I saw the new comer titles recently but had not been reading much on here. Then click on this today and I had to go back and read through your other post as well lol.

I will say your life is your life to live. At the same time I will say I was psyched to find out a CFer was going to be on the Real World - then kind of bummed at the way CF was portrayed - like there you were smoking/drinking/whatever I just didn't want people thinking that is how it was for everyone. I know that it is a reality show and they are going to dramatize things to the Nth degree, but still it was a bit of a bummer.

I know I may be the oddball in saying that but yeah it is how I felt about it. My fiance and I had not been together too long when your season came out and he was stoked that there was a CFer on there. Then he seemed horrified. It brought up so many questions for him and for us to talk about. He saw what I said about CF and how I was so adament against smoking and other issues and then saw you and what all you were doing and it seemed like the total opposite to him. He didn't know what to think cause he didn't know anyone else besides me with CF ... and then what he saw from you lol. We had alot to talk about because of that season. I actually think that was the last season I watched of the Real World. Not for any reason dealing with you, but just because I lost interest overall.

I guess thank you for bringing CF to people's attention. I can understand you wishing things had been portrayed differently, and I also know that people have lives. You go out, you drink, you party, you do whatever else you do. You LIVE ... just because it isn't how everyone else with this disease deals with it doesn't mean it is right or wrong.

I am glad that you are doing better. I do hate that you had such a rough go of things the past few years. It sounds like you are in a much better place though mentally and physically. I am happy for you and happy that you are still with your boyfriend.

Again WELCOME!

Have a great day,
Lindsey
 

coltsfan715

New member
Welcome to the site!

I am kind of shocked to read this I saw the new comer titles recently but had not been reading much on here. Then click on this today and I had to go back and read through your other post as well lol.

I will say your life is your life to live. At the same time I will say I was psyched to find out a CFer was going to be on the Real World - then kind of bummed at the way CF was portrayed - like there you were smoking/drinking/whatever I just didn't want people thinking that is how it was for everyone. I know that it is a reality show and they are going to dramatize things to the Nth degree, but still it was a bit of a bummer.

I know I may be the oddball in saying that but yeah it is how I felt about it. My fiance and I had not been together too long when your season came out and he was stoked that there was a CFer on there. Then he seemed horrified. It brought up so many questions for him and for us to talk about. He saw what I said about CF and how I was so adament against smoking and other issues and then saw you and what all you were doing and it seemed like the total opposite to him. He didn't know what to think cause he didn't know anyone else besides me with CF ... and then what he saw from you lol. We had alot to talk about because of that season. I actually think that was the last season I watched of the Real World. Not for any reason dealing with you, but just because I lost interest overall.

I guess thank you for bringing CF to people's attention. I can understand you wishing things had been portrayed differently, and I also know that people have lives. You go out, you drink, you party, you do whatever else you do. You LIVE ... just because it isn't how everyone else with this disease deals with it doesn't mean it is right or wrong.

I am glad that you are doing better. I do hate that you had such a rough go of things the past few years. It sounds like you are in a much better place though mentally and physically. I am happy for you and happy that you are still with your boyfriend.

Again WELCOME!

Have a great day,
Lindsey
 

coltsfan715

New member
Welcome to the site!

I am kind of shocked to read this I saw the new comer titles recently but had not been reading much on here. Then click on this today and I had to go back and read through your other post as well lol.

I will say your life is your life to live. At the same time I will say I was psyched to find out a CFer was going to be on the Real World - then kind of bummed at the way CF was portrayed - like there you were smoking/drinking/whatever I just didn't want people thinking that is how it was for everyone. I know that it is a reality show and they are going to dramatize things to the Nth degree, but still it was a bit of a bummer.

I know I may be the oddball in saying that but yeah it is how I felt about it. My fiance and I had not been together too long when your season came out and he was stoked that there was a CFer on there. Then he seemed horrified. It brought up so many questions for him and for us to talk about. He saw what I said about CF and how I was so adament against smoking and other issues and then saw you and what all you were doing and it seemed like the total opposite to him. He didn't know what to think cause he didn't know anyone else besides me with CF ... and then what he saw from you lol. We had alot to talk about because of that season. I actually think that was the last season I watched of the Real World. Not for any reason dealing with you, but just because I lost interest overall.

I guess thank you for bringing CF to people's attention. I can understand you wishing things had been portrayed differently, and I also know that people have lives. You go out, you drink, you party, you do whatever else you do. You LIVE ... just because it isn't how everyone else with this disease deals with it doesn't mean it is right or wrong.

I am glad that you are doing better. I do hate that you had such a rough go of things the past few years. It sounds like you are in a much better place though mentally and physically. I am happy for you and happy that you are still with your boyfriend.

Again WELCOME!

Have a great day,
Lindsey
 

mic10467

New member
Hello Frankie,

I am so glad to receive an update on where you are in life and how you are doing. I've been a Real World junkie for years, and of course was excited to see a Real World with a girl with CF. It's makes me feel angry to know that the producers took your CF and your cutting yourself to make you out to be the problem roommate. I am glad to hear your take of the way things went there as far as editing and such to explain where you were at. I was so excited to see on the Real World another person with CF, and yet they did not handle it well. They were only out for the exploitive aspect of it. I have thought about it in the past and I think it would be great to have MTV do an hour show update on you and what CF is really about. They have that True Life show, they could put you on that show. I feel like they owe you some vindication. Besides all of that I am thankful that you came on here and opened up about who you are. I was worried about you after the show, with dealing with the media crap and all. I am glad that you are doing okay.

Best Wishes
Michelle 39 w/cf
 

mic10467

New member
Hello Frankie,

I am so glad to receive an update on where you are in life and how you are doing. I've been a Real World junkie for years, and of course was excited to see a Real World with a girl with CF. It's makes me feel angry to know that the producers took your CF and your cutting yourself to make you out to be the problem roommate. I am glad to hear your take of the way things went there as far as editing and such to explain where you were at. I was so excited to see on the Real World another person with CF, and yet they did not handle it well. They were only out for the exploitive aspect of it. I have thought about it in the past and I think it would be great to have MTV do an hour show update on you and what CF is really about. They have that True Life show, they could put you on that show. I feel like they owe you some vindication. Besides all of that I am thankful that you came on here and opened up about who you are. I was worried about you after the show, with dealing with the media crap and all. I am glad that you are doing okay.

Best Wishes
Michelle 39 w/cf
 

mic10467

New member
Hello Frankie,

I am so glad to receive an update on where you are in life and how you are doing. I've been a Real World junkie for years, and of course was excited to see a Real World with a girl with CF. It's makes me feel angry to know that the producers took your CF and your cutting yourself to make you out to be the problem roommate. I am glad to hear your take of the way things went there as far as editing and such to explain where you were at. I was so excited to see on the Real World another person with CF, and yet they did not handle it well. They were only out for the exploitive aspect of it. I have thought about it in the past and I think it would be great to have MTV do an hour show update on you and what CF is really about. They have that True Life show, they could put you on that show. I feel like they owe you some vindication. Besides all of that I am thankful that you came on here and opened up about who you are. I was worried about you after the show, with dealing with the media crap and all. I am glad that you are doing okay.

Best Wishes
Michelle 39 w/cf
 

anonymous

New member
well frankie, i am glad to hear that you grew up.

i have spent many, many, many, many times explaining to people that not all CFers are like the person you were on the real world.

i was definitely one of the people that was horribly embarassed by your representation of CF.

but i am one who always preaches forgiveness and 2nd chances. and at least for me, as i can only speak for myself, i definitely forgive you for the damaged that you did to the CF community and I am happy to have you on the board!

welcome!
 

anonymous

New member
well frankie, i am glad to hear that you grew up.

i have spent many, many, many, many times explaining to people that not all CFers are like the person you were on the real world.

i was definitely one of the people that was horribly embarassed by your representation of CF.

but i am one who always preaches forgiveness and 2nd chances. and at least for me, as i can only speak for myself, i definitely forgive you for the damaged that you did to the CF community and I am happy to have you on the board!

welcome!
 

anonymous

New member
well frankie, i am glad to hear that you grew up.

i have spent many, many, many, many times explaining to people that not all CFers are like the person you were on the real world.

i was definitely one of the people that was horribly embarassed by your representation of CF.

but i am one who always preaches forgiveness and 2nd chances. and at least for me, as i can only speak for myself, i definitely forgive you for the damaged that you did to the CF community and I am happy to have you on the board!

welcome!
 

Emily65Roses

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I know I'm late, and this is irrelevant, but Liza is right... my salt tattoo rocks. Ahahahahaa.

<img src="http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a347/Emily65Roses/2ndTattoo.jpg">
 

Emily65Roses

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I know I'm late, and this is irrelevant, but Liza is right... my salt tattoo rocks. Ahahahahaa.

<img src="http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a347/Emily65Roses/2ndTattoo.jpg">
 

Emily65Roses

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I know I'm late, and this is irrelevant, but Liza is right... my salt tattoo rocks. Ahahahahaa.

<img src="http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a347/Emily65Roses/2ndTattoo.jpg">
 

Ender

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<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>anonymous</b></i>

well frankie, i am glad to hear that you grew up.



i have spent many, many, many, many times explaining to people that not all CFers are like the person you were on the real world.



i was definitely one of the people that was horribly embarassed by your representation of CF.



but i am one who always preaches forgiveness and 2nd chances. and at least for me, as i can only speak for myself, i definitely forgive you for the damaged that you did to the CF community and I am happy to have you on the board!



welcome!</end quote></div>


What damage?
 

Ender

New member
<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>anonymous</b></i>

well frankie, i am glad to hear that you grew up.



i have spent many, many, many, many times explaining to people that not all CFers are like the person you were on the real world.



i was definitely one of the people that was horribly embarassed by your representation of CF.



but i am one who always preaches forgiveness and 2nd chances. and at least for me, as i can only speak for myself, i definitely forgive you for the damaged that you did to the CF community and I am happy to have you on the board!



welcome!</end quote></div>


What damage?
 

Ender

New member
<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>anonymous</b></i>

well frankie, i am glad to hear that you grew up.



i have spent many, many, many, many times explaining to people that not all CFers are like the person you were on the real world.



i was definitely one of the people that was horribly embarassed by your representation of CF.



but i am one who always preaches forgiveness and 2nd chances. and at least for me, as i can only speak for myself, i definitely forgive you for the damaged that you did to the CF community and I am happy to have you on the board!



welcome!</end quote></div>


What damage?
 

welshgirl

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i don't know anything about the tv show you were on but welcome to the site and remember no one is perfect. see you around<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0">
 

welshgirl

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i don't know anything about the tv show you were on but welcome to the site and remember no one is perfect. see you around<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0">
 

welshgirl

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i don't know anything about the tv show you were on but welcome to the site and remember no one is perfect. see you around<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0">
 

sarabeth87

New member
Hi Frankie!
Welcome to the site. This really is a great place to come for support and information or just to talk. I love watching The Real World (i don't know why, but I love reality tv) Anyways, I remember when I found out that you had CF. I was really excited that CF would be getting attention. But then I saw how you were portrayed and I was pissed at MTV. I know that they edit things to make people seem worse than they are, but at least CF did get some attention. Well, anyways....Welcome!!!!!
 

sarabeth87

New member
Hi Frankie!
Welcome to the site. This really is a great place to come for support and information or just to talk. I love watching The Real World (i don't know why, but I love reality tv) Anyways, I remember when I found out that you had CF. I was really excited that CF would be getting attention. But then I saw how you were portrayed and I was pissed at MTV. I know that they edit things to make people seem worse than they are, but at least CF did get some attention. Well, anyways....Welcome!!!!!
 
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